Double Party Date - Should I do it?

[Sandman]

I'm getting addicted to asking questions haha..

I don't think I'm gonna get an answer for this in time but here it goes

On Wednesday I went to an open salsa festival. There I approached three attractive girls, targeting one of them of course. They were roommates and pretty receptive to me. I had two other friends join me a bit later. One ("Salsa Dancer") is the one I mentioned in my other question -how to stop inadvertantly cock blocking friends?-. The other is also a natural with better game and also a pro latin dancer. Let's call him MrBuff. I didn't mention MrBuff because he was cool in the situation and socialized with everyone instead of hijacking my convo. He is 30 sth I think. He gave a dance show to the girls with a lady dancer friend of his.

Long story short I took the girl's number there. And tonight we're meeting up.

MrBuff called me today and told me that he was sorry if they acted uncool and hoped I wasn't angry at them. I told him that I was perfectly alright with him I was just a bit mad at SalsaDancer and he agreed that he was a bit uncalibrated.

He told me that they ended up talking to girls for a long time and he got one of the girls number and he was also meeting up with her tonight. He suggested we meet up at somepoint and go dancing.

Now I'm against party dates for good reason. The last time I tried something like it didn't go well. However I don't have logistics and the girl I'll see has roommates so I don't know if I can pull her back to her place. I can pull to a hotel but I'm running out of money. And even though I can pull it off nowadays it's still a bit harder to do than pulling to a less conspicuous seduction place like a house. MrBuff told me that he has a house with 3 rooms so if we manage to pull the girls there it's good to go.

I have friends who can pull this kind of style. They have a date with a girl, their friend has a date with another girl then they g to a club then home and fuck the girls. I have no experience with this style though. Maybe it is good for learning purposes? Another problem is if my friend drops the ball, it will affect me negatively as well...

My question is should I do the party date with better logistics or should I do my own thing and try to pull to a hotel?

Thanks in advance for the help

 

[Fuck This]

Sometimes the herd mentality helps with a pair of girls. Many times it doesn't.

if they both think they might want to hook up then they will egg each other on.

If one is staunchly resistant then it will kill the mood.

The team concept seem to work best to get the two girls out of a loud party to a location where you can isolate. Seldom do girls want their friends to witness the escalation though.

Good isolation options include hot tubs or pools or going out in the dark to watch the stars.

The smooth move to escalate is to have a predetermined code with your bro as to when you need to separate. At that point you tell your date "I think they want to be alone" with a wink. That takes the social pressure off her.

Now it is only going to go as far as the least aroused girl lets it. She will be the limiting factor. The good news is though there is a chance if the two girls separate and the lesser aroused girl thinks the other one is getting laid, she will feel less reticent about escalating with you.

 

[Sandman]

Thanks for the through answer!

I ended up going with them to dancing (my girl didn't drink and danced only a little). As I imagined we couldn't close lol. The girl was into me and found me sexy throughout the interaction but didn't seem to try to invest in the courtship as much, didn't comply with some heavier compliance etc. So I could see I wouldn't be able to close that night (and she had work in the morning).

Also my friend wasn't trying to close that night as he didn't think these girls would fuck on the first date (I know better lol). He might have been right in this situation but his was more of a blanket belief (girls under 30 doesn't fuck on the first date).

I ended up ditchin them around 2 am when a fwb texted me asking me if she could come over for a fuck. Not a very cool move lol. But I was tired of not getting sex for a week so I said fuck it. I might have closed the deal on a second date if I was patient and she was arguably one of the most attractive girls I dated recently and girlfriend quality (beautiful, doesn't drink, doesn't party, low partner count, intelligent). I texted her this morning and found out she is deep in auto-rejection lol.

Anyway, it was an educational experience. What I learned is:

1) Do not do party dates. Variables you can't control multiplies unless you are really fine losing the girl and wanna check out the venue.

2) If it seems like you can't close, do a date compression, wet her appetite and fuck her on the second date.

3) If this is a girl you wouldn't mind working a bit for it's fine to end things in a good mood and try again later. I think this is true because I'm past the point I'm afraid to take action for fear of losing a girl.

4) Don't ditch your bro for old pussy. Not cool