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Being in the game can change your perceptions of women and make you jaded. When you go through a lot of girls you are bound to get a few low quality girls and your heart broken as well, or manipulated and played.
You will also see women cheat on their boyfriends and their husbands without remorse or hesitation. I've gotten with more girls than I care to think about who had boyfriends. And one married woman. It was scary with the married woman, her husband was spam calling while we were together and she answered and lied and had a stock excuse ready, she was with her friend.
How can you trust women after these experiences? Or how can you not be paranoid? How can you date a girl and believe she's being faithful, or that any woman can be faithful?
Misogynistic thoughts are inevitable to every player. But you can't allow them to grow past a small seed in your mind. Snip it in the bud before it grows.
Women can sense misogyny in some cases, the hotter the girl the more socially calibrated she is and the more she is capable of thin-slicing (rapid cognition, making accurate estimations and predictions about your personality from a small piece of information).
Not every girl will be unfaithful, but also, its entirely situational. Don't judge, it depends on what stage of their life they are in, the person they are dating, and a myriad of factors.
Becoming jaded sometimes is inevitable. Let those stages pass as they simply will over time. You'll get an accurate grasp of reality eventually, when you're deeply hurt you'll need some time sometimes to be jaded or hurt or angry at the world. We are human. Even players who girls feel are heartless. We hurt. We cry. We feel. We're flawed. But the men on here are improving themselves and working on their weaknesses, which sets us apart from most, and that is also why this is so essential.
When seeing a girl in a long-term setting: Stay centered within yourself. Trust yourself. Believe in yourself. Everyone is human, people make mistakes, and yes, you may be cheated on or hurt. That is not a representation of all women though.
Hating women as a whole or being sexist is a bitch move that weak men use to externalize blame for their own weaknesses, be strong and the chances of negative outcomes will be greatly reduced, screen girls heavily (choosing the wrong one will be a pointless uphill battle), and don't let fear dictate your actions and beliefs.
You will also see women cheat on their boyfriends and their husbands without remorse or hesitation. I've gotten with more girls than I care to think about who had boyfriends. And one married woman. It was scary with the married woman, her husband was spam calling while we were together and she answered and lied and had a stock excuse ready, she was with her friend.
How can you trust women after these experiences? Or how can you not be paranoid? How can you date a girl and believe she's being faithful, or that any woman can be faithful?
Misogynistic thoughts are inevitable to every player. But you can't allow them to grow past a small seed in your mind. Snip it in the bud before it grows.
Women can sense misogyny in some cases, the hotter the girl the more socially calibrated she is and the more she is capable of thin-slicing (rapid cognition, making accurate estimations and predictions about your personality from a small piece of information).
Not every girl will be unfaithful, but also, its entirely situational. Don't judge, it depends on what stage of their life they are in, the person they are dating, and a myriad of factors.
Becoming jaded sometimes is inevitable. Let those stages pass as they simply will over time. You'll get an accurate grasp of reality eventually, when you're deeply hurt you'll need some time sometimes to be jaded or hurt or angry at the world. We are human. Even players who girls feel are heartless. We hurt. We cry. We feel. We're flawed. But the men on here are improving themselves and working on their weaknesses, which sets us apart from most, and that is also why this is so essential.
When seeing a girl in a long-term setting: Stay centered within yourself. Trust yourself. Believe in yourself. Everyone is human, people make mistakes, and yes, you may be cheated on or hurt. That is not a representation of all women though.
Hating women as a whole or being sexist is a bitch move that weak men use to externalize blame for their own weaknesses, be strong and the chances of negative outcomes will be greatly reduced, screen girls heavily (choosing the wrong one will be a pointless uphill battle), and don't let fear dictate your actions and beliefs.
