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I find it oddly fun and intriguing dealing with a woman's emotional torrents. It's like the ultimate puzzle, a challenge that may (and will) spur when you aren't quite ready. Dealing with sudden emotional outbursts, changes in feelings about the relationship, and impassable indecision only builds my experience and fascination in women.
Chase's new article on backward rationalizing got me thinking...
Do other men get a kick out of navigating the feminine storm or if am I just some kind of masochist?
And do you feel a benefit from it?
What I like about it, is that as my girls become used to my solid masculine frame, they feel more inclined to ease into their femininity which I find highly attractive. It is also challenging, I must figure out where I stand, and forces me to be introspective, question my own choices and either affirm or reconsider and readjust. Not to mention the need to be aware of her needs and desires and the responsibility that brings.
I am only able to deal with feminine tendencies because I know what I want out of the relationship and my priorities in life and dealing with women tests my confidence in my decisions. Otherwise I would be torn apart by her back and forth emotionally led logic. This also means the woman feels allowed to be out of control and emotional because she trusts the man will easily lead the relationship wherever it needs to go.
I have seen a drastic attractive change in my current girl, as I even encourage her to welcome her emotions whatever they may be and embrace feminine traits. And there has definitely been very emotional ups and downs directed at me. But mostly she purrs at me like a little kitten.
Chase's new article on backward rationalizing got me thinking...
Do other men get a kick out of navigating the feminine storm or if am I just some kind of masochist?
And do you feel a benefit from it?
What I like about it, is that as my girls become used to my solid masculine frame, they feel more inclined to ease into their femininity which I find highly attractive. It is also challenging, I must figure out where I stand, and forces me to be introspective, question my own choices and either affirm or reconsider and readjust. Not to mention the need to be aware of her needs and desires and the responsibility that brings.
I am only able to deal with feminine tendencies because I know what I want out of the relationship and my priorities in life and dealing with women tests my confidence in my decisions. Otherwise I would be torn apart by her back and forth emotionally led logic. This also means the woman feels allowed to be out of control and emotional because she trusts the man will easily lead the relationship wherever it needs to go.
I have seen a drastic attractive change in my current girl, as I even encourage her to welcome her emotions whatever they may be and embrace feminine traits. And there has definitely been very emotional ups and downs directed at me. But mostly she purrs at me like a little kitten.
