Do you have many 'Sean Connery' moments?

[Virgin101]

Don't you love those situations where all the work is done for you, and you just have to know the right way to reply to a given comment. The moments where you can reply on your wit and wisdom to game girls, as opposed to courage or spontaneous action. I think I've gotten to like them a bit too much, as I'll explain why.

For example, I remember before a girl commented on how I'd a mild Cork accent. She said "it's cute". I replied "it's cute, or I'm cute?" as I got nearer. This led to us kissing. Now if she hadn't said that, I don't know if we'd have even kissed. I wasn't even aware that we had been flirting up until that point! Anyway, here's another example from the man himself. Go straight to the 2:42ish mark.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qtk9JDH9lWA

Only Connery would think to say that! So little, and so effective. And of course its largely to do with the fact he doesn't "need it". But I think I've gotten to like the rare Connery moments that I have a bit too much! Because sometimes it happens to me, where someone will say something, and instead of responding fast, I'll be thinking along the lines of "I know there's some great joke I could make based on what she just said... if I just had the time!" And it's not that I don't know not to leave too much dead air space. The key thing here, is that if at such a point in time, someone else says something before I respond, then it'll look like I was just going to say nothing. And another thing I think I may have learned, is that it's far more important to just respond quickly at the start of interactions... and if you've (however many) been talking for a few minutes, then it's okay to take a bit longer with your responses. Simple responses like 'yes' or 'no' are good enough. I guess I'm more saying this to myself. This is sometimes the way my mind thinks! Perhaps it comes from a fear that the conversation mightn't have enough momentum.

The other night I had a Sean Connery moment, where one girl who I'd been talking to (who was amongst three girls), asked me which one of them was the best looking. I took a very quick look at all of three of them before saying "I don't want to be rude". That really confused them in a good way. If I answered, I'd sort of have looked stupid. But I had been sure to show them that I'd had a thought about which one of them was the best looking!

Connery is cool, but I think his style can't really be relied on. It's great when certain ques are given, so you can bring in your witty remarks. But there are times (and it's getting rarer), when all I can think to say is "would you like to kiss me?"

Please share thoughts

 

[Virgin101]

Bump

 

[Fuck This]

Look, it took me 30 years of sexual maturity and experience to get to the point where I could read a situation and turn it into a same night lay.

Granted my first two SNL's were when I was 16 and 18 with young women I'd never met before. For every one of those, there were plenty of nights I went home alone, frustrated and horny.

So it is a matter of recognizing a woman who wants to be seduced.

Watch the women when you see a successful guy. See her body language and see how it translates to her actions.
Interact with women. Communicate with them non sexually, and see how they respond to your sincere questions and comments. So many wanna be's try to be funny or cocky and they are talking out of their ass, and women see right through it. Don't try to be what you aren't.
Don't reward bitchy behavior with continued attention. When a woman shows interest, reward her with your sincere attention. Eye contact and conversation. If she talks about something you don't know about, then confess with a smile that that is not something you are familiar with. Ask her to teach or explain. This works great with women in sales, because it feeds their ego and they associate that with your company.
Likewise, if you have a skill or knowledge base she is interested in learning, be a kind teacher. For me that was a certain type of dancing that allowed kino as well as social proof while doing it.
Do you have something in your wardrobe that invites comments from people? Rehearse responses to compliments. One good one is that the item they are mentioning has an interesting story that you would love to tell them later. It took a couple of times of people, saying "Nice Hat!" for me to figure out it was an ice breaker for them and a good segue to a private conversation. Now I'm ready.
Put yourself in a position for multiple quick interactions with people to learn to think on your feet. Serve at fundraising dinners, check people in at group events, work the booth for groups you belong to.
You can always buy yourself time in an interaction by agreeing with the person when they make an observation. 7 out of 10 times it is going to be the weather, the food, the people around or the circumstances that brought you all together. You can prep for those.

