Do I care too much?

[Huge Jack Man]

I realised there’s this particular type of girls I sometimes end up dating and they confuse the living daylight out of me. I’m used to girls demonstrating their interest in me. When we’re in bed, they wanna cuddle up with me and be physical a lot of times. They regularly tell me how they feel about me over text and just generally vocalise and demonstrate their interest in me. But a few times I get the nonchalant girls who will don’t overtly show or say how they feel or probably just do it once in a while. A lot of times I have to constantly initiate sex or cuddling or talks about how we feel about each other. And a lot of times their responses are quite dull. Few times their responses are more energetic. The most consistent way they show interest in me is by constantly wanting my attention. They would like to spend time with me over the phone everyday almost all day when we’re apart, they would wanna hang out with me if I go out. To the best of my knowledge though they don’t sleep with anybody else but me while we’re dating though. Am I reading too much into things and they actually like me but are just like that personality wise? Or am I just being used?