Dr. Dre Paying $300,000 Per Month Towards His Ex Wife

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I woke up to this crazy news!

A man who has built himself to a 820 million dollar net worth, not has to pay $300,000 USD to his ex wife just because she raised her hand and said "I no longer want to be married to you Dre"

According to https://www.essence.com/celebrity/black-celeb-couples/dr-dre-wife/ , he has to pay that until she remaries. But what if she decides to never remarry and hook up with bad boys and travel the world?

Dr. Dre is 56 years old and
Nicole Young is 51 years old

If she was to live another 50 years (and Dr. Dre as well) he would spend $180 million dollars on a woman who no longer sleeps with him, deals with him, or helps him make any money.

What a crazy world we live in?

Now to be fair, I have also seen articles and videos highlighting Dr. Dre abusing his wife. If the reports are true, then I look down on Dr. Dre for that move. At no point should a man let his rage get to physical or verbal abuse. And I rightfully think he should pay for any damages done to a woman.

But $300,000 per month? That's too much.

Here is one report: https://people.com/music/dr-dre-wife-nicole-young-alleges-abuse-held-gun-to-head/

See what the court system does not understand is everytime they put these things out in the public, it scares good men away from ever wanting to get married. Because in this day and age, marriage benefits women 95% and men 5%. The main benefit a man gets from marriage is being able to move up in the corporate world to CEO, Executive and higher management.

There is a invisible but unspoken cap on men who are married. Rarely do you see men who are players getting the job over a guy who is married. But aside from Corporate and religious structures, marriage only benefits women.

Alleged Abuse When Things Go South

Ever notice something when marriages fail? Women are consistently talking about men being abusive? I Find it quite strange that women will do this at the end of a relationship. I am not discounting it does happen or does not happen. But I have to wonder... how often does it happen?

I am 25 years old, and my parents have been married for 26 years. I've never seen my Dad physically abuse my Mom. I've also yet to see any of my neighbors who are married abuse their wives. Maybe it happens under closed doors. But I still have to wonder, how often do men abuse women?

Every Man Should Get A Prenup

Yes, even if your net worth is $10,000 USD.

See, I would like to become very wealthy one day. And I have already mentally planned out how I want the prenup to look. I think it's 100% wrong for a man to give away half of what he built to a woman just because she no longer wants to be married.

But of course I do also think a woman should get something out of a divorce, fare is fare. I would be comfortable with giving away 1% of my net worth for every year a woman is married to me...up to a $10 million USD net worth.

Studies show that 20% of marriages end in 5 years. No way in hell a woman should take 50% of a mans money in 5 years.

So a few examples:

5 year marriage
The man is worth $5 million dollars
The woman files for divorce

= She gets $250,000

That's it!

30 year marriage
The man is worth $5 million dollars
The woman files for divorce

= She gets $1,500,000

That's it

10 year marriage
The man is worth $1 million dollars
The woman files for divorce

= She gets $100,000

That's it

I think if a structure like this was in place, more women would stay in their marriages. According to recent studies, 70 to 90% of all divorces are filed by women. And unfortunately the court systems has women in favor to get all the benefits. Women get to have their cake and still eat it.

I wish more marriages were lasting 30 + years. Far too often these vows mean nothing when life gets difficult. The system needs to remove a reward for women leaving their marriages. And I also think more people need to be going to therapy whether they are in a happy relationship or an unhappy relationship.

That's all i gotta say on this Dr. Dre situation. And if I were to get married, a woman only gets 1% of my net worth for every year she is married to me, up to 10 million dollars. I'm 25 now and if I were to be married to woman for 50 years, she would have to be 75 years old plus before she is eligible to get half of my money.
 

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Here's 2 things.

Number 1: Even pre-nups are not guaranteed. Somebody has to pay for something.

Zac's clients pay him so that he can eat.
People pay taxes so that the country is run.
Customers pay businesses so that companies can run.

