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You want to conquer New York?

You want to conquer Asia?

Go fuck yourself. I hate to say it and i am not a negative guy. I am a pissed off guy, and around nov to early december, it was very visible in my post.

But here's the thing: IF you want to really Know How Things are: You Gotta To See Thru OUR LENS, TOO. And other people lenses!


You want nice? Checkout Chase's conversation with me on this.

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=14362&p=72791&hilit=camaraderie#p72791

I hate to say it but sometimes i do question the resilience. Trust me, High level people which is just a term, still get shit thrown. It's cool to be unhappy you know but i see that mainstream really fuck everyone's brains and energy .

Occasionally, People will say Zac is 'negative' but if you been here awhile, i wasn't always unhappy. :) So don't quickly throw labels. I am more positive than you think. And I am sure Drck is pretty positive than what people think.

only pissed off :)

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When you bite into bitter Red Pill, you'd also be a bitter. Red Pill is bitter.

I already wrote it, I feel sorry for today's young(er) guys, especially in their early 20's who live in Western World... Why? Several reasons, for example:

* Lower testosterone levels = lower masculinity = overall lower attraction to females. Today's young(er) guy has to work very hard to increase his attraction. Just look around here on GC how much effort it takes for an average guy to "become better"... Is it a result of lower testosterone? Most likely, there are probably more factors but lower testosterone definitely contributes to it...

* Screwed up society that favors women, society full of feminism where male is looked down. Look at today's TV shows, man is usually perceived as a clowns... disrespected, looked down to, being talk to like he's a silly fool... And he agrees with it, he laughs at it, thinks it is funny... It is actually disgusting. Is such a man attractive to women? Fuck no. But that is how today's women look generally at men... Results of low testosterone levels? You bet... Nobody respect weak man, nobody wants to be with weak man... Women may tolerate a weak man for some time because he is friendly enough and because they provide, or just so they are not alone, but they will dump such man in no time and with no regrets... Don't make mistake about it... Women don't value weak man, that is the truth. Many women will deny it, but they will rather be with criminals, so called "bad boys" because these guys have no value for today's screwed up society. These guys are true bad boys, not a fake ones... Women know this society is screw up, they don't respect men that can't see it...

* Law usually protect women thanks to weak men (White Knights, protectors, social justices, heroes,.. The law is many times against you if you are a man...

* Equality nonsense being constantly shoved in our face. What equality? We are not equal, we were never equal... Should something happen to civilization, average or even weaker man can survive on his own in nature for months, years. The same doesn't apply to women, most wouldn't survive on their own. Women NEED physically stronger men in order to survive, they NEED men to protect them, to take care of them... Women NEED men to provide for them... That is right - women NEED providers, they can't survive without providers... If you want to read it differently, in the past the men had power over relationships, women needed them thus they were in charge of the relationship by default... We however live in society, in which - unfortunately - women no longer need men. Women today can get any job they want. They are more and more independent of men, they can survive easily on their own in society... Women no longer need men, thus man have no real power over relationships... Provider-ship of men was replaced by provider-ship of society as a whole... So again, individual man's overall value goes way down...

* As if that wasn't good enough, there are lots of males who are plainly fools - Beta guys, White Knights, Protectors... They always do the best to SERVE women... They are servants... they build safe homes and malls for them. They protect them by laws. They feel sorry for them. They put them in charge of politics... Does ANY man has to go to the mall and shop? Does ANY man listens to orders and nonsense and illogical policies that most women come up with? I'll tell you one thing - that is not a real man, that's a pussy...

* So average Good Man (hard and honest working guy) in today's society is simply perceived as a servant. He is a Slave. Fool. He works hard, he pays taxes, he gets good education, he creates great things, he wants to be a good provider... And what does he get in rewards? Nothing, very little. He is in huge debt. He can't get job he wants. He has hard time to get a good girl. Well, there are really not that many good girls left, girls are being thought to behave like sluts, they sleep around and they believe it is normal. Many girls don't see a value of LTR's and marriages, they run away from any guy who shows interest in LTR because they believe he must so boring and needy... Many young women rather chose to be single moms, it is more convenient - they can fuck around anytime and anyone without consequences, and they are getting all the societal support they want... Not only that, they make others feel sorry for them, it is just so difficult to use contraception these days... But again, why not, if it is the guy who will pay for her and the child? That is right, assuming that he is currently not in jail, he will pay... He will not sleep with her, he will be painted as a bad man, villain - yet he will be always good enough to pay...

