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I'm going to write this in 3rd person view like Gentle_Phrases does to help see me from a detached perspective.
Okay so you went to the local mall (local being 45 min. away) today to get in as many approaches because you claimed you were "sooo inspired" by the recent LR's coming out. You decided to go to the mall on in the town nearby that you know absolutely no one in so you could practice opening to get more social freedom since there is absolutely no problem if your reputation, that is non existent anyway, gets trashed. You got there with mixed feelings and got a water from a coffee shop with a reasonably attractive black girl standing nearby and you completely made up a bunch of lame excuses and pussied out. This set the tone from the beginning and you had a really tough time. You opened a total of 3 girls and you missed out on 5 girls that you could have easily opened. Seriously what's got into you dude? One set you even got up from your seat followed the set deliberated on opening until they got to the door in which you decided not to open them because the Red Cross Santa Lady taking donations might see you open another set and you didn't want her to see you... Dude your letting people you don't give two shits about control your actions because of what they might think of you. You're not being a man and going for what you want and your letting the possibility of criticism, complaint, and condemnation (which is just wasted breath from lesser human beings) scare you and control you. It's time you redrop you balls for good and get this handled amigo. You're missing out on way to many opportunities.
From now on we need to get you following a process that gets you approaching straight off the bat and not deliberating so fucking much.
All your problems become smaller when you confront them. If you touch a thistle with caution, it will prick you, but if you grasp it boldly, its spines crumble into dust.
You have a decided heart quit acting like you don't. We have a new challenge now so mentally prepare yourself to retackle A.A. again until you diminish it completely in a multitude of situations.
Okay so you went to the local mall (local being 45 min. away) today to get in as many approaches because you claimed you were "sooo inspired" by the recent LR's coming out. You decided to go to the mall on in the town nearby that you know absolutely no one in so you could practice opening to get more social freedom since there is absolutely no problem if your reputation, that is non existent anyway, gets trashed. You got there with mixed feelings and got a water from a coffee shop with a reasonably attractive black girl standing nearby and you completely made up a bunch of lame excuses and pussied out. This set the tone from the beginning and you had a really tough time. You opened a total of 3 girls and you missed out on 5 girls that you could have easily opened. Seriously what's got into you dude? One set you even got up from your seat followed the set deliberated on opening until they got to the door in which you decided not to open them because the Red Cross Santa Lady taking donations might see you open another set and you didn't want her to see you... Dude your letting people you don't give two shits about control your actions because of what they might think of you. You're not being a man and going for what you want and your letting the possibility of criticism, complaint, and condemnation (which is just wasted breath from lesser human beings) scare you and control you. It's time you redrop you balls for good and get this handled amigo. You're missing out on way to many opportunities.
From now on we need to get you following a process that gets you approaching straight off the bat and not deliberating so fucking much.
All your problems become smaller when you confront them. If you touch a thistle with caution, it will prick you, but if you grasp it boldly, its spines crumble into dust.
You have a decided heart quit acting like you don't. We have a new challenge now so mentally prepare yourself to retackle A.A. again until you diminish it completely in a multitude of situations.
