Do you delete your 'girlschase' history on your PC?

[Jackson Joe]

Do you delete your 'girlschase' history on your PC? - And how would you deal with it, if a chick you slept with accidentally stumbled upon articles along the lines of "How to kiss a girl" and so on? Or supposing you hadn't had sex in years and this mere fact in itself, was rubbed in... by a few friends (girls included) coming across your browser's history.

It's not spelled out on this site, if it's something we should be hiding or not... but I've always viewed it as if I should. Because I know how society has no problem with anyone analysing any subject in great detail, but if you study 'how to chat up girls' it's considered unorthodox.

Anyway for some reason, I guess it's something that I anticipated. And just last week, for the first time in a long while, I got laid. In the morning I awoke to my girl asking for my laptop password. She managed to make this seem like it wasn't a big deal, and I could see she just expected me to give it to her. I wouldn't have expected this sort of confident behaviour out of her and I found it kind of cute for some reason.

I was glad at this moment of my previous habit. I gave her the password, and let her surf away while rested for about 20 minutes or so. I mean, what reason does a guy have not to let someone surf on his PC anyway - unless he's hiding porn or a secret diary. Maybe it would be hassle having to do this if I used the site more often, but luckily I don't.

 

[Rage]

Incognito mode at work

That being said, i don't let chicks touch my shit haha especially ones I'm fucking. It's a matter of respect and boundaries, not a matter of content. But I also don't want my friends finding my shit either.

I adhere to this too; girls: tell them sexily/cheekily you don't get to see that I have dirty things on there . Friends: tell them hey go fuck yourself man that's mine (with a smile). That being said it's an unspoken boundary that you learn to kind of implicty display with people (friends and girlfriends alike). If it's a friend of mine usually they'll have secrets they don't want to share and shit either and they'll try to keep the same level of security/secrecy as well.

It'll be an unspoken understanding of ours. BUt if it does come up yeah I don't like to let girls use my shit anyway and will just tell them yeah no that's mine you don't get to play with that.

Gem

 

[Franco]

Jackson Joe,

I generally tend to be more cautious with girlfriends as I give them more access to things in my apartment (naturally), so I'll make sure that it's very difficult to discover GirlsChase on "accident" by using my browser. Like radeng, I actually use two browsers, and I don't "Bookmark" GirlsChase either.

If it's anything less than a girlfriend, then I just don't give her access to my computer unless I can supervise or I can do it myself. From any position lower than girlfriend, she can't really force you to do anything since she has no power in the relationship, and if she were to get upset or argue about it, I would probably just tell her how absurd it is (and maybe give her an example of how she would feel if I went onto her laptop and dug around) and then kick her out. I'd expect her to text me back later with an apology if she likes me.

As far as whether or not you should let a girl see it, I'm under the impression that it can do more harm than good. There will be some girls who will love the website, but it will usually be older, more experienced women (possibly even MILFs) who've experienced enough to know that there's a lot of truth to what is being said here. If you show it to younger women, they're usually still a bit too idealistic to really grasp everything on this website, and you run the risk of her causing drama over some of the things that are taught here.

Besides, this website is to teach men how to pick up women and give them amazing experiences. It's not for showing women how men learn to pick up women and give them amazing experiences.

- Franco

 

[Dude909]

There's no shame in reading self help forums. Do you think girls don't read dating advice from their stupid magazines, Jezebel etc? I tend not to leave PU stuff tabs open on my laptop for everyone to see but I don't make particular efforts to hide my history either. I think I got called on it a couple times in like 5 years.

Her: "What is this??? Don't tell me you're into that whole POOAH stuf!"
Me: "Wth are you talking about?"
-Shows PU page-
Me: "Ah! pffff haha" (change subject)

 

[ray_zorse]

Yeah, I use incognito mode and delete history, lost at least one lay through carelessness so now I also double check all GC tabs are closed (on my three home computers and my phone) before a date. Slip-ups still occur occasionally but haven't damaged me lately. Yeah I don't have too many issues with girls knowing what I do but in the meet->lay sequence you want to be in control as much as possible, if something isn't an issue why make it one. With my regular gfs I generally explain about approaching and something of my journey but I do not want them reading GC, particularly my journal. Also stuff like saying I like Asian can damage me, we call a spade a spade here and political correctness isn't an issue, BUT it sounds a little racist and also that I might be "into the bamboo" i.e. a guy who fucks a lot of Asian hookers but has little interest in their personality and culture, indeed may be actively scornful / derogatory of it.
Ray

 

[Chase]

I'm surprised no one on here uses / has mentioned Guest accounts.

