Do Women really hate you if you let them go

[trashKENNUT]

My question,

It bothers my mind that i learn that my ex rehash and make as if i am the villain. The irony that my friends contact her and want to fuck her but can't/don't know how/up on their ass.

I am just surprised why would someone hate you. Perhaps i was real while my so called friends aren't? i let her go when i know things were going to go bad, because we were no longer communicating.

wow... i am beyond numb. but i understand..

Zac

 

[Lotus]

Hey Zac,

Meant to respond to this over the weekend but got caught up. I am sorry to hear you are going through a tough time, hang in there buddy.

9 months ago I let my ex go for the same reason, which is where i am pulling reference points from.

I would argue she doesnt' hate you, she loves you and hates that you let her go. She seems like a high value women(ie: your "friends" chasing her) who isn't used to being rejected and it had a massive hit on her ego. Blaming you is a way of protecting herself from the hurt. If it's your fault she feels better about her own deficiencies.

As you "friends" are concerned. That isn't something I would think a high value individual would tolerate within his social circle. You may want to re-evaluate their place in your life.

When you break up with someone of such importance, you have to realize they may not ever want to deal with you again. That was the toughest thing for me... realizing that i was cutting my best friend(at the time) out of my life.... probably for good.

I hope I'm interepreting your question(s) correctly!

-brum

 

[trashKENNUT]

brum,

No worries man. Thanks for the advice. LEt's see where i slip, work on expectation setting and a lot of things. It's annoying but yea..

Zac