Quality of western girls has diminished - girls are getting fat at early age, many girls can't cook and clean, they don't take care of children... Many girls suffer depression and anxiety, popping pills became a norm... What for does a good man need such girl? Is he insane?? Why would he want to do it to himself??

Yet you see many guys working very very hard to increase their attraction, they work 24/7 so such girls like him... He has to learn difficult concepts of seduction because he has no clue how women think and why they behave the way they behave... He gets dumped and hurt very easily because women don't respect him at first place... He gets depressed when such girl of low value dumps him... Trully, he is just a fool, he was raised as a fool and that is exactly how he behaves, believing that it is normal...

.............

So in quick summary, you as an average young guy have very low perceived value in today's society. You have to work very hard to get a girl, and once you get her you have to work hard to keep her. She may chose to dump you at any time (e.g. when you do little mistake in relationship) and she can find replacement virtually overnight, without any regrets or consequences. You may be a quality guy (hard working, honest, educated, goal oriented, financially secured,...) yet your value is perceived as low... Thanks to technology you have way more competition than older generations, with flip of the finger on her iPhone she can find a guy who appears more attractive than you in seconds... You might be like a Mercedes that worth 60K but is being sold for hardly 20K on today's market...

An average girl has much higher perceived value than you; Thanks to technology she gets attention everywhere - internet, social social media, clubs... Which basically means that she has way more choices than older generations had, and which also means that her self-esteem is falsely boosted - her sexual market value could be 6-7, yet because of the excess of attention from tens or hundreds of guys she feels like she is 9+, and behaves accordingly - she can dumps any guy left and right as she feels like to... She may be like a Honda Civic, used and with lots of miles on, worth really 12K while being sold for 50K in today's market...

So who is the fool? It is not the girls. The girls are very smart...

Does such man who realizes this get bitter and angry? You bet. Every single guy here should get bitter, angry and pissed, because every single guy here is being perceived like a fool. If you think this is pessimistic view, you IMO don't understand quite well, you are still chewing happy Blue Pill of Nice Guys... This is rather realistic view, once you put couple of years in your life into society and keep your eyes open, you will see what is really happening around... Or you can remain blind about it while keep chewing happy Blue Pill... the choice is only yours...

Is Red Pill the answer? It is not. It's an explanation but not the answer. Don't get trapped in Red Pill, don't get trapped in bitterness... Many guys chose to follow Red Pill and/or MGTOW, they simply stop participating in society as such... But that's not the answer either, one should get past that point...
 

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Just to stem from what you said, Drck. I believe that is the starting point for all of us in the West, but after just a handful of months, you can be a completely deifferent beast. I started dating again in October and I've laid 3 girls and a MILF since November, and boy does that change you. My whole being is much more relaxed and confident, I tease girls everywhere I go, I don't put up with shit anymore, I know I can blow the women's minds and have left 99% of the men in the dust.

Yes, starting in the West is tough, but once you start growing, you stand out, A LOT. I strongly agree with the low testosterone thing, I remedy that for myself by abstaining from porn and masturbating, taking cold showers, and using affirmations (also reading a chapter out loud in the morning helps center your voice, which makes you feel good and makes women's heads turn).

No need to get angry, just know the starting point of everyone around us, and leave them in the dust.
 

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Not sure if I missed a part (it was pretty long), but I didn't feel there was anything aimed at you specifically. Drck seemed to just be stating his views on things
 

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True Joshuken, it wasn't aimed at you Slay at all... it is rather general view at today's (western) society through Red Pill glasses, it is a view at young(er) generations of guys... IMO the overall environment for Good Guy today simply sucks, he has to work hard for minimal returns, if it can be said that way...

