Don't Throw Away Your Life. Look at this first.

[trashKENNUT]

Hi

Just a suggestion, I am not a successful person.

I find that most people throw their past lifes away and that they follow successful people from head to toe. Don't believe that rap in total, IF your boss ask you to do so, Don't believe that rap in total

Because you are you. You are unique.

I am not saying keeping things you do not want to have. I am just saying to you that you should know why. Why force yourself to throw away things you perceive do not like because others said so? Will it mean you change your life after just 1 comment? Wouldn't that be the same thing?

Always remember throwing anything or habits is just parts of the process. Don't just hear anybody say something and say "Oh, i should throw away my ex girlfriend's photo, probably burn it". An example, when does a soccer team who plays the passing game can't score a goal, because they forgot the whole process. The whole process of passing is to get the result.

You are the result. If process fails, go direct. You will bump into something, which then makes you know what it is.

p.s Here's a story. "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same." (Nails in Your Life)

Zac

 

[metomeya]

I've learned to learn from others, but to never hero worship. In other words, despite how successful a person is just treat them as a person who has faults and even potential bad advice for you.

Ultimately, you are on your own to figure things out.

 

[trashKENNUT]

metomeya,

I've learned to learn from others, but to never hero worship. In other words, despite how successful a person is just treat them as a person who has faults and even potential bad advice for you.

Ultimately, you are on your own to figure things out.

I figured all the masters who have mastered anything in this world have this universal truth. They all know what, why, when, who is process for. You see, when you on the way to success, you dress up, you try this and that but you never really get it. This also happens majority of the time with young people. and i see that.

Zac

 

[metomeya]

Zac! lol didn't even realize it was you. I always go by pictures with forum members.

Have you ever considered starting a blog? You always seem to have a lot to say. Just a thought.

 

[metomeya]

That last post broke my brain a little.

 

[trashKENNUT]

metomeya,

Zac! lol didn't even realize it was you. I always go by pictures with forum members.

Have you ever considered starting a blog? You always seem to have a lot to say. Just a thought.

I know it's a hindrance i post things too much sometimes. Apologies to that. Don't worry about expressing honest opinion. Something i note that most guys never ask things here because i think they afraid they get roll up like a bread.

I also realize most of the guys on Girlschase and the forums want a girlfriend. And perhaps there's a degree of uncomfortableness.

But yea... i been considering leaving Girlschase forum for awhile now. I been building momentum, making my thinking process right bit by bit. and i have a blog, it's not up yet because i am confused between two areas i want to go.

It's one thing to give value and try help people, and give back Chase, something. It's another to know you pursuing something greater in yourself that you accidentally push people away.

Zac

 

[metomeya]

You've always been a thinker, but you don't seem to be entirely yourself at the moment.

A break might do you some good.

I post a few times here asking questions, but I've pretty much stopped relying to other people's threads. It seems like they go off too much of a tangent about their lives sometimes. I feel like I can't give them that much value, can't will myself to read all that writing, and the guy just needs to sort his mind out before taking anyone's advice can help him.

But, ya I think most guys here just want a girlfriend. They aren't part of the small minority (think I read 3% or so) that only desire sex with lots of women and no relationship. They just don't know cause they never experienced a girlfriend or casual sex.

With the blog, you might just want to take it public now. I find an audience helps to shape not just your blog, but also your thoughts and the direction you want to take it. Kind of like the "as iron sharpens iron" proverb.

 

[trashKENNUT]

metomeya,

You've always been a thinker, but you don't seem to be entirely yourself at the moment.

A break might do you some good.

I post a few times here asking questions, but I've pretty much stopped relying to other people's threads. It seems like they go off too much of a tangent about their lives sometimes. I feel like I can't give them that much value, can't will myself to read all that writing, and the guy just needs to sort his mind out before taking anyone's advice can help him.

But, ya I think most guys here just want a girlfriend. They aren't part of the small minority (think I read 3% or so) that only desire sex with lots of women and no relationship. They just don't know cause they never experienced a girlfriend or casual sex.

With the blog, you might just want to take it public now. I find an audience helps to shape not just your blog, but also your thoughts and the direction you want to take it. Kind of like the "as iron sharpens iron" proverb.

I appreciate the suggestion. I never really thought that wanting to have a girlfriend, only, is a bad thing. Like you said, because they never experienced those things.

and i realize again that it's hard to solve your own problem when you at the level of consciousness, that is the same of your problem you encountering, and this is more harder when you do not experience or have any reasonable mental reference to operate from the new desire you want to be.

Zac

 

[metomeya]

Breaking my brain a little again buddy.

I assume English isn't your first language, but all your prior posts have been flawless English. Probably even better than mine.

But I think I understand what you are saying.

 

[trashKENNUT]

metomeya,

Breaking my brain a little again buddy.

I assume English isn't your first language, but all your prior posts have been flawless English. Probably even better than mine.

But I think I understand what you are saying.

Sorry metomeya, for being too deep. (I feel i need to respond to this, fast.)

In case you want to know, i sometimes fail my english composition test, very badly in high school. I just do not know how to convey or relate my story properly. Otherwise, i have been commented that i am a knowledgeable guy, that sometimes, people were "snap" out of their seats when i was asked upon to present any sort of opinion.

But yea, my GCE O'Level for English is a C6 (Average Grade). and i only have tertiary school after that.

Again, I have accidentally scare people, do not relate to them or put people in high levels of cognitive dissonance that they just like "where am i?" kind of state after i tell them as it is. This is what happens when i feel i need to bridge the gap of resentment or any void emotion that society or anybody is feeling.

I take some time to learn how to relate my writing properly. IT is important, now, that you note this. (and many people recently, as well)

Zac

 

[metomeya]

okay...