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Guys, give me your thoughts on this one, pleawe. Was my judgement off on this one or did I play it right?
This morning I was working from my neighborhood café. It's been a long since last seeing her there but a chick was there
who had been eyeing me when I used to go there earlier but got a bit colder later on (closed escalation window?)
I haven't made any moves on her there because a) sometimes I'm a plain old pussy b) I've already approached 2 or 3 guns working
in that particular café one of whom turned out being a bit younger than socially acceptable for my shenangians.
It's my paranoid imagination or I'm really picking some salty vibes from their manager
Be as its but today I was flirting and joking with her just for fun, because I was in that state of mind, not really intent on grabbing numbers or "making approaches".
As I was just stepping out to leave, she happened walk by and I said "hasta luego" (It's not Spain here, nor Mexico, etc etc.)
Athlete: What?
Me: HASTA LUEGO
Her: What's that?
Me: It's Spanish, back to school you now!
Us: Bla bla bla..
We speak for about half a minute, I get a some investment and she qualifies herself a bit for me as she's telling me her some things about herself and I bust her chops a bit.
Me: Well, that's interesting, we should talk more about it!
Her: Yes
Me: Uh, got a phone or something?
Her: Mm sure
Me: Cool, go get a pen
Now is the critical part of the whole interaction.
When we were talking, none of her colleagues where within our line of sight. She goes back to the counter to get pen and paper.
I take a step closer and notice that one of her colleagues is behind the counter as well.
My gut feeling was to take a step back and stay there and let her walk back to me and hand me her number to me.
Discretion! Less pressure on her, better social frame. Or so I thought.
I stay out of sight of her colleague and give her a chance to casually walk back to me and hand me her number.
Well, that's not what happened! She scribbled down her number and just puttered there behind the counter.
Me thinking: Come on girl, what the F are doing now? I waited a few more seconds, feeling the situation getting awkward.
She took a few steps closer to her colleague and they exchanged a few words. Hmm.. no bueno! Then she gestured handing over the number over the counter in an awkward way so I went and took it. Said something that related back what we spoke of earlier but it wasn't really smooth nor did it dissolve the awkward tension.
I took the number, forced as natural of a smile as possible and walked away.
What do you guys think, should I have handled this differently? Would it have been better to walk straight up slap my big ass cojones on the counter and force the frame of me getting her number and us getting together later as normal as milk on cereal?
- Rakkum
This morning I was working from my neighborhood café. It's been a long since last seeing her there but a chick was there
who had been eyeing me when I used to go there earlier but got a bit colder later on (closed escalation window?)
I haven't made any moves on her there because a) sometimes I'm a plain old pussy b) I've already approached 2 or 3 guns working
in that particular café one of whom turned out being a bit younger than socially acceptable for my shenangians.
It's my paranoid imagination or I'm really picking some salty vibes from their manager
Be as its but today I was flirting and joking with her just for fun, because I was in that state of mind, not really intent on grabbing numbers or "making approaches".
As I was just stepping out to leave, she happened walk by and I said "hasta luego" (It's not Spain here, nor Mexico, etc etc.)
Athlete: What?
Me: HASTA LUEGO
Her: What's that?
Me: It's Spanish, back to school you now!
Us: Bla bla bla..
We speak for about half a minute, I get a some investment and she qualifies herself a bit for me as she's telling me her some things about herself and I bust her chops a bit.
Me: Well, that's interesting, we should talk more about it!
Her: Yes
Me: Uh, got a phone or something?
Her: Mm sure
Me: Cool, go get a pen
Now is the critical part of the whole interaction.
When we were talking, none of her colleagues where within our line of sight. She goes back to the counter to get pen and paper.
I take a step closer and notice that one of her colleagues is behind the counter as well.
My gut feeling was to take a step back and stay there and let her walk back to me and hand me her number to me.
Discretion! Less pressure on her, better social frame. Or so I thought.
I stay out of sight of her colleague and give her a chance to casually walk back to me and hand me her number.
Well, that's not what happened! She scribbled down her number and just puttered there behind the counter.
Me thinking: Come on girl, what the F are doing now? I waited a few more seconds, feeling the situation getting awkward.
She took a few steps closer to her colleague and they exchanged a few words. Hmm.. no bueno! Then she gestured handing over the number over the counter in an awkward way so I went and took it. Said something that related back what we spoke of earlier but it wasn't really smooth nor did it dissolve the awkward tension.
I took the number, forced as natural of a smile as possible and walked away.
What do you guys think, should I have handled this differently? Would it have been better to walk straight up slap my big ass cojones on the counter and force the frame of me getting her number and us getting together later as normal as milk on cereal?
- Rakkum