I woke up to this crazy news!
A man who has built himself to a 820 million dollar net worth, not has to pay $300,000 USD to his ex wife just because she raised her hand and said "I no longer want to be married to you Dre"
According to https://www.essence.com/celebrity/black-celeb-couples/dr-dre-wife/ , he has to pay that until she remaries. But what if she decides to never remarry and hook up with bad boys and travel the world?
Dr. Dre is 56 years old and
Nicole Young is 51 years old
If she was to live another 50 years (and Dr. Dre as well) he would spend $180 million dollars on a woman who no longer sleeps with him, deals with him, or helps him make any money.
What a crazy world we live in?
Now to be fair, I have also seen articles and videos highlighting Dr. Dre abusing his wife. If the reports are true, then I look down on Dr. Dre for that move. At no point should a man let his rage get to physical or verbal abuse. And I rightfully think he should pay for any damages done to a woman.
But $300,000 per month? That's too much.
Here is one report: https://people.com/music/dr-dre-wife-nicole-young-alleges-abuse-held-gun-to-head/
See what the court system does not understand is everytime they put these things out in the public, it scares good men away from ever wanting to get married. Because in this day and age, marriage benefits women 95% and men 5%. The main benefit a man gets from marriage is being able to move up in the corporate world to CEO, Executive and higher management.
There is a invisible but unspoken cap on men who are married. Rarely do you see men who are players getting the job over a guy who is married. But aside from Corporate and religious structures, marriage only benefits women.
Alleged Abuse When Things Go South
Ever notice something when marriages fail? Women are consistently talking about men being abusive? I Find it quite strange that women will do this at the end of a relationship. I am not discounting it does happen or does not happen. But I have to wonder... how often does it happen?
I am 25 years old, and my parents have been married for 26 years. I've never seen my Dad physically abuse my Mom. I've also yet to see any of my neighbors who are married abuse their wives. Maybe it happens under closed doors. But I still have to wonder, how often do men abuse women?
Every Man Should Get A Prenup
Yes, even if your net worth is $10,000 USD.
See, I would like to become very wealthy one day. And I have already mentally planned out how I want the prenup to look. I think it's 100% wrong for a man to give away half of what he built to a woman just because she no longer wants to be married.
But of course I do also think a woman should get something out of a divorce, fare is fare. I would be comfortable with giving away 1% of my net worth for every year a woman is married to me...up to a $10 million USD net worth.
Studies show that 20% of marriages end in 5 years. No way in hell a woman should take 50% of a mans money in 5 years.
So a few examples:
5 year marriage
The man is worth $5 million dollars
The woman files for divorce
= She gets $250,000
That's it!
30 year marriage
The man is worth $5 million dollars
The woman files for divorce
= She gets $1,500,000
That's it
10 year marriage
The man is worth $1 million dollars
The woman files for divorce
= She gets $100,000
That's it
I think if a structure like this was in place, more women would stay in their marriages. According to recent studies, 70 to 90% of all divorces are filed by women. And unfortunately the court systems has women in favor to get all the benefits. Women get to have their cake and still eat it.
I wish more marriages were lasting 30 + years. Far too often these vows mean nothing when life gets difficult. The system needs to remove a reward for women leaving their marriages. And I also think more people need to be going to therapy whether they are in a happy relationship or an unhappy relationship.
That's all i gotta say on this Dr. Dre situation. And if I were to get married, a woman only gets 1% of my net worth for every year she is married to me, up to 10 million dollars. I'm 25 now and if I were to be married to woman for 50 years, she would have to be 75 years old plus before she is eligible to get half of my money.
A man who has built himself to a 820 million dollar net worth, not has to pay $300,000 USD to his ex wife just because she raised her hand and said "I no longer want to be married to you Dre"
According to https://www.essence.com/celebrity/black-celeb-couples/dr-dre-wife/ , he has to pay that until she remaries. But what if she decides to never remarry and hook up with bad boys and travel the world?
Dr. Dre is 56 years old and
Nicole Young is 51 years old
If she was to live another 50 years (and Dr. Dre as well) he would spend $180 million dollars on a woman who no longer sleeps with him, deals with him, or helps him make any money.
What a crazy world we live in?
Now to be fair, I have also seen articles and videos highlighting Dr. Dre abusing his wife. If the reports are true, then I look down on Dr. Dre for that move. At no point should a man let his rage get to physical or verbal abuse. And I rightfully think he should pay for any damages done to a woman.
But $300,000 per month? That's too much.
Here is one report: https://people.com/music/dr-dre-wife-nicole-young-alleges-abuse-held-gun-to-head/
See what the court system does not understand is everytime they put these things out in the public, it scares good men away from ever wanting to get married. Because in this day and age, marriage benefits women 95% and men 5%. The main benefit a man gets from marriage is being able to move up in the corporate world to CEO, Executive and higher management.
There is a invisible but unspoken cap on men who are married. Rarely do you see men who are players getting the job over a guy who is married. But aside from Corporate and religious structures, marriage only benefits women.
Alleged Abuse When Things Go South
Ever notice something when marriages fail? Women are consistently talking about men being abusive? I Find it quite strange that women will do this at the end of a relationship. I am not discounting it does happen or does not happen. But I have to wonder... how often does it happen?
I am 25 years old, and my parents have been married for 26 years. I've never seen my Dad physically abuse my Mom. I've also yet to see any of my neighbors who are married abuse their wives. Maybe it happens under closed doors. But I still have to wonder, how often do men abuse women?
Every Man Should Get A Prenup
Yes, even if your net worth is $10,000 USD.
See, I would like to become very wealthy one day. And I have already mentally planned out how I want the prenup to look. I think it's 100% wrong for a man to give away half of what he built to a woman just because she no longer wants to be married.
But of course I do also think a woman should get something out of a divorce, fare is fare. I would be comfortable with giving away 1% of my net worth for every year a woman is married to me...up to a $10 million USD net worth.
Studies show that 20% of marriages end in 5 years. No way in hell a woman should take 50% of a mans money in 5 years.
So a few examples:
5 year marriage
The man is worth $5 million dollars
The woman files for divorce
= She gets $250,000
That's it!
30 year marriage
The man is worth $5 million dollars
The woman files for divorce
= She gets $1,500,000
That's it
10 year marriage
The man is worth $1 million dollars
The woman files for divorce
= She gets $100,000
That's it
I think if a structure like this was in place, more women would stay in their marriages. According to recent studies, 70 to 90% of all divorces are filed by women. And unfortunately the court systems has women in favor to get all the benefits. Women get to have their cake and still eat it.
I wish more marriages were lasting 30 + years. Far too often these vows mean nothing when life gets difficult. The system needs to remove a reward for women leaving their marriages. And I also think more people need to be going to therapy whether they are in a happy relationship or an unhappy relationship.
That's all i gotta say on this Dr. Dre situation. And if I were to get married, a woman only gets 1% of my net worth for every year she is married to me, up to 10 million dollars. I'm 25 now and if I were to be married to woman for 50 years, she would have to be 75 years old plus before she is eligible to get half of my money.