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Do women resist isolation when feeling insecure?

Rakehell

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Just had a girl resist isolation with me for no feasible reason in my knowledge. She was super compliant up until that point. Right before the anticipated pull she disappeared into the bathroom for a while.
I concluded that she was either on her period, hadn’t shaved, or was worried about her hygiene down there. Is this a reasonable assessment? It’s fair to say that she wasn’t planning on getting dick today.

If this isn’t clear enough I wrote a pretty lengthy description of the dynamic in my journal.
 

Don Giovanni

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I won't be answering your question, I'm not yet qualified to do so. But as I'm dealing with isolation phase at the moment I could share how I go about it. Again, I'm working on it, so I may not know fully what I'm talking about.

With that being said,
She was super compliant
what exactly did you mean by compliant?

I start off building compliance ladders ASAP. Starting as innocent as holding a bit more intense eye contact, looking at her bracelets and holding her hand a bit longer that needed, giving her a hug after she guesses something or let her hug you, spinning her, then puting her arm around your shoulders, maybe kissing her on the cheek... Then I try to get some excuses to move the girls (''wanna help me buying the drinks'', ''make me company when I go out for a smoke'', ''lets check if the rooftop is open in the club this evening'', stuff like that). When I get to this point I start suggesting a different venue.

And calibrate of course. Ideally you go over these steps fast, then stop when you sense lack of compliance, deliver some material to build compliance and try again.

I'm also thinking about how plausible deniability plays a huge part in all of this. You could be saying most ridiculous things to get her isolated (one I used to do is ''wanna go over there, check out this cool contemporary sculpture'' when there was obviously no sculpture, she knew, when we get there I go into making out). Sexual framing is key here, so she knows whats going on and you don't get the ''why?'' reply. Maybe she even logically doesn't know, being distracted by her emotions and not thinking clearly, but that's what matters, her emotions, that's what seduction is. And the get out of jail free card she gets with it, for her friends that are near by or for her own moral sense.

Girls do this all the time, I got hit on last week by a girl I was not attracted to and after some time getting in to my personal space, she started touching my thigh, to which I gently removed her hand, then she started apologizing for ''loosing balance''. What made it even more obvious is that she kept apologizing for 30min and wanted me to accept her frame of her not hitting on me, just ridiculous... Food for thought.

This is the shit I'm working on currently. Hope it helps. Would be interested in other posters processes, thoughts or suggestions.
 
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Rakehell

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what exactly did you mean by compliant?
In my specific case she went along with my suggestions without resistance. Coming when I called, grabbing things when I asked, moving closer when I asked, mutual physical contact.

I fleshed this out alot more specifically in my journal if you’re in the mood for reading.
 

Don Giovanni

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I read the post in the journal. I see, you're dealing with your work colleague... I was talking about nightgame scenarios :D

Sorry, I don't have any advices for your situation.
 
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