Do you give up after the 2nd date?

[surfer11]

I have been living in a foreign Asian country for some time and am not sure how to approach moving fast with woman.

I am good with going out on dates with woman in the country I am living, however, it is a pretty conservative culture, woman live at home until they get married and are brought up in a very conservative ideology.

Saying that I have had buddies that have pulled many woman in one night, so I am not sure if it is me or the culture.

My question is should I give up after trying to pull on a second date after being rejected or keep pursuing?

It really is hit or miss I guess, I think the best time's that I was successful was when I escalated and eventually got them home.

Chase- recommends moving fast with woman however I am not sure if I should continue after being rejected or not after the second date.

Is there some theory that woman feel like if they give it up too soon the guy will stop pursuing them?

I am just curious if you give up on the bird if she rejects you after asking her back to your place and she rejects you-or do you keep pursuing?

Any thoughts are greatly appreciated.

Thanks for your time-

Surfer

 

[Seppuku]

Hey man,

First, I've had lots first date sex with asian women, from Philippines, from all parts of China, from Thailand, from Laos. The mechanisms of attraction described in GC (including the principles of fast escalation) work no matter how traditional or conservative is the culture - you have to take extra care of discretion however because of higher slut-shaming. So yes, it is possible.

It's up to you to decide how long you want to pursue a woman. Yes, sometimes it takes longer than expected. But you have to keep the following in mind:

• * What do you mean by pursue? Persisting is OK, chasing is NOT. The difference between both, is essentially neediness and supplication. So if it's non needy persistence, it's fine. Anything else will kill your chances;
  
  * If you persist long enough, you may very well succeed in the end. Provided that you don't fuck up along the way. And provided that another, better skilled man doesn't come into the picture in the meantime.
  
  * BUT you have to ask yourself how much time you are prepared to devote. Always keep in mind that it's easier to start off fresh with a brand new girl, than keeping an uphill fight with a difficult girl. The time you are spending with such a girl, could have been better spent with another girl more into you.
  
  * If she actually rejected you already (like strong rejection), you can try persisting a little bit, but it's not worth spending too much more time on her.

Ok, good luck to you!
Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[jdoc]

⁣​Hey surfer,

My niche is Asian women. I adore and cannot get enough from them.

If a girl is still rejecting your pull after the second date, it's a tough uphill battle and it will occupy your time and effort that could be better spent with a new girl. It's possible to make it work, but you need to ask yourself if the additional effort is worth the energy expenditure.

How often does a girl reject your pull? If it's quite frequent, it may be an issue with your pulling technique, fundamentals, or something that you mismanaged earlier in the date. In my experience, being casual, natural and smooth with your pull is good. Sometimes she'll resist your pull, and that's when you must persist. Asian girls are not hard to pull if you play your cards right.

In some Asian countries, girls are quite conservative and many verbalise that they do not sleep with guys until they've been dating for at least a few months. But at the end of the day, it's all about the lover value that you provide. If you can show her that you're non-judgemental, passionate, compassionate, and push the right buttons to turn her on, her thought process will be something like, 'Oh... I never sleep with guys that I've only known for a short period of time... and I only ever date guys who I've gone out with for months... but he's really cute and seems discrete and unjudgeemental. He makes me feel so desired. And he's turning me on... so..so... much... oh my god."

Asian girl are absolutely enchanting, I'm jealous you're living in Asia haha.

Jeffrey

 

[Bboy100]

Dude, this is a personal decision. If you don't feel like investing more time into one particular women cause you hate her personality and the only reason you're with her is because you want to put your penis inside her, I would cut her off. But if you enjoy her company and have no problem with going on more dates with her, go for it. The one thing I want to note is that I don't think your chances of getting together with her decrease just because you've been on more dates together. On the contrary, I would say that the more time you spend together, the better the chance she'll want to sleep with you (unless she was never sexually attracted to you in the first place, in which case she wouldn't be out on a date with you. So you don't have to worry about that in this particular situation.).