Don't take it personally bro, IMO there is nothing insulting in my text, and if you found some insult it wasn't my intention... just keep your eyes open, keep reading different sources, you'll see what I'm talking about in no time...
 

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Drck said:
When you bite into bitter Red Pill, you'd also be a bitter. Red Pill is bitter.

I already wrote it, I feel sorry for today's young(er) guys, especially in their early 20's who live in Western World... Why? Several reasons, for example:

* Lower testosterone levels = lower masculinity = overall lower attraction to females. Today's young(er) guy has to work very hard to increase his attraction. Just look around here on GC how much effort it takes for an average guy to "become better"... Is it a result of lower testosterone? Most likely, there are probably more factors but lower testosterone definitely contributes to it...

* Screwed up society that favors women, society full of feminism where male is looked down. Look at today's TV shows, man is usually perceived as a clowns... disrespected, looked down to, being talk to like he's a silly fool... And he agrees with it, he laughs at it, thinks it is funny... It is actually disgusting. Is such a man attractive to women? Fuck no. But that is how today's women look generally at men... Results of low testosterone levels? You bet... Nobody respect weak man, nobody wants to be with weak man... Women may tolerate a weak man for some time because he is friendly enough and because they provide, or just so they are not alone, but they will dump such man in no time and with no regrets... Don't make mistake about it... Women don't value weak man, that is the truth. Many women will deny it, but they will rather be with criminals, so called "bad boys" because these guys have no value for today's screwed up society. These guys are true bad boys, not a fake ones... Women know this society is screw up, they don't respect men that can't see it...

* Law usually protect women thanks to weak men (White Knights, protectors, social justices, heroes,.. The law is many times against you if you are a man...

* Equality nonsense being constantly shoved in our face. What equality? We are not equal, we were never equal... Should something happen to civilization, average or even weaker man can survive on his own in nature for months, years. The same doesn't apply to women, most wouldn't survive on their own. Women NEED physically stronger men in order to survive, they NEED men to protect them, to take care of them... Women NEED men to provide for them... That is right - women NEED providers, they can't survive without providers... If you want to read it differently, in the past the men had power over relationships, women needed them thus they were in charge of the relationship by default... We however live in society, in which - unfortunately - women no longer need men. Women today can get any job they want. They are more and more independent of men, they can survive easily on their own in society... Women no longer need men, thus man have no real power over relationships... Provider-ship of men was replaced by provider-ship of society as a whole... So again, individual man's overall value goes way down...

* As if that wasn't good enough, there are lots of males who are plainly fools - Beta guys, White Knights, Protectors... They always do the best to SERVE women... They are servants... they build safe homes and malls for them. They protect them by laws. They feel sorry for them. They put them in charge of politics... Does ANY man has to go to the mall and shop? Does ANY man listens to orders and nonsense and illogical policies that most women come up with? I'll tell you one thing - that is not a real man, that's a pussy...

* So average Good Man (hard and honest working guy) in today's society is simply perceived as a servant. He is a Slave. Fool. He works hard, he pays taxes, he gets good education, he creates great things, he wants to be a good provider... And what does he get in rewards? Nothing, very little. He is in huge debt. He can't get job he wants. He has hard time to get a good girl. Well, there are really not that many good girls left, girls are being thought to behave like sluts, they sleep around and they believe it is normal. Many girls don't see a value of LTR's and marriages, they run away from any guy who shows interest in LTR because they believe he must so boring and needy... Many young women rather chose to be single moms, it is more convenient - they can fuck around anytime and anyone without consequences, and they are getting all the societal support they want... Not only that, they make others feel sorry for them, it is just so difficult to use contraception these days... But again, why not, if it is the guy who will pay for her and the child? That is right, assuming that he is currently not in jail, he will pay... He will not sleep with her, he will be painted as a bad man, villain - yet he will be always good enough to pay...

Quality of western girls has diminished - girls are getting fat at early age, many girls can't cook and clean, they don't take care of children... Many girls suffer depression and anxiety, popping pills became a norm... What for does a good man need such girl? Is he insane?? Why would he want to do it to himself??

