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I'm certainly not advocating abuse, but if a woman was starts hitting you I think you are justified in hitting her back. I don't care if there is a power imbalance.
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No man, do not ever do that, except possibly if she is an aggressive stranger. If she is somebody in your life it is a test to see whether she can make you lose control. A much more effective way to deal with it would be to laugh and say "haha, is that all you've got? weak as piss girl" and then get her out of your life pronto. I know Drexel has very firm boundaries regarding this behaviour and would certainly NEXT her permanently, but if you feel she genuinely lost control and will regret it you can use r/ship management techniques (such as takeaway or soft NEXT) to discourage the behaviour in future. Hitting her back is rewarding the behaviour with attention and ensures it will continue. Also you will have to apologize later which helps her to pass off the incident in her mind as mutual fight rather than unacceptable behaviour on her part. Finally having lived with aggressive, anger-addicted woman and frequently getting drawn into fights (although I fortunately never lost control to the point of hitting her), I can say you will be miserable and beta if you go down that path. You also risk being dragged through the Family Violence system as I did, which is extremely humiliating, expensive and stressful, even if you win in the end (as as I did), you're guilty until proven innocent, everyone in the system (mainly women, and a few guys who have been emasculated and brainwashed) will openly laugh at your explanations and justifications, they have heard it all before from dudes who really are abusers in denial. It's a travesty of a legal system, I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't experienced it.
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Ray-Zorse, I agree with what you said. I was writing this in reacting to this video of this annoying woman who hit a man on a train: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Czb4rImsph0
I just think it's kind of bullshit that some women feel they can get away with hitting a man. But like you said, the legal system is set up to screw over men, so they can get away with it most of the time.
@Richard You mad, bro?
I just think it's kind of bullshit that some women feel they can get away with hitting a man. But like you said, the legal system is set up to screw over men, so they can get away with it most of the time.
@Richard You mad, bro?
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Not mad. Just expressing my opinion and I think men who hit women are pussies.
Coming from where I'm from, and having seen this my entire life I'm pretty familiar with it. I went to high school with abusers, and college, and some in my distant family.
There's no excuse for it and I've gotten into enough fights because of it. As a martial artist I learned that violence is a last resort, and those who use it as a first resort are weak willed and weak minded.
-Richard
Coming from where I'm from, and having seen this my entire life I'm pretty familiar with it. I went to high school with abusers, and college, and some in my distant family.
There's no excuse for it and I've gotten into enough fights because of it. As a martial artist I learned that violence is a last resort, and those who use it as a first resort are weak willed and weak minded.
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Everyone,
Ever live with a person who is narcissist? Terrible childhood? Overdue rewarding? Been look down like what i called 'Floyd Mayweather syndrome' where you never been taken seriously or respected? Fat before? Face like a lorry just ran over you that people treat you like shit over the course of life?
I am not judging you guys. I am informing. Sure, dont hit women and i advise men to NEXT. But if men needs to say "don't hit women" because society has gone terrible and politically correct that even women themselves hate it but need it for resources of their own survival, Then i found my answer.
That women's search for equality is the biggest bullshit i ever heard and even in the act of feminism, there's validation they want from men. Women cannot use religion and family values against me because i know religion and i research, see how their need for validation undermines what we build all this time.
Women....i guess that's what they are. A human dilemma lacking consciousness that the wrath of their scorn is made by men as well.
To further this, read 'There's always a Man in a women's life'.
Zac
Ever live with a person who is narcissist? Terrible childhood? Overdue rewarding? Been look down like what i called 'Floyd Mayweather syndrome' where you never been taken seriously or respected? Fat before? Face like a lorry just ran over you that people treat you like shit over the course of life?
I am not judging you guys. I am informing. Sure, dont hit women and i advise men to NEXT. But if men needs to say "don't hit women" because society has gone terrible and politically correct that even women themselves hate it but need it for resources of their own survival, Then i found my answer.
That women's search for equality is the biggest bullshit i ever heard and even in the act of feminism, there's validation they want from men. Women cannot use religion and family values against me because i know religion and i research, see how their need for validation undermines what we build all this time.
Women....i guess that's what they are. A human dilemma lacking consciousness that the wrath of their scorn is made by men as well.
To further this, read 'There's always a Man in a women's life'.
Zac
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What Sean Connery thinks about this topic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oo0d1zTAFKA
Indeed so Drck 
I've had experience with girls who I've done minor harmful acts to (gripping their arms or fingers tightly) because they didn't show respect even after I said no and gave them the stare.
It happens when they want to see how long my hair is out on the dance floor (I've put it up in a top knot) and they try to pull the hair elastic? out of my hair. Sometimes I let them if they promise to put it back again but some just do it to annoy and see how far they can tool me and still don't take a no for a no. I've not had any of them get more attracted to me from doing that, probably because I make it clear I don't like them for it (and no, I am not a crazy bastard who hits them or leaves bruises.).
In generel it is not ok to hit anyone unless it's the only option left, girl or guy.
I've had experience with girls who I've done minor harmful acts to (gripping their arms or fingers tightly) because they didn't show respect even after I said no and gave them the stare.
It happens when they want to see how long my hair is out on the dance floor (I've put it up in a top knot) and they try to pull the hair elastic? out of my hair. Sometimes I let them if they promise to put it back again but some just do it to annoy and see how far they can tool me and still don't take a no for a no. I've not had any of them get more attracted to me from doing that, probably because I make it clear I don't like them for it (and no, I am not a crazy bastard who hits them or leaves bruises.).
In generel it is not ok to hit anyone unless it's the only option left, girl or guy.
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GeneralFap,
Unless it's out of self-defense from a woman who is trying to physically harm you in a life-threatening way (which should be extremely rare to the point where it may never happen to you in your entire life), then there's really no reason to ever hit a woman.
If you ever feel the need to hit a woman, all it would tell me is that you couldn't figure out how to handle the situation properly and resorted to aggression instead of resolution. It's best just to learn how to be a respectable man that can maintain self-control with the women he's around while completely forgoing the use of force.
- Franco
Unless it's out of self-defense from a woman who is trying to physically harm you in a life-threatening way (which should be extremely rare to the point where it may never happen to you in your entire life), then there's really no reason to ever hit a woman.
If you ever feel the need to hit a woman, all it would tell me is that you couldn't figure out how to handle the situation properly and resorted to aggression instead of resolution. It's best just to learn how to be a respectable man that can maintain self-control with the women he's around while completely forgoing the use of force.
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Everyone,
Example of Self defense in this article. Smiling at provocation before slapping and making it heard all over THE WORLD!
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... woman.html
Zac
Example of Self defense in this article. Smiling at provocation before slapping and making it heard all over THE WORLD
!http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... woman.html
Zac