Do girls act indifferent if you don't seem attainable?

[sneaky_charm]

So I went to a nearby city today and found a strange thing. Normally, most of the girls give me looks, but today that didn't happen much, almost to the point of not at all.

Before I was quite underweight. I'm still underweight but have been eating right for a while, and some people have told me that I've gained weight and look better.

It could have been that I wasn't dressed well, or my hair didn't look good, or I moved bad, or I was all sweaty. But, still I'm quite surprised.

Do girls act like you don't exist or there is this aura of indifference or similar when they think that you're not attainable? Or do I need to tweak some things?

 

[Michal]

Hello,

Different cities can have different sexual market setup. About a year ago, when I was on Tinder a lot, I traveled to our second biggest city in the country which is like 3 hour drive (so for US people, I guess that would count as nearby and the matches I got were like 20 to 30% more attractive generaly speaking. Chase had an article on this somewhere, I do not remember its title though. Maybe this effect took place in your example. Or what you mentioned about your attire and hair could be a factor as well.

EDIT: also, is it possible you just did not notice them? I barely notice a girl looking at me but when I am with friends they tell me that some girl was looking at me. Same is when I look around while being in a group, it is easier to notice a girl cheching out someone in our group. They do like 3 super rapid glances almost from 90 degree angle, it is crazy! Like going down the escalator to underground metro station etc. On the other hand, sometimes the girl just stares at you directly and is not really concerned whether or not you catch her

 

[strictlyincreasing]

Hey. I'm having the same problem.

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Could it be that we're just too ugly? Or too scary/tough looking? GC vets have said many times that it's all about looks (fundamentals), that attraction is there or it isn't, and that a woman is either interested or she is not.

 

[trashKENNUT]

sc,

Need more data.

I dress like shit and girls turn. I also have ugly girls look at me in disgust. This is also called as 'negs'. Girl's version. Need a rough data on

- fundamentals
- what you know
- awareness level
- who they look like
- culture/environment (did you dress like a Priest in a club?)

Zac