Do you have any advice what to text girls who you messed up with?

[perpetualsun]

Hi guys!

I was wondering what you would do in the case where you have messed things up with a girl. Long story short, I met a girl about a year ago, and we had sex relatively fast. She then started to say things like, "If we're together, you can't see any other women". This sort of freaked me out, so I ended up just having her around for sex. Her general feeling and takeaway from me is probably that I just wanted to use her for sex and that I didn't really care too much for her (i.e., she complained that I never walked her out the door after sex).

However, now I would really like to consider her as a long-term relationship. The problem is, every time I text her to meetup, she still thinks I just want to use her for sex and she makes up some excuse not to meet up. Is there anything I can do or text her to have her see me again and possibly for a long term relationship? Thanks Chase!

 

[trashKENNUT]

perpetualsun,

However, now I would really like to consider her as a long-term relationship. The problem is, every time I text her to meetup, she still thinks I just want to use her for sex and she makes up some excuse not to meet up. Is there anything I can do or text her to have her see me again and possibly for a long term relationship? Thanks Chase!

She likes you but now she wants commitment. You can lie but it just gonna end sooner or later.

Zac

 

[lao che]

it doesn't really work like that. you can't be trying to tell her "no no baby no you got me all wrong! i really feel we can make something together!" or "you know, i was wrong before and now i realize i really like you and ....bla bla bla " or "bitch, you always my bottom bitch, but don't you want me to be happy? i gots to see other girls sometimes, baby. a man has needs!" or whatever variation-on-a-theme is going round your head.
she complains that that you only want to see her for a quick fuck. agree and amplify, my friend.

No, you just wanna use me for sex

cool. meet me on the corner at 8


No, you just wanna use me for sex

does that bother you?


No, you just wanna use me for sex

well, i also got some laundry needs doing


etc.

she'll meet you. fuck her. then gradually increase the amount of time and the frequency with which you spend with her. let her sleep over one night. meet her twice in one week. hey presto, you got yourself a girlfriend.



a word of warning, i would wait until after you fuck her next before deciding on whether you really actually want something long term with this girl. also, go fuck some other girls in the meantime