I just started grad school. Equal ration of men:women. I've got my fundamentals handled and I give off a sexy vibe. Makes me rare since there are only a handful of strong, sexy men out of 500 students. The women are intelligent, a few are sexy, but many of them are cluster b's, unfortunately. A few observations and questions:
1. The women who feel they're less attractive than I am attempt to console me and offer school advice so they can get into deeper topics. It's really weird and wastes my time. How can I make clear they're friendzoned? I've noticed attraction spikes when girls want me to invite them for drinks and I tell them they're friendzoned. I've only been able to get away with it because I've prohibited myself from hooking up with women in my cohort. It will create bitterness if #3 applies and I pursue business expansion.
2. I pursue women outside of school, and that has made my female classmates covetous. I'm unapologetically anti-relationship at this point in my life and some girls have told me directly "they aren't looking for a relationship." I'm skeptical but take their statement at face value. Problem: I must see these women (almost) everyday. Since I started following girlschase, I've pursued women outside my social circle and learned to value non-repeat interactions for quick pulls. I'm not skilled in social circle game. But these aren't even social interactions really. I probably wouldn't be friends with these women if didn't attend the same school. Should I apply social circle tactics or is there a special wrinkle related to proximity that merits further consideration?
3. I'm 27. Most of the women in my program are 23-24 and have only slept with less than 10 men. Almost certainly less than 10. But all women in close-knit settings value discretion because reputation matters. Many of them don't appreciate when I'm signaling discretion without saying it outright, however. Any advice on making it more explicit for this age group?
1. The women who feel they're less attractive than I am attempt to console me and offer school advice so they can get into deeper topics. It's really weird and wastes my time. How can I make clear they're friendzoned? I've noticed attraction spikes when girls want me to invite them for drinks and I tell them they're friendzoned. I've only been able to get away with it because I've prohibited myself from hooking up with women in my cohort. It will create bitterness if #3 applies and I pursue business expansion.
2. I pursue women outside of school, and that has made my female classmates covetous. I'm unapologetically anti-relationship at this point in my life and some girls have told me directly "they aren't looking for a relationship." I'm skeptical but take their statement at face value. Problem: I must see these women (almost) everyday. Since I started following girlschase, I've pursued women outside my social circle and learned to value non-repeat interactions for quick pulls. I'm not skilled in social circle game. But these aren't even social interactions really. I probably wouldn't be friends with these women if didn't attend the same school. Should I apply social circle tactics or is there a special wrinkle related to proximity that merits further consideration?
3. I'm 27. Most of the women in my program are 23-24 and have only slept with less than 10 men. Almost certainly less than 10. But all women in close-knit settings value discretion because reputation matters. Many of them don't appreciate when I'm signaling discretion without saying it outright, however. Any advice on making it more explicit for this age group?
