Do you confirm your dates?

[razir110]

I know this has been asked 100 times, but I would like an updated opinion.

I only meet girls via daygame, cold approach. I schedule the date right on the spot.

Would you guy send her a text the day of the date? If yes, then when? 2h before, 8h before?

Ando also, would you ever LOSE a date for TEXTING TO CONFIRM? Can this be a turn off or if she wants to meet you, the fact you confirmed can't make her change her mind?

Thanks!

 

[Kvothe]

go buy hector's texting book- https://www.amazon.com/What-She-Really-Means-Texting-ebook/dp/B0C7HD6NX6 - answers all these questions and gives more info

 

[Adventurer]

Yes always

You're supposed to send it 2 hours before the date but I don't have the nerves to wait until then, I always send it in the morning so that the girl has all day to cancel if she wants

Reduces flake chances to *almost * zero... Because they no longer have any excuse. And if they want to cancel for a shitty reason you can address their objections and get them to show up anyway.

I don't think it can lose you the girl if your pre-date text is low effort

"Hey/Morning <her name>
I'll be there at <time>. First arrived takes a table <optional preference, inside if it's cold etc> "

It's just my version of Chase's text template, it works every time

 

[Police dog]

yeah, always
Best case is if she confirms it first