What's new

FR  Dropped the ball on persistence about her boyfriend

Tripz

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 20, 2015
Messages
26
Hey fellas, I'm super happy to finally be posting something worthy, so let's get into it.

I'm at the bar with a friend, it was pretty wild there was a famous local band playing so the place was packed, me and my friend kind of split up in the whole mess and I met this amazing blonde.
By amazing I mean - 6ft bright blonde, sexy evil smile and she had that radiant feminine energy just coming out of her, her every move made my masculine side come out more and more, I felt super attracted to this super feminine girl so I said fuck it and approached her.

I though about indirect opening her but I got the feeling that with that beauty and feminine energy she probably has all sorts of guys going at her so I opted for a direct opener "Hi, What's your name?". A couple of secs later she tried to test me I guess by asking me why I came up and talked to her, I though about playing a bit hard to get or just kind of dismiss this and say that I just wanted to meet her and shit but I just plain out and said I though she is cute and sexy and I wanted to meet her.

She started responding very warmly, to a point where I though she was more attracted to me than I was to her, I started deep diving her about what school she is in, why'd she choose it, life goals bla bla.

I think of myself as a pretty good dancer (cause my mom forced me to take tango and ballet classes as a kid) so I asked her to dance, and it was WILD! I mean the music was kind of rock n rollish but went with the rhythm and it was awesome, she was super sexual and light and a pretty good dancer, I'd pick her up and drop her to the ground and softly but firmly bite her neck, she started getting super horny I could just feel it, eveywhere our skins would touch I could feel like a touch-gasm from her side and mine, she started moaning like "your gonna leave me bite marks" and shit, I just ignored it and kept on dancing.

Finally we grabbed one last drink, and I told her that this party is dying and we should head out (she didn't say where, why, what, she just plainly put her hand around mine and walked out with me), so we start walking to my car and just as we approach the back seats I push her towards the door and start making out with her, I open the door we get inside and we just get freaky, we were making out and groping at each other for like 20 minutes, I tried putting my hand down her pants at the beginning but got a firm block so I though I'd put her in the mood more and than take it further, and then everything WAS GONE TO SHIT.
As soon as she muttered the words "we shouldn't be doing this I have a boyfriend" I got sucked into reality and dropped the ball, I though of an article at the time that Chase wrote about dealing with girls with boyfriends, I said to her "We're both enjoying this too much" She smiled and I said something like "Your smiling because you think I'm kidding, but you wouldn't be here if you didn't like it" or something, I kept making out with her trying to get in her pants but she kept resisting, and finally someone called her phone, and the mood just got SHOT DOWN!!!

We talked a bit afterwards, made out some more and that was it.

I'm kind of punching myself in the head cause I know how I should have responded when she started to resist, but I'll take this as a lesson for next time, I don't know why but I just got lost when she muttered those words, and I've been with girls with boyfriends previously but I fucking lost it this time.
I still feel kind of proud and I recognize that without all the info I found here from you guys I probably wouldn't have gotten her to that point, really motivating for me to keep on pushing more and more :D.
 

ray_zorse

Modern Human
Modern Human
Joined
Aug 12, 2014
Messages
1,982
I think you did great. It may be that she simply wasn't DTF that night. The fact you pulled her to a seduction location is worthy of major kudos so bask in them my friend ;) That still hardly ever happens to me haha.

Just wanted to note one thing on terminology, a direct opener is something like "Hi there... you are cute and sexy and I want to talk to you" whereas if you said this a few sentences into the conversation you technically didn't open direct. It was a good call to say this. It's vitally important that you state your intentions at the outset and be ballsy about it, as you pointed out she probably gets a lot of guys coming up to her and vying for her attention while hiding the banana. My advice would be to next time say it as part of your opener :) I just went away for the weekend and spent 48hrs doing nothing but opening women direct and let me tell you, it works. Great reactions. In my opinion nothing else compares in getting her attracted to you right off the bat.

-Ray
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
Top