This is just my opinion, don't play into a role. Don't be stuck in your self image. Don't try to be something to get other people's approval, or female validation and sex. Work on becoming the best version of yourself. Be present to the moment, don't be in your head thinking about what your face looks like. Be focused on what is happening, what you are doing at that exact moment. If you're talking to an attractive girl and you're in the moment, not thinking anything other than about what is going on, then you would be having a good time. You would have to be because you aren't thinking anything negative. You don't need anything because that would just be a thought about the future. In the present moment you're just talking to a girl and thats all. So when you're focused and clear headed, you will be having fun. Happiness is the default state. Girls are attracted to guys who have real authentic positive emotions.
Meditation helps massively with this. Meditate 20 minutes every day by staring at the wall. Then go start meeting women and just be how you feel. When you get acceptance for being your true self, thats when you build the most confidence. Otherwise you'll develop some weird personality disorder where you feel you need to play a role to be accepted and you can't just be yourself.
Btw if you do this, you're default facial expression will naturally become attractive to women. Body language and everything takes care of itself. Men are naturally attractive to women. There really isn't anything to learn. Most men are just too anxious to be naturally attractive. You just have to get rid of the bullshit thoughts and learn social awareness which is done by taking massive action to meet new women while staying present to the moment.
Meditation helps massively with this. Meditate 20 minutes every day by staring at the wall. Then go start meeting women and just be how you feel. When you get acceptance for being your true self, thats when you build the most confidence. Otherwise you'll develop some weird personality disorder where you feel you need to play a role to be accepted and you can't just be yourself.
Btw if you do this, you're default facial expression will naturally become attractive to women. Body language and everything takes care of itself. Men are naturally attractive to women. There really isn't anything to learn. Most men are just too anxious to be naturally attractive. You just have to get rid of the bullshit thoughts and learn social awareness which is done by taking massive action to meet new women while staying present to the moment.