Yet you see many guys working very very hard to increase their attraction, they work 24/7 so such girls like him... He has to learn difficult concepts of seduction because he has no clue how women think and why they behave the way they behave... He gets dumped and hurt very easily because women don't respect him at first place... He gets depressed when such girl of low value dumps him... Trully, he is just a fool, he was raised as a fool and that is exactly how he behaves, believing that it is normal...

.............

So in quick summary, you as an average young guy have very low perceived value in today's society. You have to work very hard to get a girl, and once you get her you have to work hard to keep her. She may chose to dump you at any time (e.g. when you do little mistake in relationship) and she can find replacement virtually overnight, without any regrets or consequences. You may be a quality guy (hard working, honest, educated, goal oriented, financially secured,...) yet your value is perceived as low... Thanks to technology you have way more competition than older generations, with flip of the finger on her iPhone she can find a guy who appears more attractive than you in seconds... You might be like a Mercedes that worth 60K but is being sold for hardly 20K on today's market...

An average girl has much higher perceived value than you; Thanks to technology she gets attention everywhere - internet, social social media, clubs... Which basically means that she has way more choices than older generations had, and which also means that her self-esteem is falsely boosted - her sexual market value could be 6-7, yet because of the excess of attention from tens or hundreds of guys she feels like she is 9+, and behaves accordingly - she can dumps any guy left and right as she feels like to... She may be like a Honda Civic, used and with lots of miles on, worth really 12K while being sold for 50K in today's market...

So who is the fool? It is not the girls. The girls are very smart...

Does such man who realizes this get bitter and angry? You bet. Every single guy here should get bitter, angry and pissed, because every single guy here is being perceived like a fool. If you think this is pessimistic view, you IMO don't understand quite well, you are still chewing happy Blue Pill of Nice Guys... This is rather realistic view, once you put couple of years in your life into society and keep your eyes open, you will see what is really happening around... Or you can remain blind about it while keep chewing happy Blue Pill... the choice is only yours...

Is Red Pill the answer? It is not. It's an explanation but not the answer. Don't get trapped in Red Pill, don't get trapped in bitterness... Many guys chose to follow Red Pill and/or MGTOW, they simply stop participating in society as such... But that's not the answer either, one should get past that point...

As a future therapist it's not my obligation to judge, but, you're an idiot.
 

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To all,

I don't want to answer all your questions. That's the thing with man, doesn't it? We guys post about dating and talk about how others are lazy and not trying to see from their eyes, and how we all are like morality and all this other bullshit, but then you fuck people's girlfriends and talk about morality again.

You guys are pissed off right?

Exactly, that's my point. Are you guys stupid or what? :)

I am trying to convey two things.

1)to people who complain about how shit it is. Don't throw labels at me saying i am "negative". Fuck you. For 4 years in here, i am pretty chill. So 4 months, and suddenly it feels like i am shit?

2)Most men, including you guys, and a certain Asian PUA who bans me from Facebook because i made just one single fucking comment on Facebook, about using other girls as jealousy ploy.

I guess Men are Men eh. :) You all bullshit about practicality and words and trying not to fuck people's girlfriends or being "good", but it all disappears in a lay report because oh it's nothing personal.

I am showing beginners and everyone how everyone operates from "it's nothing personal" mentality. Guess you all feel the 'negative' of the other side right? :)

So why you all make things personal now? Suddenly walking in the shoe of the other, sucks eh..... and that's exactly my point.

Zac
 

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and btw,

I am expecting hate. It's Fun being the heel character. :) It's where people suddenly feels the other shoe of the other person.

Again, unless you all are idiots, (playing the manipulative card (haha!) ): I am trying to show people how WE ALL OPERATE FROM "It's nothing personal" mentality.

So how do you like me now? :)

Zac
 

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Alright,

I'm down to share some of my thoughts.

1) There's nothing that can be explained with "That's just the way it is" and thus, there is absolutely no reason to be pissed off about anything.