Here's the Number 2: Fundamentally, human society is about two things.

- Value
- Culture


Science and Art. Why halfway lesbians turn straight. Why girls flip flop. And pretty much everything in life.

You really need both.

When Girlschase started merging with other forums, we had two things. Value and culture. You might be great at giving value but if you not adhere to the current culture, it's a misfit. It's also important to recognize that there are 3 sub rules.

1)Value
2)Culture
3)What the Culture perceives as value and actually solving their problem (because 7.8 billion customers can't differentiate.

Chase noted this in his post about workplace.

Added Content:

I clash with Velasco in the past which led up to my recent fiasco with him. Pushing aside that post was on the 'Wealth' tab....

Velasco is correct. That is point 1 and point 3.

i can have "value" but if the vehicle (post/communication) is flawed, and then point 3 is added. What Culture perceives as "Value", it makes it very difficult for other Girlschase members to actually support your post.

Because it is perceived as "no value".

because at the end of the day, as much as we virtue signal for camaraderie and inclusivity, we aren't really that. And this is a lot of people. Whether you are Girlschase members, RSD members or anywhere.

this is why Black lifes matter, our culture war is. They excel at this. And at it's source, we all know that the only thing that is truth, is power

Exclusive Added Bonus. Lolz

I clash with @Chase about 4-5 times in my time here.

I want to point to him that this will pop.
Maybe I suck at pointing to him, about this or he just want to run a business and talk about pickup. Not this Macro BS


Eventually, all business owners, all marketers, everyone will have to face this fact where we can't lie anymore. And the word 'lie' here means state stacking in business. Marriage is state stacking.

Marriage is 'state stacking' your customer.

so yea......our future children will be one of those who will dressed down our asses.

The thing is, fundamentally at the end of the day, it's who submits to who at the end of the day. And Velasco note this in one of his old post. Not exactly what I'm writing here but variation of.

TLDR: How You Approach To Reality at source

Velasco: Adversarial
Zac: The world is a place of bean bags
Chase and Hector: Tickles people into SUBMISSION

I thought I shall add how amazing Skills was able to switch from Adversarial to more democratic. I'm sure this has helped him tremendously in his pickup and girls.

But yeah....

The reality at it's source, will always remain the same. We all will reach a point where we need to combine all three or that there's a place and time for every approach (Adversarial, Pacifier, Empathy)

At least, this is how I see it.

z@c+
 

Troy

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Here's 2 things.

Number 1: Even pre-nups are not guaranteed. Somebody has to pay for something.

Zac's clients pay him so that he can eat.
People pay taxes so that the country is run.
Customers pay businesses so that companies can run.

Here's the Number 2: Fundamentally, human society is about two things.

- Value
- Culture


Science and Art. Why halfway lesbians turn straight. Why girls flip flop. And pretty much everything in life.

You really need both.

When Girlschase started merging with other forums, we had two things. Value and culture. You might be great at giving value but if you not adhere to the current culture, it's a misfit. It's also important to recognize that there are 3 sub rules.

1)Value
2)Culture
3)What the Culture perceives as value and actually solving their problem (because 7.8 billion customers can't differentiate.

Chase noted this in his post about workplace.

Added Content:

I clash with Velasco in the past which led up to my recent fiasco with him. Pushing aside that post was on the 'Wealth' tab....

Velasco is correct. That is point 1 and point 3.

i can have "value" but if the vehicle (post/communication) is flawed, and then point 3 is added. What Culture perceives as "Value", it makes it very difficult for other Girlschase members to actually support your post.

Because it is perceived as "no value".

because at the end of the day, as much as we virtue signal for camaraderie and inclusivity, we aren't really that. And this is a lot of people. Whether you are Girlschase members, RSD members or anywhere.

this is why Black lifes matter, our culture war is. They excel at this. And at it's source, we all know that the only thing that is truth, is power

Exclusive Added Bonus. Lolz

I clash with @Chase about 4-5 times in my time here.