Above all keep a mindset that you are open to advances from women. Opposed to the mindset that you are going to go out and charm a women who is completely uninterested. If you present yourself as being open and welcoming, you will be surprised by the women who will engage you. Just simply making eye contact and saying "Hello" opens so many doors.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Above all keep a mindset that you are open to advances from women. Opposed to the mindset that you are going to go out and charm a women who is completely uninterested. If you present yourself as being open and welcoming, you will be surprised by the women who will engage you. Just simply making eye contact and saying "Hello" opens so many doors.

You want REAL SEAN CONNERY moments?

Are you sure, Virgin101?

Having girls at work that you don't know of, suddenly switch and said Hi to you or smile out of the FUCKING blue?
Having older go ad hominem on you?
Having older women keep looking at you?
Having girls at work, suddenly ask you to 'show them' something?
Having girls smile at you when you out with your family and she disappointed because you playing the politically correct game, basically "nervous"?
Having girls ignoring her friends blatantly?
Having girls checking you out before you even notice them?
HAving girls already have you on their radar from like a few meters without you noticing?

Sounds overpowered. Sounds cool. Sounds fun.

But you don't often have the skills, yet to manage attention, because the variatons is so fucking many. Also, it takes practice and you are human. And Not all girls will engage you directly. They also play the middle line.


which is vague to many people, vague to you, vague to everyone except you.... because that's the fucking idea.

Also, another high level secret: women suddenly become not interested or she not interested in you is more intuned with how solid your basic fundamentals and also principles (which i haven't figure out all yet)

One of them is 'The sperm does not die'. It's basically in layman's: Handle women's rejection super fucking well, even to your body and doing things

People might think i am bullshitting. And i even clap and say this is bullshit or speculation as i thread the course of life, learning high level guys secrets.

Zac

 

[Virgin101]

Look, it took me 30 years of sexual maturity and experience to get to the point where I could read a situation and turn it into a same night lay.

Granted my first two SNL's were when I was 16 and 18 with young women I'd never met before. For every one of those, there were plenty of nights I went home alone, frustrated and horny.

So it is a matter of recognizing a woman who wants to be seduced.

Watch the women when you see a successful guy. See her body language and see how it translates to her actions.
Interact with women. Communicate with them non sexually, and see how they respond to your sincere questions and comments. So many wanna be's try to be funny or cocky and they are talking out of their ass, and women see right through it. Don't try to be what you aren't.
Don't reward bitchy behavior with continued attention. When a woman shows interest, reward her with your sincere attention. Eye contact and conversation. If she talks about something you don't know about, then confess with a smile that that is not something you are familiar with. Ask her to teach or explain. This works great with women in sales, because it feeds their ego and they associate that with your company.
Likewise, if you have a skill or knowledge base she is interested in learning, be a kind teacher. For me that was a certain type of dancing that allowed kino as well as social proof while doing it.
Do you have something in your wardrobe that invites comments from people? Rehearse responses to compliments. One good one is that the item they are mentioning has an interesting story that you would love to tell them later. It took a couple of times of people, saying "Nice Hat!" for me to figure out it was an ice breaker for them and a good segue to a private conversation. Now I'm ready.
Put yourself in a position for multiple quick interactions with people to learn to think on your feet. Serve at fundraising dinners, check people in at group events, work the booth for groups you belong to.
You can always buy yourself time in an interaction by agreeing with the person when they make an observation. 7 out of 10 times it is going to be the weather, the food, the people around or the circumstances that brought you all together. You can prep for those.

Above all keep a mindset that you are open to advances from women. Opposed to the mindset that you are going to go out and charm a women who is completely uninterested. If you present yourself as being open and welcoming, you will be surprised by the women who will engage you. Just simply making eye contact and saying "Hello" opens so many doors.

That's all very good, but if you're not going to read my thread then please don't respond.

 

[Fuck This]

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That's all very good, but if you're not going to read my thread then please don't respond.

Did you want to have a discussion about acting style, or about recognising women who are receptive?

You do realize you are talking about a fictional story and character right? The character Connery plays recognizes the signs of a woman of use to him who is receptive to his approaches.

If you truly want some help then I would suggest you ask for clarification rather than give impertinent replies to people who are trying to help you.