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So I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks, actually met her on tinder (i know i know)
So we've been on 3 dates, kissed on first quite a lovely girl always chatty and kind.
Yesterday i took her back to my house and we had sex, This wasnt forced my by me i was just kissing her and wanted it, she even told me to fuck her so i dont think i forced in that sense, we had sex and then immediately after she went really cold and weird and shortly after decided to go home on the way to her car she said she wished we would've waited longer and she doesnt want to seem like a slut.
So i called her when she got home and she seemed fine.. like nothing was wrong and she was if not much more affectionate and sweet then she called me last night for a final chat before you fell asleep and told me to send her a nice text so i did wasnt too serious kinda just a goodnight and good luck for tomorrow because she was starting a new job today.
She's been active on facebook all day
She's read my message..
She's finished work...
And for the first time she just hasnt replied and this isnt like her, what do i do? Thanks.
 

Richard

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I'll tell you what you don't do; brood over it.

You're putting more into this than she is; why have you been on Facebook all day to see that she's been on? Why does it matter that she read your text and didn't respond? Why does the fact that she finished work matter?

She's just one girl - let her be, if she wants to see you again she'll reach out to you. In the mean time, go talk to other women.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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