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I've recently started using apps again and I seem to be unable to build sexual tension with girls I meet up with from apps. To be clear, I'm talking about hanging out with these girls in person.
Building sexual tension has always been a strength of mine and not something I've really struggled with when meeting girls in person (closing has always been my weakest spot). However with most girls I meet online there seems to be a weird mental barrier where she is completely closed off from sexual tension. Strangely enough these girls still end up sleeping with me sometimes, although it's typically unsatisfying as a result of the lack of sexual tension. I often end up very disoriented.
This has happened too many times to chalk up to chance. My current hypothesis is that the type of girls who mainly use the apps are sexually liberated in the sense they feel no societal restraints from having sex, but are so overly rational/autistic that they can't pick up on things like me trying to build sexual tension. Another theory is that I'm less attracted to them as the girls I meet online (since they are on average less hot) and its harder for me to build the sexual tension without my own desire, although there cute enough to bang so I don't see this being the reason.
It's also possible theres something off on my end. IDK. Basically just wondering if anyones experienced or noticed a similar phenomenon.
Building sexual tension has always been a strength of mine and not something I've really struggled with when meeting girls in person (closing has always been my weakest spot). However with most girls I meet online there seems to be a weird mental barrier where she is completely closed off from sexual tension. Strangely enough these girls still end up sleeping with me sometimes, although it's typically unsatisfying as a result of the lack of sexual tension. I often end up very disoriented.
This has happened too many times to chalk up to chance. My current hypothesis is that the type of girls who mainly use the apps are sexually liberated in the sense they feel no societal restraints from having sex, but are so overly rational/autistic that they can't pick up on things like me trying to build sexual tension. Another theory is that I'm less attracted to them as the girls I meet online (since they are on average less hot) and its harder for me to build the sexual tension without my own desire, although there cute enough to bang so I don't see this being the reason.
It's also possible theres something off on my end. IDK. Basically just wondering if anyones experienced or noticed a similar phenomenon.