2) Morality, I feel, doesn't exist. There is nothing innately right or wrong, and there is nothing that innately has more or less meaning than anything else. Sure, there are socially constructed ideas about what is "right" or "wrong" and it's all just an attempt to justify or support there being some type of "meaning" in life. Murdering someone is illegal and morally "wrong" because it justifies the concept that a human life has meaning in the first place. In the grand scheme of things we're all going to die, and everything we do and whatever "meaning" we create will eventually die off but I think the best way to live is to live to your fullest potential, even if that potential will one day die.

3) With all of this in mind, why waste my time feeling bitter about something that inevitably means nothing to me unless I say it does? Why should I feel pissed off about anything? You think that because somebody tells me "You're supposed to be pissed off, and here's why" that I'm going to be pissed off? That's no different than the bible-thumpers that knock on my door every Sunday morning saying "You're supposed to be a Christian, and here's why." And then when I disagree with them they act like I'm the idiot, same as you and Drck perceive to be doing.

4) If you and Drck feel the need to keep imposing your thoughts onto other people then it seems very personal. You're not exposing any great truth or new idea, you're exposing an opinion (the same thing I'm doing) and as such I have the liberty to completely disagree with anything the two of you say, and you both have the liberty to disagree with anything I say.

Life is too short for me to waste my time feeling angry or bitter; instead, I incorporate my Ikigai into everything I do.

-Richard
 

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errr,,,,

It's not imposing. I am telling people the mentality of where we all operate from.

When high level men like that Asian PUA, and you guys start talking about how "good" you guys are or morality or dismiss others as lazy and not working enough, that's bullshit. Not 100% bullshit but still. You guys are no different than liberals who wants all the power. You just don't see that you are doing that.


Not dragging Chase into this but it's quite interesting that i notice how brilliant he is, and how he can hangout with people like Aaron Sleazy or me, but just enough to not upset the status quo, which is you guys, who have egos.

I don't want egos. I want teachings to be as honest but nice so that people won't go thru the shit that i went thru or less of it.

I want beginners and intermediates, and everyone to recognize that everyone is ought for themselves. And the principle i am missing out? Thinking that everyone is operating from my perception.

Though i am operating from reality, you are perceiving me from yourself. People can't let go. That's another thing. :) I guess I can't let go, too..... in a sense where technically i am teaching people from perception of reality but you all can't see it because you think i am operating from the self.

So I guess We as a society will always talk past each other.



Zac
 

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Zac,

The very nature of saying "This is where we operate from" and "I am telling people this is where we operate from" is imposing.

Reality is subjective. Another way of putting that is that there is no concrete "reality" and thus you cannot operate from it.

Also, it's highly egoistic of you to advise people on what is best for them; "If I teach them XYZ then they won't experience the hurt that I did." As people, we are fundamentally alone in that nobody can live our lives for us and as such you are in no position to "tell people" anything. There is a big difference between "This is what I think is going on" and "This is what is going on." The former is a suggestion on things, and the latter is not. In case you haven't noticed, Chase never "advises" or "tells" people what to do, he follows the former of the two.

In my case, I also think that because we are fundamentally alone we are totally responsible and free for what we do. If something isn't working out in your life, if you're unhappy, if you're bitter, etc. Anything you think, say, feel, etc. is based totally on yourself. If you're not getting results, it's your fault. Again, I have the final say so in what happens in my life and nobody else is responsible for the "good" or the "bad" that I experience.
 

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Richard,

Richard said:
Reality is subjective. Another way of putting that is that there is no concrete "reality" and thus you cannot operate from it.

That's a way of dismissing people. :) like liberals.

See what i did there? I am doing the same thing, to you. We all operate from ourselves. That's a fact. It's like gravity. Don't believe me? Put me in a room with you and another girl.

So there's me, you and this girl. And You can probably talk about Jesus/God/Eckhart tolle/etc all you want. I live in this world long enough to know that either one of us will start flirting with the girl and be territorial.



