Does deep diving college girls actually work?

[JJlife]

I just read this INCREDIBLE article which made me super excited to approach girls : https://www.girlschase.com/content/conversation-example

The problem (eh maybe a problem?) is that I am in college and don't know if this works all that well! At my school I don't really have many problems approaching girls on the dance floor or at the side of a party while we are both drunk and just talking bullshit for a few minutes and eventually taking them back. It's of course not an every night thing, but it isn't extremely difficult.

Reading this article, though, has made me very excited to actually deep dive girls and get to know them better. It seems incredible and WAY more exciting than drunk dancing or drunk conversation, and while I have used variants of deep diving before, it isn't my go to approach. Should it be though?

I don't have 100% success rate just talking about nothing with drunk girls, but it is still a fairly high success rate - to the point where I don't know if I need to change anything. After college this will not be the case, but can this example of deep diving work even with college girls at parties?

 

[Oskar]

JJlife,

Yeah, that article's great. The main difference between deep diving at a college party and say at a coffee shop is that partys are an environment with A LOT more distractions (girls are drunk, usually in a type of social butterfly mode, lots of other people around, etc). And because of that, your deep dives will need to be shorter and shallower. Girls rarely go to parties to get to know people, instead they usually go for to "have fun". The examples from that article however are still useful in this situations, it's just a matter of calibrating your set-up so you aren't asking for too much investment too fast. Occasionally at college party's or similar environments I make the mistake of asking for too much investment too fast, where I'll open a girl and almost immediately start diving, which sometimes is too much for them. So definitely work to ease into this kind of thing. Sometimes we forget how unusual this strategy can be for people not used to this kind of focused attention.

Another thing to take into account is that isolation is absolutely vital for deep diving to be all that effective, but if you can't get someone away from the group who you want to get to know quickly, you can "bubble" with them, but you'll most likely have your bubble popped sooner or later, so plan for that. Basically, deep diving at parties is a great thing to add to your presentation, but, in my opinion, the most important thing at college parties are 1) your fundamentals, 2) being dominant and prosocial, and 3) preselection. Everything else is overkill.

-Oskar

 

[Just_Dave]

Filling the Void

JJ,

Party!: Right targets
To build off of Oskar he does raise a valid point how environment is key to your success with deep diving. I will say you can work deep diving on girls are parties who look lost, bored, or out of place. They will look disconnected from the party or in their own world. Keep in mind college students feel as though people can't relate to them at times and that they're alone. They're just looking for someone who understands them. I open these types of girls with a "You seem distracted." It breaks them out of auto-pilot. Then I follow up with a comment on how they can unload their mind on me, and boom instant deep diving.

Around campus: Free time
When you see a girl lounging by herself in the middle of the day, you can choose to deep dive with her. The logic is she's got free time between classes and is bored. Girls are begging guys to come talk to them, guys just aren't listening. Now I normally go for the girls in a relaxed and reclined position. They may have a ear bud in and another one out their ears. You can either direct approach her or sit near her and use a situational opener. I use these a lot in dining halls at my campus. Especially one weekends.

Over and out,

Just Dave