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I meet this girl for coffee. Honestly, I was kind of expecting it would be a quick informational date because she had a youth group to attend only an hour after I met her.
I pick her up from her house and we go to starbucks. This girl is 18 and just starting college this year. Most of the conversation was her talking about her mostly very sketchy life. She told me she:
- Slept with her best friend's ex boyfriend. Now she hates her
- Stole her parents car when she was 14 and snuck off to go hang out with some guy who has been to jail for rape. After which she proceeded to crash it.
- She also crashed the car she now owns
- Steals shit (mainly makeup and alcohol)
- Had no friends throughout high school because "people spread rumors about her"
- Had her depression and her physically messed up shoulder healed via prayer to Jesus.
To be fair, we also had some normal conversation about:
- Her trip to Hawaii
- Her first time flying
- Her pets
- Her love for snowboarding
- Some of the drunk nights she's had
- Her goals/dreams in life.
All this conversation was accompanied with me occasionally playfully teasing her/making jokes at her expense (in an inclusive way)
Also, I found excuses to touch her. For example, I
- Did a thumb war with her randomly (works if you have the right vibe)
- Gave her a hand massage
- Held her hand because "my hand is cold"
- Tickled her
After about an hour, she said that she's supposed to go to her youth group. I simply told her to skip it, and she said okay. Wasn't so much good game as it was the fact that she didn't really want to go to it. The only reason she was going to go in the first place was because it had something to do with the car she used to own which is now totaled lol.
Another 45 minutes after, I asked her if there's anything else to do in her town. She said that there's a movie theater with like, 4 movies. I made a joke about it than asked her if there are any nearby lakes or anything (its on the West coast of Washington. So the town was basically surrounded by nature). She said there's a lake about 15 minutes away.
As we drive there, I casually touch her in "an attempt to tickle her". On her thighs, her knees, her neck, her face. She seemed completely comfortable with all of it. Also, a lot of her nonverbal while I was with her suggested she was definitely open to some form of escalation. We pull up to a dark parking lot with no one there. Perfect. I stop and chat with her there for about 30 seconds, then I start escalating. As we're making out, she starts giggling and laughing in a very weird way. I ask her whatsup. She says it's very cramped here. I tell her we should move to the back seat.
We get to the back seat, we continue making out. After a while, I finger her while her pants are still on. She starts moaning. I tell her to take her pants off. She obliges. I take mine off. She starts grinding on my dick with our underwear still on. Then she says "do you want to put your cock inside me?" I smile at her and say "sure".
I take off my underwear. She blows me for about a minute or two. Then she takes off her underwear and she starts riding me. Honestly, my car is terrible for sex. It really wasn't very good. We kept changing positions figuring out ways to make it even remotely comfortable. Nothing really worked.
Here's where it gets weird:
About 5 minutes in, she starts crying in the middle of sex. I stop. I ask her what's wrong. At first, she says "nothing keep going". Then I ask her again. She finally realizes she's crying and her disress is super obvious. She says she wants to go home. I say ok. We get dressed and go back in the front seat. I ask her:
Me: Do you regret it?
Her: What?
Her: You?
Me: Yeah
Her: No
As I drive her back, I try to get her to open up about what happened. The only thing she would tell me is that I pulled her hair and spanked her too hard (for which I apologized) and that the car was too cramped. Also, she told me that she actually did regret having sex with me. Her vibe wasn't one of hostility/disdain for me. Rather, it was one of frustration and just...sadness. It was clear to me that she lying. She didn't start crying because I was too rough nor because of the car. There was something else going on. I tried my best to be empathetic and demonstrate that I wouldn't judge her if she told me. She still gave me no further information.
She was still nice to me and she actually apologized for the way she's behaving several times throughout the ride home. It's obvious that she also feels bad about what she's putting me through. I let her know its nbd. I drop her off at a church where someone else was supposed to pick her up, give her a hug and ask her if I should text her again. She said "she doesn't care and its up to me".
Two minutes later, she texts me:
Her: Are you still there?
Me: Yeah
Her: Actually, can you drive me home?
Me: Sure
When she came back in the car, her mood had significantly elevated. She was closer to the way she was before we had sex. We chatted and laughed some more as I drove her home. She smiled at me and kissed me goodbye.
Final Thoughts: This girl seems really nice, but as you all can probably tell, she has some serious issues. I hope I didn't hurt her in any significant way. Either way, I don't want to get too involved with her because she's clearly the kind of girl who can ruin my life lol. I'll be nice to her and maybe text her a few more times so she knows I don't judge her and everything is ok. But I'll probably make up an excuse for why I can't if she asks to see me again.