Richard said:
Also, it's highly egoistic of you to advise people on what is best for them;

It is HIGHLY BULLSHIT when I FUCKING SAY about a principle issue but you tell me that what i am writing is i am suggesting what is best for them. That's BOLLOCKS.

Telling people we are ought for ourselves, is like telling people that there's gravity. Not what is best for them.

Zac
 

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Richard: "As a future therapist it's not my obligation to judge, but, you're an idiot"

Oh Richard, that's just primitive insult, you can do much better than that... Judging your words though, you are pissed. But is it me who got you pissed, or is it the reality that I am describing??

Try this instead, show me where I am wrong... e.g. Start with testosterone levels in different generations for the past 100 years... or explain how equality of men and women is good, e.g. You'd rather be protected by female cop than male cop, or saved by female fire fighter than male firefighter from m burning home... Show how many women actually build bridges, roads, tunnels or building... Explain why women shouldn't be drafted in case of war - not that I would want women doing these things BUT - that is also EQUALITY, no...??? Isn't that also equality? Who is the fool?

...show that women don't really need good providers, good honest and hard working guys, and that these guys (us!) were replaced by system, government... show that single moms are not on rise in US because the system supports such behavior... show that children are doing better when raised by single neurotic mom vs in stable traditional family... or tell me that guys don't have to work quite hard these days to get even average girl, and to keep her...

...perhaps show that obesity is not on rise in US, and that obese are actually more attractive than skinnier.... Explain how girls respect guys so much that they don't even bother to answer simple phone texts... Or show that girls are not neurotic, that at least quarter of females are not popping pills for anxiety and depression, and another good quarter of them should be popping those pills...

Show... oh, forget it, I already know your answers...

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Richard: "Life is too short for me to waste my time feeling angry or bitter"
>>>> but that's also the problem... you (many guys) are relying on feelings, and not reallly thinking... That's why the text appears negative or bitter to you, but the reality - as Zac said - is different, e.g. I am considering myself actually quite happy guy, happier and luckier than most guys here... Reality is reality, no matter how you 'feel' about it...
 

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Drck said:
Show... oh, forget it, I already know your answers...

I have a few simple questions for you;

1) Would you ever eat ice cream that has cyanide in it?
2) Would you ever drive a car with an active bomb attached to it?

-Richard
 

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Ar...

All too often.

Nobody can say anything. Because i am just pointing to the truth. So people understand that we operate from ourselves. So if people want the nice version of dating and socializing,

Come on and check out this post. Read THIS LIKE THE BIBLE. BIGBOSS notes this himself. Not implying anything. Just Read this honestly. The 'Nice' version of Dating and Socializing. The Nice Version of Capitalism in A Way. lolx

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=14362&p=72791&hilit=camaraderie#p72791

READ IT UNTIL YOUR BUTTS ARE RED :) IF ppl think what i am saying is nonsense, I can send you a small part of Chase's email so that it gets in your HEAD.

Zac
 

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Okay,

I think I'm seeing where we disagree at.

Zac,

I never said we don't operate from ourselves; re-read what I wrote about the existential bit and you'll see that, because we are fundamentally alone in the world (again, in that nobody lives our lives for us) then we have to operate from ourselves. So, yes, we all operate with our best interest in mind; again, I think everybody lives their lives to reach their fullest potential.

What I'm disagreeing about is that we are bitter as a result of this, and vicariously some of the semantics we're throwing around. I'm saying you can't say anything about "reality" because it's only a "reality" to you; if you and I go through the exact same situations we'll come out having learned different things and thus your "reality" isn't the same as my "reality." There's an infinite number of ways to interpret any situation.

So, we agree that everyone operates with their own interest in mind, but what I'm not seeing is a clear case for why we should be bitter because of that? Drck sites the downfall of the "average" man over the last 100 years as a reason for men to be bitter (which I think is the stupidest fucking thing I've ever heard), and you, Zac, I'm not understanding why you're pissed off or angry so if you can properly explain that I'll happily put my two-cents in.

Drck,

In your case we just don't see eye to eye. As an existential thinker we just won't see things the same way.

