dilemma - regular sex girls removing motivation

[girlsfollow]

have a girl that comes over for sex and hanging out and seems to manage to stay longer than planned (was supposed to be just friday night - she only just left sunday eve) - now I feel I wont be totally charged for tuesdays date....what do I do to stop this happening again...

this time I tried to ask her to leave and on different occasions she got really upset or tried to seduce me. Its likely it would come down to either stopping seeing her totally or just give in to her... there is no room for a middle ground here or FWB/FB sicne she wants a relationship - just your thoughts on it would be interesting in how you made the decision with it

 

[Chase]

GF-

This is what girls do best

I think I have it in a post somewhere on the boards, but my general recommendation is, if you have a regular girl you're seeing whom you're going to be spending part of the weekend with, see her on SATURDAY nights, because that way if she manages to claw out all of the next day from you, the weekend's over after that and you'll only have lost a day... and not two.

What I might recommend for now is controlling your ejaculate so that you don't cum with your weekend girl (or, perhaps, just cum the first time you have sex, then none of the subsequent ones). This will prevent her from draining out all your vital essence and leaving you depleted for other women during the week... which is exactly what she's trying to do. If she asks you why you're not cumming, just tell her you're not made of semen... geez! She already got a lot out of you on Friday / Saturday.

Chase

 

[Eric]

GF-

This is what girls do best

I think I have it in a post somewhere on the boards, but my general recommendation is, if you have a regular girl you're seeing whom you're going to be spending part of the weekend with, see her on SATURDAY nights, because that way if she manages to claw out all of the next day from you, the weekend's over after that and you'll only have lost a day... and not two.

What I might recommend for now is controlling your ejaculate so that you don't cum with your weekend girl (or, perhaps, just cum the first time you have sex, then none of the subsequent ones). This will prevent her from draining out all your vital essence and leaving you depleted for other women during the week... which is exactly what she's trying to do. If she asks you why you're not cumming, just tell her you're not made of semen... geez! She already got a lot out of you on Friday / Saturday.

Chase

This made me almost spit out my coffee.

 

[girlsfollow]

GF-

This is what girls do best

I think I have it in a post somewhere on the boards, but my general recommendation is, if you have a regular girl you're seeing whom you're going to be spending part of the weekend with, see her on SATURDAY nights, because that way if she manages to claw out all of the next day from you, the weekend's over after that and you'll only have lost a day... and not two.

What I might recommend for now is controlling your ejaculate so that you don't cum with your weekend girl (or, perhaps, just cum the first time you have sex, then none of the subsequent ones). This will prevent her from draining out all your vital essence and leaving you depleted for other women during the week... which is exactly what she's trying to do. If she asks you why you're not cumming, just tell her you're not made of semen... geez! She already got a lot out of you on Friday / Saturday.

Chase

This hits the nail on the head with EXACTLY what I was thinking on BOTH points.

I was thinking of just doing sundays or mondays (at a stretch super careful saturdays). When she's here its like we go into a time warp - not much gets done despite best intentions from both of us at first and at the end its like the weekend has been totally wasted - small doses is the way to go!

And the not ejaculating is a MASSIVE deal. Seriously I feel SOO drained right now - shes just stolen it all from me! To prove how fundamentally this effects me, I was epic in the gym last wednesday (after not having seen her for 2 weeks) - then today I couldn't get any aggression, passion or focus at all - and I know this translates to sex directly. I've known this for some time, I actually previously had a rule of not cumming with this girl - but it seems shes worked out a way to break that barrier by being extra naughty etc - right this moment I am fixing that break, as you say they are PRO at draining it - its not even that fun anymore - its like she just makes me cum as many times as possible - by the end its not even that enjoyable but its like she managed to put me on autopilot into doing it....as you say its what they evolved for, she can tell I'm a catch and wants to nail it down - expect needing to have some proper self control - mental preparation is key and necessary for this - as crazy as it may sound this is serious business and can have a big impact on life