I want to point to him that this will pop.
Maybe I suck at pointing to him, about this or he just want to run a business and talk about pickup. Not this Macro BS


Eventually, all business owners, all marketers, everyone will have to face this fact where we can't lie anymore. And the word 'lie' here means state stacking in business. Marriage is state stacking.

Marriage is 'state stacking' your customer.

so yea......our future children will be one of those who will dressed down our asses.

The thing is, fundamentally at the end of the day, it's who submits to who at the end of the day. And Velasco note this in one of his old post. Not exactly what I'm writing here but variation of.

TLDR: How You Approach To Reality at source

Velasco: Adversarial
Zac: The world is a place of bean bags
Chase and Hector: Tickles people into SUBMISSION

I thought I shall add how amazing Skills was able to switch from Adversarial to more democratic. I'm sure this has helped him tremendously in his pickup and girls.

But yeah....

The reality at it's source, will always remain the same. We all will reach a point where we need to combine all three or that there's a place and time for every approach (Adversarial, Pacifier, Empathy)

At least, this is how I see it.

z@c+
You said a whole lot there. But I read it, and re-read it and it does not relate one bit to what I wrote.
 

trashKENNUT

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Okay.

There seems to be a lack of understanding, and comprehension on the reality of things.

As example: Many first world citizens, do not understand supply chain. Supply Chain means where the raw materials go, where the warehouses is at, where the transport lines go to, factory, packaging, and then supermarket.

But really, What do you want me to say? Women today are married to either the government or you.

As I said, someone has to pay the bills. That person is a male. It's us.

What do you want me to say?

That marriage is awesome, legally? and the law and society is conducive/favorable to men?

That's all i gotta say on this Dr. Dre situation. And if I were to get married, a woman only gets 1% of my net worth for every year she is married to me, up to 10 million dollars. I'm 25 now and if I were to be married to woman for 50 years, she would have to be 75 years old plus before she is eligible to get half of my money.

Here's to all mgtow, anti marriage people, in case people think that I am bias.

No, females don't get 50% of your shit. That's a big lie. Females never ever gotten that much.

It's the same BS as Tiktok's 'I Hate All Men'
.

Girls won't take half of your shit. But it's a lot to be noticeable. You are trying to mitigate a dire situation of society and where we are at right now.

That's good. Good for you. You are doing good for yourself. You must protect yourself.

But you trying to make rice out of porridge.

That's many people.
That's just my opinion.
And I don't care really.

Humans are funny. I'm past arguing on this marriage thing. We are trying to save something that is somewhat already dead.

z@c+
 

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Prenups only protect money that you had BEFORE the marriage, and most of them don't hold up in court. There are specialist lawyers who know how to destroy prenup protections.

The reality is that you should only get married if you understand the reason you want to be married and you know the consequences of getting divorced.

And if you know that, do whatever you want. I think marrying for love is dumb but that's probably more of a cultural thing that I didn't get exposed to as much.

The studies out there do NOT suggest that women benefit more from marriage than men do... quite the opposite, actually...


Women TEND to benefit more from divorce, but that only holds true as long as men have more money than the women do.

I have a friend who lost half her money to her husband in a divorce because she's independently wealthy.

The last stat I read said that 1 in 4 marriages, the woman comes in with more money than the man does and outearns the man (I'd have to look that up but I'm pretty sure that was the stat).

Should the spouse get half the money? I don't know... but if you're worried about it, don't get married for love. And if you want to do something about it, start a political movement, you have my vote!
 

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If Dr Dre has to pay 300K USD every year to her ex that is 0.03% of his net worth.
He could easily set up an account with part of his money, fund it and have her live out of the interest.

300K USD is a ton of money for regular people but it’s cents for this man.

I don’t think you should really worry about this one. He is certainly NOT getting raped.
 

Troy

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If Dr Dre has to pay 300K USD every year to her ex that is 0.03% of his net worth.
He could easily set up an account with part of his money, fund it and have her live out of the interest.

