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Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Guys seem to be having issue dealing with boyfriends when interacting with women, there are different types of partners/bf/hubby:

red.- The territorial macho guys, insecure, no secret society, alpha territorial types.- These guys thankfully are very unusual now a days, but they still exist but unlikely.... they may get confrontational if they see you talking to the girl..... Again this is very unlikely unless you are dealing with the gang dude type or a very small percentage of population in the west, though may be more prevalent in some Latin American countries and some eastern Europe...

Yellow.- This are your typical cool guys.... They usually know that you did not know she was taken and that was his girl, guy will just be cool and engage with the girl for you to take the hint, if they even have to do that, they are secure in the relationship.... They will let you dance with the girl, flirt and talk to her, and they won't be a confrontation, Most seducers fall here....

Green.- These are guys that are open and part of the lifestyle, they will let you do whatever you want with the girl or even hook you up with their girl.... Part of the lifestyle (open relationships)....

So how to deal with them:

- With the reds partners, don't try to fight let the dude win and be the alpha..... "oh shit my bad omg, i meant no disrespect sorry about that" submissive body language and betaness, soften your voice, be very apologetic.... I even joke around and combine with covering my face and head in protecting mode (but is over the top trolling)....

- With the yellows partners.- there is nothing you really need to do, you will get the hint, and just stop trying to seduce their girl and introduce yourself and be friendly and cool and move along, don't waste your time...

-With the greens.- Is cool just be respectful to the dude and acknowledge the dude and the dynamics, don't make it a big deal and don't troll or look down or disrespect the partner in anyway or act surprise and confused cause he is letting you seduce his girl...

^ Now you need to take every mix set as GAME ON.- LET ME EXPLAIN, you need to be careful cause a lot of times, is not a boyfriend, but a friend or a gay friend, never assume shit, i can tell your how many women, still me writing this, i assume they are taking due to being in a mix group and they were not, usually a gay friend, or a brother, or an orbiter, or someone she just met cold approaching just like you.....

Best way is to go into each interaction and ask after opening "how you guys know each other"? Usually the girl if she likes you a lot will advice "he is just my friend", "that is my brother" "i just met him"

Finally, if women are taken is not over, you can isolate, and when she says she has a "bf" or "hubby" present, act normal and say cool we are just talking if he comes just tell him i am "your gay friend" or " you know me from high school" i personally like the gay one the best... Also slip or memorize number, a lot of partners of taken women will fuck you and are willing to cheat....


^ what you don't want to do is "amog" and get confrontational, is not needed, and is not the same fighting a dude vs fighting a crazy overtaken by jealousy and anger dude, plus not worth it, plenty of pussy out there...






 
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