One last thing, emotions like bitterness, etc. can contribute to hormonal deficiencies, physical stress, and other diseases so why hold on to an emotion that has the potential to ruin your life? A fabulous quote; "Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."
 

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So, at the end of the day I'm concerned with;

"What is life's meaning? or "What's the point in being alive?"

We're all going to die, and eventually the human race will die off and everything we've done or accomplished both as a people and as individuals will cease to exist and even if things continue to go on, I, as a person will die and won't be able to continually enjoy what I've created so it's like never having existed anyway. Even the idea that what you create or build is going to further inspire people in the future only gives you satisfaction now because, again, you won't be able to enjoy it when you're 6 feet under.

So, that leaves the question; "What can you do in the here and now?" or "What can you do while you're alive?"

Again, I think that people's only option to have actual "meaning" is to find it in yourself, and I think you find it in yourself by pursuing your highest potential; what Abraham Maslow referred to as self-actualization (to borrow his work) and then living in accordance with it. Some of the most renowned artists in history were laughed at, scoffed, or belittled when they were alive but their pure passion for their craft is what kept them going and kept them creating and now they're renowned. Doing something you love simply because you love it and then incorporating those principles/hobbies/etc. into your life, I feel, is the way to find the most meaning in your life, and is the only way to become self-actualized and utilize your Ikigai.

Feeling bitter, or resentful, etc. is an absolute waste of your potential as a person. That goes for men and for women, I don't care about the plight of the average man or the feminist movement because I'm frying bigger fish. I'm concerned with how every one of those people can have the most meaning in their lives and reach their highest potential, and griping about "dating" or "seduction" or "relationships" just isn't the way for anybody to find either of those things. They're just too small and unimportant and I, also, think that about them the same way I think about "religion" or "politics;" people only concern themselves with them because it gives them a sense of meaning (in most cases). I firmly believe that some people are in politics, etc. because it is truly for them and it's them reaching their highest potential.

-Richard
 

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Richard: "One last thing, emotions like bitterness, etc. can contribute to hormonal deficiencies, physical stress, and other diseases so why hold on to an emotion"

>>>> You are only assuming that I am bitter, because that is how you perceive what I'm describing... You see girls through pink glasses - sweet, cute, sexy, innocent, perhaps even childish.... True, that's how they appear, but they also have many other faces, which are not visible through pink glasses.. . When somebody takes off those glasses though, all you see is bitterness, but it's only because you are not used to see the world without those pink glasses...

I can assure you that I am not bitter, not at all. All I'm saying is keep your eyes open, remove the glasses and see the reality on your own....

* The sweetest girl you know can turn into cold and ruthless bitch overnight. She may turn all of the friends and most family against you in short period of time, and usually before you realize that she is breaking up with you...You may feel that she is the closest person that you've ever known, yet she can turn totally cold towards you in no time...
* High rate of divorces, usually initiated by the woman... It's usually men who get screwed, e.g. Alimony, child support, different accusations, domestic violence...
* High (increasing) number of single moms (Why is that? Is it better for the child to be raised in stable more traditional family setting when both parents contribute, or by single and usually steressed out mom?) (https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/won ... a1ae4d2609)
* Increasing number of women on antidepressants, e.g. Diagnosed with depression and anxiety ... (http://apps.who.int/medicinedocs/docume ... 9032en.pdf)
* High rates of obesity (lower attraction) (http://www.treehugger.com/green-food/gr ... world.html)
* Lunacy of feminists, e.g. See Ashley Judd or Madonna on recent anti-Trump protests (YouTube)... brainwashed? Shocking? Just plainly stupid and illogical? Angry? See yourself the YouTube, you judge... or look up "toxic masculinity", LOL
* Equality nonsense... It's MEN who do all the hard labor, it's men who usually work much harder than women, it's men who do the dangerous jobs... So what equality?

I'm telling you that men in previous generations had it much better than youn(er) guys today... They were more respected, they were more masculine, they had more power over relationships...

This is not bitterness brother, this is reality... The only thing that matters is how you chose to see what is going on around you...
 
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