Does Chase have any articles relating to how to cancel a date with a girl?

[perpetualsun]

Hi everyone -- I noticed that while Chase gives a gold mine of information on how to prevent flakes or cancellation by girls, I didn't anything related on how to cancel a date with a girls in a smooth way. I might be overthinking it but I have had girls get flustered or pissed off when I cancelled on them -- anyone have any tips on how to cancel a date with a girl and maintain good relations with that girl for a next date? Thanks!!

 

[Franco]

perpetualsun,

I'm guessing he doesn't have an article on it because there's probably not enough to say about it to warrant writing an essay on it. You generally just want to be simple, warm, and direct. Something along the lines of:

You: Hey Cassi, something really urgent came up and I have to cancel for tonight. Can we take a rain check for next week?
Her: Okay, no worries! Hope everything is okay
You: Everything should be fine. Thanks

I guess the only stipulation that you want to keep in mind is that you should try to cancel a date at least... I would say 4 hours in advance of the date or sooner. The closer it gets to the date, the more likely she is to be annoyed that you canceled on such short notice. A lot of girls will do all sorts of stuff hours ahead of time (shave "everywhere," get hair done, etc) before the date to get ready, and it sucks when they find out that it was all for nil. So just keep that in mind. =)

- Franco

 

[tvktvk]

Hey perpetualsun!

You use role reversal and do exactly what a girl would do in your position (like many girls find themselves in all the time).

1. If you want to hook up with the girl but you somehow can't make it, tell her that something came up, BUT you'd like to set up another date ASAP. Do NOT say you're sorry or anything like that, it's not your fault that something came up. Be specific about the proposed date so she knows that you mean business. She'll know that something actually came up and you still like her.

2. If you're not interested in the girl, you cut out all communications. If you somehow meet this girl again in person, be warm and act like she is a good friend of yours. If she calls you out on not answering her texts, shrug and tell her you've been busy. Why the fuck would you care, you aren't interested in this girl anyways.

Hope that made it a little bit clearer!

tvktvk