Do you notice girls staring at you? Does it matter to approach?

[razir110]

To not give too many details, I live in London, a crazy, busy city with loads of different people.

When I walk on the street I don't really notice girls looking at me explicitly. If I do notice a look, it is a subtle, quick one.

I find this strange since my fundamentals are good, I dress nicely, take care of myself because my job requires it and because it makes me feel better too

Do you have any London or other busy cities experience?

And the most important, should I give a shit if she looked at me? Is not looking a sign of not interest? Or it just "neutral"? Would a girl always look at a guy she is interested in?

Best!

 

[sumwunimetonce]

Lived in London for a long time, got looks on the tube but never felt easy approaching.

My issue was that I was always tired and stressed during my commute, I know others post about gaming in these situations but for me it just did not work.

should I give a shit if she looked at me? Is not looking a sign of not interest?

I honestly think women do not look at you because they are shy ... if they do (and hold eye contact) then its a pretty clear IOI, and when they do you should ALWAYS hold eye contact back and give a smile, it feels amazing when a girl does that to you.

Or it just "neutral"?

Its not when I do it ... do you hold eye contact with girls you do not want to talk to ??

Would a girl always look at a guy she is interested in?

No a girl would not always look at a guy she is interested in, probably only if she is a bold/brave one, a player type girl or drunk.

I've been watching loads of videos today about day game, most of the guys doing it are not too worried about waiting for eye contact and often approach the girl from the side. That being said they are dating coaches who do that non stop.

Good luck gaming in London ...

 

[razir110]

Cool thanks for your fast reply.

London has tons of beautiful women, but indeed everyone seems to be, and is, in a hurry somewhere, perhaps this rhythm makes people a bit less flirty.

I am just wondering if I do have a problem with my fundamentals, but I am just.. pretty convinced I don't. So yeah is seems a bit strange.

Tube is another classic! So many girls there but again, not too much staring. Perhaps it's the British culture mixed with the life in a big city?

Example: when I was in Colombia, I would be eaten by stares, the opposite of what I experience in London.

It's also fair to say that the competition in London is stronger than in Colombia, so women also have more to choose from.

 

[sumwunimetonce]

I would definitely say firstly you can have no excuses as there are tons of hot women in London and I have banged plenty.

I will also say IMO, there are lots of good looking guys, not that many good looking women and in general brits are not that open to being approached so its harder than most cities, MUCH MUCH harder than US and South America. I feel lots of day game advice really needs to come with a geolocation tag.

So yes your fundamentals may be good but not great, but in the tough environment of London they are not getting you results.

For me I found day game worked during the week in central London, usually with foreign women. Commute was too much and weekends I was busy.

Street game in the evenings outside was often much better for me around Soho etc.

Point is where you get women from does depend on you, your city, your schedule etc.

Could you be pushing something thats a waste of time ? you just want to either bang hot girls or get a gf right ?