Do you need to sell yourself to a girl ?

[One_of_kind_200]

When you get an instant rejection, do you be persistent by selling yourself more or just leave?
Expected reactions. And what do you do in these situations:

o Girl seems like she’s freaked by your approach and nervous and doesn’t ask questions back
o She says hello but doesn’t ask questions back regarding how was my day going or anything.
o She says hello back, asks questions, and says no when she is asked out, even if she was laughing her butt off.
o She immediately says she’s married or have a bf. Is this auto-rejection that Chase talks about?

 

[Ergon]

When you get an instant rejection, do you be persistent by selling yourself more or just leave?

You don't have to sell yourself. You attract by making a first good impression, and moving things forward with confidence. Yes persist for practice and reference points, but work on getting girls receptive to you since the beginning.

Girl seems like she’s freaked by your approach and nervous and doesn’t ask questions back

If she's freaked fundamentals are not quite on point. Posture, pre open, delivery of the opener, voice, appearance and fashion, eye contact and smile need more work; there's an article on each of them. Nervous is ok, but it's different than freaked.

She says hello but doesn’t ask questions back regarding how was my day going or anything.

Fundamentals most likely, you need to cause a good impression when you open and project confidence throughout. It may also be the girl is really shy so she doesn't ask questions back, in that case be warm and make her talk about herself and qualify.

She says hello back, asks questions, and says no when she is asked out, even if she was laughing her butt off.

Fundamental again, but also if she's laughing her butt off you're trying to hard to impress or entertain her. It violates the law of least effort https://www.girlschase.com/content/law-least-effort try hard is not an attractive quality. Also you ask her out on a high point and like it's no big deal.

She immediately says she’s married or have a bf. Is this auto-rejection that Chase talks about?

It might be. It maybe it's just true. Chase gives good explanation here: https://www.girlschase.com/content/what- ... -boyfriend

 

[Raqimus]

Wrong place for this question use general or beginners.

 

[One_of_kind_200]

When you get an instant rejection, do you be persistent by selling yourself more or just leave?

You don't have to sell yourself. You attract by making a first good impression, and moving things forward with confidence. Yes persist for practice and reference points, but work on getting girls receptive to you since the beginning.

Girl seems like she’s freaked by your approach and nervous and doesn’t ask questions back

If she's freaked fundamentals are not quite on point. Posture, pre open, delivery of the opener, voice, appearance and fashion, eye contact and smile need more work; there's an article on each of them. Nervous is ok, but it's different than freaked.

She says hello but doesn’t ask questions back regarding how was my day going or anything.

Fundamentals most likely, you need to cause a good impression when you open and project confidence throughout. It may also be the girl is really shy so she doesn't ask questions back, in that case be warm and make her talk about herself and qualify.

She says hello back, asks questions, and says no when she is asked out, even if she was laughing her butt off.

Fundamental again, but also if she's laughing her butt off you're trying to hard to impress or entertain her. It violates the law of least effort https://www.girlschase.com/content/law-least-effort try hard is not an attractive quality. Also you ask her out on a high point and like it's no big deal.

She immediately says she’s married or have a bf. Is this auto-rejection that Chase talks about?

It might be. It maybe it's just true. Chase gives good explanation here: https://www.girlschase.com/content/what- ... -boyfriend

Great advice. Thank you. Please reply to my other posts as well. Is there a way I can add you as a friend on here?

 

[skin_man]

Chase gives articles of how close game and sales are.

You could say you're selling yourself to women. Either way, you have to create attraction, follow your process and always close.

 

[Bboy100]

I would just move on in the case of any of those except for the second one. If she isn't asking any questions, all that could mean is that you haven't generated enough interest and/or familiarity yet. Sit and talk for a while longer. If there's still no change in how much she contributes after 5-10 minutes, I would move on.