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Double booked with my coworker and Gumball for Tuesday. Coworker flaked, so Gumball it is.
Texted her that I'm not looking for anything serious after our last date. She responded that we can still hang out (aka fuck) and we texted on and off for a few days. We meet at my old bar first. She's looking super cute, her tits are popping out, and she's not looking too thicc. She's thicc, don't get me wrong, but I'm into having a fat ass to grab onto and she still has slim arms and is overall petite. She's still sexy, in my book.
She at some point tells me to suck her dick when we're standing on the patio. I go "okay, fine." and start unbuttoning her pants in public. I get all the buttons off and proceed to sink my fingers into her pants, slowly. I can see how turned on she's getting and then she pushes my hand away, smiling, and says "okay that's enough". Set some good expectations for the date.
We eventually go to this gay bar and have a really good time. There was this guy being a fake gay dude who eventually took his "mask" off and revealed he was straight to two straight girls at the bar, so they came running to us to laugh / warn us about it. Very interesting dynamic to see from my side.
I actually have a blast talking to this girl. She's a total party chick, like 100%, so I DEFINITELY couldn't rely on dating her. But I do enjoy her company quite a bit and she's a great drinking buddy. Solid FB material with no strings attached. She's very cute and bubbly, and speaks her mind. She doesn't overly care what people think about her from what I can tell, which is a rarer trait among women. I have to say, I don't even feel like I'm gaming around her and I feel completely comfortable being myself.
Before leaving to my house we use the bathroom. First she follows me in to the men's, and I check the stall - locked. Then I follow her into the girls and we get in the same stall. I try to have her suck me off but she's not down because she says it's not classy. Then she starts talking shit and saying that she's better than the other girls I've been with.
This is very disrespectful. Never let some girl (anyone) talk shit on your girls. I tell her, exactly, "don't say that about my girls.", and she keeps at it. So I calmly say, "that's very rude.", and walk away. I go right next to the exit to the bar and wait. She eventually follows me out like "oh now you're mad at me?" and I tell her, "no. that's just really disrespectful.", and she scoffs and walks over to her friend and bitches about the situation. I know that I'm in the right here so I just wait on my phone.
3 minutes later she walks back over and says, "okay my friend just said that you're right, my bad". I just look up and say "we leaving?", and we do. And that friends, is how to not tolerate bullshit without being butthurt.
I show her then that I'm not mad - I really wasn't - and start having fun again. Once that barrier is overcome we get into a really good mood again and are walking, piggy back riding, and teasing eachother down the street. We take a street-photobooth picture that I didn't even know was there. Honestly, this was my favorite part of the date. We vibed really hard.
Back at my place we have a drink and listen to music, eventually hooking up on the couch, then to bed. She stayed the night, and I kicked her out in the morning. While eating her out I invented this new technique I'll be using: put your lips inside your mouth, and nibble on her clit. It presses the soft tissue of your lips on both sides of her clit with the pressure of your teeth, and you're not actually biting her clit (which would hurt her very bad! don't do that! lol). Will have to try it out on different girls to see if she just had a less-sensitive than usual clitoris.
Cheers.
Texted her that I'm not looking for anything serious after our last date. She responded that we can still hang out (aka fuck) and we texted on and off for a few days. We meet at my old bar first. She's looking super cute, her tits are popping out, and she's not looking too thicc. She's thicc, don't get me wrong, but I'm into having a fat ass to grab onto and she still has slim arms and is overall petite. She's still sexy, in my book.
She at some point tells me to suck her dick when we're standing on the patio. I go "okay, fine." and start unbuttoning her pants in public. I get all the buttons off and proceed to sink my fingers into her pants, slowly. I can see how turned on she's getting and then she pushes my hand away, smiling, and says "okay that's enough". Set some good expectations for the date.
We eventually go to this gay bar and have a really good time. There was this guy being a fake gay dude who eventually took his "mask" off and revealed he was straight to two straight girls at the bar, so they came running to us to laugh / warn us about it. Very interesting dynamic to see from my side.
I actually have a blast talking to this girl. She's a total party chick, like 100%, so I DEFINITELY couldn't rely on dating her. But I do enjoy her company quite a bit and she's a great drinking buddy. Solid FB material with no strings attached. She's very cute and bubbly, and speaks her mind. She doesn't overly care what people think about her from what I can tell, which is a rarer trait among women. I have to say, I don't even feel like I'm gaming around her and I feel completely comfortable being myself.
Before leaving to my house we use the bathroom. First she follows me in to the men's, and I check the stall - locked. Then I follow her into the girls and we get in the same stall. I try to have her suck me off but she's not down because she says it's not classy. Then she starts talking shit and saying that she's better than the other girls I've been with.
This is very disrespectful. Never let some girl (anyone) talk shit on your girls. I tell her, exactly, "don't say that about my girls.", and she keeps at it. So I calmly say, "that's very rude.", and walk away. I go right next to the exit to the bar and wait. She eventually follows me out like "oh now you're mad at me?" and I tell her, "no. that's just really disrespectful.", and she scoffs and walks over to her friend and bitches about the situation. I know that I'm in the right here so I just wait on my phone.
3 minutes later she walks back over and says, "okay my friend just said that you're right, my bad". I just look up and say "we leaving?", and we do. And that friends, is how to not tolerate bullshit without being butthurt.
I show her then that I'm not mad - I really wasn't - and start having fun again. Once that barrier is overcome we get into a really good mood again and are walking, piggy back riding, and teasing eachother down the street. We take a street-photobooth picture that I didn't even know was there. Honestly, this was my favorite part of the date. We vibed really hard.
Back at my place we have a drink and listen to music, eventually hooking up on the couch, then to bed. She stayed the night, and I kicked her out in the morning. While eating her out I invented this new technique I'll be using: put your lips inside your mouth, and nibble on her clit. It presses the soft tissue of your lips on both sides of her clit with the pressure of your teeth, and you're not actually biting her clit (which would hurt her very bad! don't do that! lol). Will have to try it out on different girls to see if she just had a less-sensitive than usual clitoris.
Cheers.
