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So ,.... I had been dealing with some regret over how I lost a chick due to missing escalation windows over 2 months .
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And regardless of it , I went to do some Daygame with a wing .
So , I did some warm ups a direct approach to a group of 6 girls sitting on a table . They were smiling and everything but due to my wing not able to handle this and me not feeling up to the mark ..... I decided to end the interaction just a bit after the open .
Another . A solo girl waiting for someone dressed really pretty .... Went to her and direct opened her .
Exchanged names but when I cold read her a bit ...she told me that she was waiting for someone ..
And i had to leave .
Actually, I already knew she was waiting for someone but I did it regardless of it.
And that's pretty much it . I didn't want to put pressure on me today .
I will keep it a low rn and gradually increase the number of approaches till 4-5 but I am actually focusing more on pushing forward the convos , now as have some experience due to having dates previously .
I hope to get out of the rut and find future dates that are better .
Note : somewhere in my 3.5+ months journey ... I started focusing more on getting one special girl rather than becoming better at this craft and getting more girls which kind of backfired
Special Girl - How to deal with regret / missed opportunities
I had this girl with whom i went on date a few times but never even kissed despite she asking me about my hookup history and was very sexual on our first date . I was a pussy back then when it came to this stuff . These days I am getting the gist of it . My regret with her is that she wanted...
www.skilledseducer.com
And regardless of it , I went to do some Daygame with a wing .
So , I did some warm ups a direct approach to a group of 6 girls sitting on a table . They were smiling and everything but due to my wing not able to handle this and me not feeling up to the mark ..... I decided to end the interaction just a bit after the open .
Another . A solo girl waiting for someone dressed really pretty .... Went to her and direct opened her .
Exchanged names but when I cold read her a bit ...she told me that she was waiting for someone ..
And i had to leave .
Actually, I already knew she was waiting for someone but I did it regardless of it.
And that's pretty much it . I didn't want to put pressure on me today .
I will keep it a low rn and gradually increase the number of approaches till 4-5 but I am actually focusing more on pushing forward the convos , now as have some experience due to having dates previously .
I hope to get out of the rut and find future dates that are better .
Note : somewhere in my 3.5+ months journey ... I started focusing more on getting one special girl rather than becoming better at this craft and getting more girls which kind of backfired
