Dominance

[Deg]

Hey guys, I have a few questions about sexual dominance that I want to ask. When you are being dominant in bed by giving commands and controlling the action, what do you do when the girl says no? To your command or your course of action? Are the rules different for a girlfriend for this question? Is this something that needs you to save face or does this cause you to lose power when she says no? I am asking this because I think the fear of being told no is constricting my dominance in bed and making me less likely to control the sex. How do I become more sexually dominant? Also what do you do if you give a command and the girl complies but you can tell it's causing her pain, or she's not enjoying it, or it's just very reluctant

Thank you all

 

[Fuck This]

Baby steps, my friend...

It wasn't until a woman told me to take charge that I realized I was being passive.

I always start out being gentle, yet strong. Slow and smooth. You don't know her history, and don't want to intimidate her.

Instead of asking her to move, Pick her up and set her down on the bed. Next time pick her up and kind of toss her. Pull her into you and gauge her reaction.

I've never been one to be too dominant in bed, but I've gotten the green light lately. We'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes.

 

[Deg]

My girlfriend is asking me to take charge more, so what do I do??

 

[HellAtlantic]

Baby steps, my friend...

It wasn't until a woman told me to take charge that I realized I was being passive.

I always start out being gentle, yet strong. Slow and smooth. You don't know her history, and don't want to intimidate her.

Instead of asking her to move, Pick her up and set her down on the bed. Next time pick her up and kind of toss her. Pull her into you and gauge her reaction.

I've never been one to be too dominant in bed, but I've gotten the green light lately. We'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes.

Your posts are the best!

 

[Danny]

Yeah what do you do if she says no to your dominance or your command?