300K USD is a ton of money for regular people but it’s cents for this man.

I don’t think you should really worry about this one. He is certainly NOT getting raped.
Yes 300k is 0.03% of his net worth. The marriage was 25 years long. Based on my analogy of being willing to give away 1% of my net worth for every year I am with a woman, if I were to apply that to Dr. Dre.

820 million net worth
X 25 years = $205 million towards his wife

On second thought, maybe I'm projecting my own lifestyle with his. It's really his decision and the court at the end of the day. That's like me having a net worth of 10 million and giving my wife 2 million.

I could make an exception for men of this wealth, at least she aint getting half his money. Maybe that was his prenup agreement afterall. I don't know. I'm feeling much better now that i put this math on a calculator. Maybe she getting a fair share of the wealth. I think I take back what I said earlier about capping it at 10 million dollars.

Maybe if I had a net worth of 1 billion dollars I would not care one bit if my ex wife gets 300 million dollars after being married to me for 30 years. That's 1% for every 1 year she commits to the marriage.


But take it away from Dr. Dre.. If you @uriel were to get married, and 5 years into the marriage, your wife said "I want a divorce".

Would you be willing to give a woman 5 million dollars out of your 10 million dollar net worth? even when she was married to you for 5 years?

I do believe men need some protection. It's too easy for women to walk out of relationships these days. And many men are getting sabotaged in the court system. I think 5 years is too short for a woman to take half a man's money.

Imagine those men who are not on Girls Chase or other forums learning about seduction. They could accidentally get married to a gold digger who spends 5 years with the man then takes half his stuff.
 
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The other option is have a stable partner, get some kids, live in separate residences and don't get married. Nobody would ask you to pay spousal support with that option.
 

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In a temporary order, Dr. Dre has been ordered to pay up big when it comes to spousal support for estranged wife Nicole Young, and we’re talking six figures a month.



The Blast reports that because the pair are still negotiating an overall settlement and have yet to finalize their divorce, this payment is a temporary solution. What he could be ordered to pay overall, based on his more than $200 million in available cash alone (he was estimated in 2019 to be worth more than $800 million), could be even more and possibly require the monthly support to halt. But until that’s figured out, the star will have to keep up with nearly $300,000 in payments from month to month.

It is common for the Temporary order during the divorce proceedings to be greater than what the ultimate alimony will be. I think sometimes it is to encourage the high earner in the split to settle. I'm glad to see my buddy Dre is following my lead. Those 1996 marriages were messed up...

What I have not figured out is if you have a business as a corporation , employ and pay your wife MORE than you pay yourself, how does that figure on spousal support? Child support not withstanding?

https://www.inc.com/guides/2010/05/protecting-your-business-from-divorce.html


How to Protect Your Business in a Divorce: Using a Partnership, Shareholder, LLC and/or Buy-Sell Agreements to 'Lock-out' Your Spouse.
Partnership, shareholder and/or operating agreements should include various provisions that would protect the interests of the other owners if one of the owners gets divorced, including:
  • A requirement that unmarried shareholders provide the company with a prenup agreement prior to marriage along with a waiver by the owner's spouse-to-be of his or her future interest in the business.
  • A prohibition against the transfer of shares without the approval of the other partners or shareholders and the right, but not the obligation, of the partners or shareholders to purchase the shares or interest of one or both of the divorcing parties so that the other owners can maintain their control of the business.
How to Protect Your Business in a Divorce: Pay Yourself a Competitive Salary
This point is often overlooked. If you don't pay yourself a competitive salary and instead reinvest everything back into the business, your soon to be ex-spouse might claim that he or she is entitled to more money or a larger percentage of your business because he or she did not derive any benefit and all your money went back into the business instead of the household.
How to Protect Your Business in a Divorce: Think Twice About Involving Your Spouse in Your Business

As we discussed earlier, all or part of your business will probably be considered marital property. If your spouse was employed by you or your company, helped run the company in any way or even contributed business ideas during your marriage, then he or she may be entitled to a substantial percentage of your business. The more involved in your business your spouse was, the bigger that percentage would be. If you have partners in your business, then your spouse would own a percentage of your share.