I pick her up from her house and we go to starbucks. This girl is 18 and just starting college this year. Most of the conversation was her talking about her mostly very sketchy life. She told me she:
- Slept with her best friend's ex boyfriend. Now she hates her
- Stole her parents car when she was 14 and snuck off to go hang out with some guy who has been to jail for rape. After which she proceeded to crash it.
- She also crashed the car she now owns
- Steals shit (mainly makeup and alcohol)
- Had no friends throughout high school because "people spread rumors about her"
- Had her depression and her physically messed up shoulder healed via prayer to Jesus.
To be fair, we also had some normal conversation about:
- Her trip to Hawaii
- Her first time flying
- Her pets
- Her love for snowboarding
- Some of the drunk nights she's had
- Her goals/dreams in life.
All this conversation was accompanied with me occasionally playfully teasing her/making jokes at her expense (in an inclusive way)
Also, I found excuses to touch her. For example, I
- Did a thumb war with her randomly (works if you have the right vibe)
- Gave her a hand massage
- Held her hand because "my hand is cold"
- Tickled her
After about an hour, she said that she's supposed to go to her youth group. I simply told her to skip it, and she said okay. Wasn't so much good game as it was the fact that she didn't really want to go to it. The only reason she was going to go in the first place was because it had something to do with the car she used to own which is now totaled lol.
Another 45 minutes after, I asked her if there's anything else to do in her town. She said that there's a movie theater with like, 4 movies. I made a joke about it than asked her if there are any nearby lakes or anything (its on the West coast of Washington. So the town was basically surrounded by nature). She said there's a lake about 15 minutes away.
As we drive there, I casually touch her in "an attempt to tickle her". On her thighs, her knees, her neck, her face. She seemed completely comfortable with all of it. Also, a lot of her nonverbal while I was with her suggested she was definitely open to some form of escalation. We pull up to a dark parking lot with no one there. Perfect. I stop and chat with her there for about 30 seconds, then I start escalating. As we're making out, she starts giggling and laughing in a very weird way. I ask her whatsup. She says it's very cramped here. I tell her we should move to the back seat.
We get to the back seat, we continue making out. After a while, I finger her while her pants are still on. She starts moaning. I tell her to take her pants off. She obliges. I take mine off. She starts grinding on my dick with our underwear still on. Then she says "do you want to put your cock inside me?" I smile at her and say "sure".
I take off my underwear. She blows me for about a minute or two. Then she takes off her underwear and she starts riding me. Honestly, my car is terrible for sex. It really wasn't very good. We kept changing positions figuring out ways to make it even remotely comfortable. Nothing really worked.
Here's where it gets weird:
About 5 minutes in, she starts crying in the middle of sex. I stop. I ask her what's wrong. At first, she says "nothing keep going". Then I ask her again. She finally realizes she's crying and her disress is super obvious. She says she wants to go home. I say ok. We get dressed and go back in the front seat. I ask her:
Me: Do you regret it?
Her: What?
Her: You?
Me: Yeah
Her: No
As I drive her back, I try to get her to open up about what happened. The only thing she would tell me is that I pulled her hair and spanked her too hard (for which I apologized) and that the car was too cramped. Also, she told me that she actually did regret having sex with me. Her vibe wasn't one of hostility/disdain for me. Rather, it was one of frustration and just...sadness. It was clear to me that she lying. She didn't start crying because I was too rough nor because of the car. There was something else going on. I tried my best to be empathetic and demonstrate that I wouldn't judge her if she told me. She still gave me no further information.
She was still nice to me and she actually apologized for the way she's behaving several times throughout the ride home. It's obvious that she also feels bad about what she's putting me through. I let her know its nbd. I drop her off at a church where someone else was supposed to pick her up, give her a hug and ask her if I should text her again. She said "she doesn't care and its up to me".
Two minutes later, she texts me:
Her: Are you still there?
Me: Yeah
Her: Actually, can you drive me home?
Me: Sure
When she came back in the car, her mood had significantly elevated. She was closer to the way she was before we had sex. We chatted and laughed some more as I drove her home. She smiled at me and kissed me goodbye.
Final Thoughts: This girl seems really nice, but as you all can probably tell, she has some serious issues. I hope I didn't hurt her in any significant way. Either way, I don't want to get too involved with her because she's clearly the kind of girl who can ruin my life lol. I'll be nice to her and maybe text her a few more times so she knows I don't judge her and everything is ok. But I'll probably make up an excuse for why I can't if she asks to see me again.
