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Developing ick factor after getting girl?

rulesofloaded

Space Monkey
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I have quite an interesting problem.Whenever I meet a really cute girl that I want to take to bed and I manage to seducer her,I pretty much lose all interest and sometimes even become disgusted by said girl,even if she is not too easy.
Basically,every girl I get(even if they're absolutely gorgeous) later I become almost disgusted.
What's going on?
 
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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hi,

Does the same thing happen if you "imagine" getting with a cute girl? eg you imagine sleeping with the woman, and then you get disgusted in this imaginary scenario just like the real life scenario, or is it different when you imagine it? For this to work, you gotta have a good imagination to properly test it.

Are you tieing sleeping with a woman as the start of a long term relationship? Could you value sex lots, but conversation not much at all?

Maybe you're not sure you want kids/family/relationship, and you then get turned off?

Also, when you say disgusted, do you see physical flaws that weren't there before, even though they look exactly the same?

Could be that you want what you can't have the most, love the most from afar, and anything less than that isn't good enough?

Were you brought up, or have a theory from somewhere, that sex is bad/evil/wrong from religion or parents or something?
 
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I have quite an interesting problem.Whenever I meet a really cute girl that I want to take to bed and I manage to seducer her,I pretty much lose all interest and sometimes even become disgusted by said girl,even if she is not too easy.
Basically,every girl I get(even if they're absolutely gorgeous) later I become almost disgusted.
What's going on?


if is post sex,it happens, if is pre sex is total cope aka you succeeded so far in the seduction process and you do not want to be face with a fucking it up and face the rejection.
 

rulesofloaded

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hi,

Does the same thing happen if you "imagine" getting with a cute girl? eg you imagine sleeping with the woman, and then you get disgusted in this imaginary scenario just like the real life scenario, or is it different when you imagine it? For this to work, you gotta have a good imagination to properly test it.

Are you tieing sleeping with a woman as the start of a long term relationship? Could you value sex lots, but conversation not much at all?

Maybe you're not sure you want kids/family/relationship, and you then get turned off?

Also, when you say disgusted, do you see physical flaws that weren't there before, even though they look exactly the same?

Could be that you want what you can't have the most, love the most from afar, and anything less than that isn't good enough?

Were you brought up, or have a theory from somewhere, that sex is bad/evil/wrong from religion or parents or something?

Hello,

In my imagination I never get this feeling.I also do not have any inhibitions about sex and I don't see it leading to a long term relationship.

As for the coping thing,I felt that before but it's quite different from this.

I believe it could be because of self esteem issues,because some time ago I used to be really ugly and unpopular,and now I view any girl that is attracted to me as low value in my subconscious.I do not believe I have low self-esteem however.
 
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