Jackson-

Two options:

• Turn your guest account on, or
• Just don't let girls use your machine (at all)

Girl: Hey, can I have the password to your PC?

You: I have a lot of work on there I don't want messed up, so I don't let other people use my computer. Here, I'll give you the WiFi password so you can log on on your phone.

This is not just for GC, but for anything. Women on your machine have a habit of:

• OMG, I found your porn collection. I can't BELIEVE you would look at other women besides me!

• Oh no, I'm really sorry, but I just deleted that book you were writing. I was trying to read it, and I guess I hit the wrong key... I'm sorry.

• Hey, so, you left your email opened, and I was reading the emails with your ex-girlfriend, and I decided to write her as you... I hope that's okay.

• I went through your email and added all your exes as Facebook friends.

• Whoa, so, I was just browsing the web and I noticed you had a few tabs open - you have $X MUCH MONEY in your bank account? Holy shit, you're poor/ultra rich/taking me to the Caribbean.

• While you were sleeping, I installed a keystroke logger on your machine so now I can monitor your every action. (probably won't tell you this one, actually)

etc.

"No" is just a good habit to get into on this one.

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

Chase, everyone,

his is not just for GC, but for anything. Women on your machine have a habit of:

OMG, I found your porn collection. I can't BELIEVE you would look at other women besides me!
Oh no, I'm really sorry, but I just deleted that book you were writing. I was trying to read it, and I guess I hit the wrong key... I'm sorry.
Hey, so, you left your email opened, and I was reading the emails with your ex-girlfriend, and I decided to write her as you... I hope that's okay.
I went through your email and added all your exes as Facebook friends.
Whoa, so, I was just browsing the web and I noticed you had a few tabs open - you have $X MUCH MONEY in your bank account? Holy shit, you're poor/ultra rich/taking me to the Caribbean.
While you were sleeping, I installed a keystroke logger on your machine so now I can monitor your every action. (probably won't tell you this one, actually)

etc.

Yes they are f**kers in this way. They are selfish. Not sorry to girls but to Chase for this negativity. It pisses me off for their selfishness in this area.

Zac

 

[Bboy100]

On a similar note- Do you guys tell your male friends about GC (assuming they have no experiance in pickup and you're not yet good enough to "show them this stuff works")? Cause I feel like if I told some of my friends, and they bought into it, it would make this whole process a lot easier. On the other hand, a lot of this stuff comes off as very politically incorrect and also "cold and calculating", both of which create skepticism. So I've never really brought it up with anyone.

 

[Lover]

Bboy,

I've only told my best friend about GC because there is no judgment if we do something out of the way. Of course he thought it was great I studied GC because he knows I'm all about self-improvement in every area that I have had bad experience with. However, I wouldn't dare mentioning GC to somebody else. I think that no matter how you present GC (whether you say it's about self-improvement, becoming a lover of women, developing social skills etc.), in the end it's about becoming a great PUA (in mainstream terms). Living in a highly feminist country I don't even dare opening my mouth about women to anybody. I just pretend to be clueless :'D

 

[ray_zorse]

I haven't really encountered any shaming but rather inertia... although, I never use the word "pickup". I use the words "dating advice" or "dating coaching". This makes all the difference Most of my friends know I'm into pickup. There's a few dudes who I'm a bit disappointed about though. I have really tried, but nogo!

First disappointment is my former neighbour, I did an approach for him the other day, and she was beautiful and highly receptive, we both talked to her for a bit. She had to go so I farewelled her with a warm hug and a kiss on the cheek (this was after a couple of minutes' conversation). Didn't make an impression haha. I said something like "You're recently separated, you need to be dating! That's how you can meet new girls!" and he's like "Nah I'll leave that stuff to you, haha". He even speaks Korean so he would do well with all the Korean chicks in my area, I could lend him my logistics, but no interest, oh well, whatever, so frustrating.

Second disappointment is my former housemate, we used to actually go out trying to pickup girls before I discovered GC, but he's now in a relationship, so I suppose he's ego-protecting by ignoring any mention of pickup and changing the subject... hmm it's a shame. He is discussing marriage and I really wish I could turn him on to some of the relationship management advice, and advice on abundance, cos I suspect scarcity (or even codependence) could well be involved. When we hung out he was a bit immature, he's young, great dude but makes some poor decisions, he could REALLY become a high value man with GC's help!

