This is from a few weeks ago and so I cannot remember exact quotes but I have somewhat of an idea of what went down.
Anyways one of my mates had the free house for a night and decided to have a small gathering. It was a last minute thing and he lives kinda far so we couldn't get that many people to come. My mate was texting some girl so he invited her and her friend over. He went and picked them up in his car and I came along. The girl my mate was chatting to is called Mia and her friend Amy a busty brunette with a nose ring (great tits and ass). We picked them up and got past some small talk and I could tell Amy was a little interested at this point. We got to the liquor store and both girls weren't 18 yet so Mia gave me some money so i could buy her drinks (I'm 19) and told me to give her my phone so she could write it in the notes what drink shes getting (she said this in a very demanding way). I didn't give her my phone even though she insisted and even snatched it off me playfully. I said i have a good memory and for her to just tell me the name of the drink. When she asked for me to repeat I repeated something that was completely wrong and got out of the car (I knew what drink she wanted). Anyways I got the drink and took a big drink out of it before giving it to her and smiled.
Fast forward to later on I was deep diving Amy and I could tell she was really interested, she was tossing her hair, focusing her attention on me and when she spoke with me she was very enthusiastic and open. I was also using incidental touch and also playful sexual touch we seemed to connect, it was obvious that we both wanted sex to happen (that was the what I sensed from her). I was also using chase/sexual frames but i was drunk and it was a while ago so I don't know exactly what I said or if it was smooth or not (from memory she responded well to them). Anyways we were all sitting around drinking for a bit and she brought up music so I told her to come with me to the garage so we can look for something that plays music. We got there and started flirting for a bit and getting really close and physical, I held off going for the kiss because I felt it would maybe ruin the tension? as in everyone expected us to come back out within a few minutes so I thought I couldn't really escalate to sex there so ultimaely decided to hold off the kiss for that purpose (was this the right move??). So we get back after and play a group drinking game (never have I ever).
Mia gets a call and its her boyfriend starting a fight with her and so she gets really emotional and they momentarily break up. But after while on the phone being emotional and talking with her other friends on the phone she decides to stay with her boyfriend but is in a really bitchy/cockblocking mood. immediately my other mate stops trying with her and by this point Im pretty drunk and tired too (its about 3:30).
Mia starts trying to organize a lift home so her and Amy can leave but Amy seems a little on the fence. I convince Mia to stay and I managed to stay in the living room with 2 couches just me and Amy. She takes off her pants in front of me and puts on some pajamas she brought for the night. I went to the toilet and my mates room to grab condoms. Then Mia steals the couch somehow when i get up to go to the toilet and when i get back I tell her to get off and she doesn't so I pull her off playfully lol. (but then i realised after this goes against the law of least effort.) she got up and said this as she stormed out
Mia: you're not having sex with my girl tonight
Me: look who's the one with sex on their mind
Mia: don't have sex with him Amy!
And she left but was in the next room (there were no doors either). At this point I gave up and passed out on the couch. I felt like it would have been too creepy to get up and get in her couch or whatever espeacially after what her friend had said.
My questions are how can i develop a stronger killer instinct? Should I have tried to escalate with her before we had a place to sleep? and should I have still tried something after what her friend said, and if so what could have I tried doing given the logistics.
Anyways one of my mates had the free house for a night and decided to have a small gathering. It was a last minute thing and he lives kinda far so we couldn't get that many people to come. My mate was texting some girl so he invited her and her friend over. He went and picked them up in his car and I came along. The girl my mate was chatting to is called Mia and her friend Amy a busty brunette with a nose ring (great tits and ass). We picked them up and got past some small talk and I could tell Amy was a little interested at this point. We got to the liquor store and both girls weren't 18 yet so Mia gave me some money so i could buy her drinks (I'm 19) and told me to give her my phone so she could write it in the notes what drink shes getting (she said this in a very demanding way). I didn't give her my phone even though she insisted and even snatched it off me playfully. I said i have a good memory and for her to just tell me the name of the drink. When she asked for me to repeat I repeated something that was completely wrong and got out of the car (I knew what drink she wanted). Anyways I got the drink and took a big drink out of it before giving it to her and smiled.
Fast forward to later on I was deep diving Amy and I could tell she was really interested, she was tossing her hair, focusing her attention on me and when she spoke with me she was very enthusiastic and open. I was also using incidental touch and also playful sexual touch we seemed to connect, it was obvious that we both wanted sex to happen (that was the what I sensed from her). I was also using chase/sexual frames but i was drunk and it was a while ago so I don't know exactly what I said or if it was smooth or not (from memory she responded well to them). Anyways we were all sitting around drinking for a bit and she brought up music so I told her to come with me to the garage so we can look for something that plays music. We got there and started flirting for a bit and getting really close and physical, I held off going for the kiss because I felt it would maybe ruin the tension? as in everyone expected us to come back out within a few minutes so I thought I couldn't really escalate to sex there so ultimaely decided to hold off the kiss for that purpose (was this the right move??). So we get back after and play a group drinking game (never have I ever).
Mia gets a call and its her boyfriend starting a fight with her and so she gets really emotional and they momentarily break up. But after while on the phone being emotional and talking with her other friends on the phone she decides to stay with her boyfriend but is in a really bitchy/cockblocking mood. immediately my other mate stops trying with her and by this point Im pretty drunk and tired too (its about 3:30).
Mia starts trying to organize a lift home so her and Amy can leave but Amy seems a little on the fence. I convince Mia to stay and I managed to stay in the living room with 2 couches just me and Amy. She takes off her pants in front of me and puts on some pajamas she brought for the night. I went to the toilet and my mates room to grab condoms. Then Mia steals the couch somehow when i get up to go to the toilet and when i get back I tell her to get off and she doesn't so I pull her off playfully lol. (but then i realised after this goes against the law of least effort.) she got up and said this as she stormed out
Mia: you're not having sex with my girl tonight
Me: look who's the one with sex on their mind
Mia: don't have sex with him Amy!
And she left but was in the next room (there were no doors either). At this point I gave up and passed out on the couch. I felt like it would have been too creepy to get up and get in her couch or whatever espeacially after what her friend had said.
My questions are how can i develop a stronger killer instinct? Should I have tried to escalate with her before we had a place to sleep? and should I have still tried something after what her friend said, and if so what could have I tried doing given the logistics.
