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Space Monkey
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Last night I'm out on a first date with a girl and things are progressing smoothly, everything is clicking we are vibing, etc. I go for the pull "are you hungry?" She says yeah. We go buy some groceries and we are back at her place.

I go for the manhandle kiss within a few minutes - she's feeling it, hard. We make out for a few minutes and I pick her by the ass and carry her over to her bed. We keep making out and I start to try to get her clothes off. I get swatted away. I pause for a second and continue where I left off. Again making out with her, try a different approach for getting clothes off. Shut down again. So I smile at her and suggest we make dinner.

We make dinner and I keep selling my sexy persona.

We are over on her couch and we are back to embracing and making out again. I'm kissing her neck, her collarbone and slowly moving down her body with my kisses. Back and forth slowing moving down her body as Alek suggested in one of his articles. I get down to her breasts, kissing them hard and pull out her tit with my face and start sucking her tit. I slowly go back up her neck and she shuts down again.

I tried everything from yes ladders, to time constraints but I wasn't getting any objections - just hard no's. I asked her if she wanted to me intimate with me and got an "eventually or soon or something along those lines." I tried the what are we waiting for, not time the present but she remained stone.

She was pretty interested in my place - I had told her I was getting my own apartment next week - and my conclusion is that she wants this to happen at my place.

All help and insight is GREATLY appreciated. Thanks!
 
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Mr.Rob

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Hmm yeah perhaps making the dinner sort of threw things off.

Instead of "selling your sexy persona" what if you would've made her sell hers sexy persona to you? Get her chasing after you.

DrexelScott said:
The way to deal with any LMR in my world is the same: try once or twice, then throw them out of my house.
Lol Icey Pimp shit.

However I personally don't mind LMR. It's like trying to figure out those fucking ridiculous "logic/magic puzzles" where you have like two weird shapes that are supposed to come apart and it looks easy but when you try and fucking take the thing apart it's harder than you thought. Then you just twist it the right way and boom it comes apart easy as shit.
I feel super pimp when I brake past crazy LMR.
My world of LMR looks like this: Escalate, say whatever it takes (within reason), and don't stop until she either flees in terror or has sex. No polite "I had a nice night" followed by the kiss on the cheek goodbye, which to me reads "I had a nice night and I'm never going to fuck you".

Also one thing I've noticed that definitely helps is to actually take your dick out and put her hand on it. I've done this a few times and it helped seal the deal from maybe to YES.

You want LMR motivation JDB_40K? Check this out:https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=7012&p=33291#p33291
My homie Marty's LR in which he went through 6 hours of LMR before getting to sex.
 
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