How to Protect Your Business in a Divorce: How to 'Pay-off' Your Spouse
If for whatever reason you were not able to adequately protect your business and now your spouse is entitled to an ownership interest, here are some ways to pay him or her off (I'm assuming your don't want to be business partners after the divorce):
  • Use your share of other marital assets including cash, stocks, real estate, retirement funds, etc.
  • Property Settlement Note – this is a long-term payout (with interest) of the amount you owe your ex-spouse for the value of her share of the business.
  • Sell the business and divide the sales price. This is obviously the least preferred method, but all too common. When the business represents the vast majority of all assets, there just may be no other way to pay-off the other spouse.
 
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Prenups only protect money that you had BEFORE the marriage, and most of them don't hold up in court. There are specialist lawyers who know how to destroy prenup protections.

The reality is that you should only get married if you understand the reason you want to be married and you know the consequences of getting divorced.

And if you know that, do whatever you want. I think marrying for love is dumb but that's probably more of a cultural thing that I didn't get exposed to as much.

The studies out there do NOT suggest that women benefit more from marriage than men do... quite the opposite, actually...


Women TEND to benefit more from divorce, but that only holds true as long as men have more money than the women do.

I have a friend who lost half her money to her husband in a divorce because she's independently wealthy.

The last stat I read said that 1 in 4 marriages, the woman comes in with more money than the man does and outearns the man (I'd have to look that up but I'm pretty sure that was the stat).

Should the spouse get half the money? I don't know... but if you're worried about it, don't get married for love. And if you want to do something about it, start a political movement, you have my vote!
Well we have mgtow and red pill,but those don't seem to be doing much anyways. Instead of forming a social revolution what are some other countries men can move to avoid these crappy dynamics? Preferably a country where feminism is irrelevant and women don't cry victim 24/7
 

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Well we have mgtow and red pill,but those don't seem to be doing much anyways.

It's easier to whine and be a victim than actually do anything about it.

Instead of forming a social revolution what are some other countries men can move to avoid these crappy dynamics? Preferably a country where feminism is irrelevant and women don't cry victim 24/7

The more westerners move to another place, the more that place becomes like the west.
 

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It’s state sponsored resource transfer.
The state don’t want to be responsible for washed up women, so they offload that liability on the previous man in her life.
It’s as simple as that.
It gives young men some difficult choices going forward if they want children, and there’s a huge debate about whether or not marriage is worth it, especially in the US.
i think it will time out over the next few decades as fewer and fewer men opt to play the game, and more and more see what’s going on.
The state will respond with more direct taxation of anyone earning (and that’s more women nowadays)
 

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It's easier to whine and be a victim than actually do anything about it.



The more westerners move to another place, the more that place becomes like the west.
(Sigh) makes sense. In nyc guys from online hear about the man to woman ratio and they rush over here. Or they hear that some bars are good for game and have lots of girls out and they rush over there and spam approach and fuck it up for everyone else.
 

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Or just be very picky about who you choose as your life partner.
The problem is people change over time (both men and women), who Dr Dre and his wife were 20 years ago maybe different from who they are now. Another option is to use every legal angle possible to prevent this sort of thing from happening to you.
 

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Elon musk has been devorced and remarried 3 times. each time he had to pay north of 20M to his ex wife. now he doesn’t even bother getting married
 

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The problem is people change over time (both men and women), who Dr Dre and his wife were 20 years ago maybe different from who they are now. Another option is to use every legal angle possible to prevent this sort of thing from happening to you.
I’m not sure someone can go from submissive sweet nurturing girl to complete vindictive bitch.
That’s quite a change.

But yeah, I guess a pre-nup is a must if you have a high net worth.
 
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