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Hi Guys,
You will occasionally counsel your friends if your friends accidentally brushes off someone without being too aware of the people looking on. However, at times, your friend did dismiss the person because the person was badly unsocially calibrated
Many people don't realize that we are selfish. What if we counsel our friends and they apologize to the person and that person turn out to be a fucktard?
And this is the dilemma i notice that happens to me all the time. On one hand, I give counsel because it can be too dismissive and harsh. On the other hand, i am pulling away my friend's instinct. This is like how parents try to tame children and the children hate them years later because you are literally killing the building blocks of a natural defense mechanism.
So don't do that.
Any thoughts?
Zac
You will occasionally counsel your friends if your friends accidentally brushes off someone without being too aware of the people looking on. However, at times, your friend did dismiss the person because the person was badly unsocially calibrated
Many people don't realize that we are selfish. What if we counsel our friends and they apologize to the person and that person turn out to be a fucktard?
And this is the dilemma i notice that happens to me all the time. On one hand, I give counsel because it can be too dismissive and harsh. On the other hand, i am pulling away my friend's instinct. This is like how parents try to tame children and the children hate them years later because you are literally killing the building blocks of a natural defense mechanism.
So don't do that.
Any thoughts?
Zac