Another disappointment is a bartender dude in Osaka whom I've become quite close with, the frustrating thing here is he's meeting hot girls daily because they come to drink in his bar, and I've picked up from there quite a few times (has resulted in makeouts but no lays due to FUs on my part), he knows how I operate and I've printed out the newbie assignment for him and Google-translated into Japanese, he's like "mmmm sounds very difficult", offered to take him out, nogo! He's a great dude with lots of friend value and he's friendzoning himself with these girls, I reckon he CLEARLY likes at least one, but hasn't asked her out. Fuck!

How I see it is this. You know a dude who is terrible at piano. You give him some resources which you KNOW can aid learning piano in a very short time. Likely scenario is either he doesn't want to learn piano, or, he's interested but doesn't want to put the hundreds/thousands of hours in. In the best case he's interested, and he'll go read the material and play around with it for a bit, before moving on to other things. If he REALLY wanted to learn piano he would've found it himself! (My cousin is another interesting case, he is into pickup but not reading the right material and not going out enough, I can't persuade him to come out with me).

Ray

 

[GeneralFap]

I don't think you should tell your friends about game because from my experience it's pointless. A lot of guys feel they don't need it and just keep doing the same things over and over again. I remember back in like 2012 when I got into pickup I showed some Simplepickup and Keys to the VIP videos to one of my socially awkward friends to see if maybe he would get inspired; he saw a couple of videos and said he didn't care. He still keeps talking to girls the same way and has no success. I think that a lot of people who take this seriously have hit rock-bottom when it comes to women and they never want to experience that shit again so they start learning pickup.

 

[Troy]

I use two browsers, Chrome and Firefox. Chrome is my personal since it syncs with my Google account. I save " girlschase.com" as a bookmark and do as I like. Firefox I have just for public viewing. Best solution is get two browsers one personal so you don't have to " hide".

I don't use incognito mode as I like looking back at the history if needs be. It's my pc and phone so I don't feel it's necessary to inconvenience my work to please anyone who might have to " borrow" my devices. It does happen from time to time. I'm in a class and tablets are allowed and it's group work. I could give my tablet to a group member and they Google something and I don't bat a eye.

Know why I'm so assured of my personal devices? I utilize app locks for my phone, tablet and pc. If you use Android there is a app called " smart app lock ". Same on the tablet. There are applications and programs locks for pc's as well. You choose what to close and who can view xyz thing.


There will be no " accidental"

I deleted your pictures with you and your ex girlfriend. I'm so sorry babes.

I saw your whatsapp/ sms/ e-mails and replied to your bros for you

I accidentally factory resetted your pc and you lost all those documents and unfinished books


I leveled up on my security a few months ago when I had lent my phone to a ex girlfriend and she deleted my pictures. It was a slap in the face. She later apologized saying it was " accidental"

Jackson my advice is OWN YOUR STUFF. It's ok to bookmark girlschase.com. it's ok to have private documents on your pc and not bat a eye if you have to lend it to a girl ( or anyone).

And remember that any girl less than a girlfriend doesn't get to use YOUR PC/ PHONE...LOCK PRIVATE STUFF

Troy

 

[Skid]

I agree with everyone that says you have to hit rock bottom to start with pickup. You have to feel as though you are inadequate and/or missing something that or just have a really high sex drive/be competitive. Once you look at dating as something you compete in then suddenly your whole view changes and you want to be better than other guys - since it something that 99% of people compete in. Even guys I know that are terrible socially don't want anything to do with it - they seem content to just settle for very very very very little which actually blows my mind. They just go with the flow and believe that eventually a girl will fall on their laps. That strategy simply does not compute with me - when I found this stuff it was like a godsend.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Everyone,

Why do everyone suddenly gives everything to their girlfriend? If you want to fall fast, do it. Remember, our ancestors didn't trust women totally either. They prefer concubines compared to wifes because of loyalty.

I guess women are pain in the ass in serious matters. In movies, they get rescued. In porn, they get fucked. (Haha!!)

p.s: Sorry Chase if it sounds negative in any way. but thank you for writing that article. I can't believe people oversee your honesty in that article! and in your comment here. I guess that's why most of us get the same sh** all over and over again.

Zac