Alright guys,
I know this girl from my swing dancing class. So this FR+ for this girl kind of started about two weeks ago, in between the German classmate situation, but then I went out last night for this girl's birthday. Let's call her K.
I had gone round for a movie night and ended up kissing her but it didn't lead to anything and to be honest, I don't really know how attracted I am to this girl :/ If K was going to be an easy Lay I would have taken it but if it was going to require a shit ton of effort, especially as she was giving off a girlfriend-type vibe, I wasn't going to follow through.
So K spent last night celebrating her birthday with a pub crawl, something she's had planned for months and something I said I would go to. I know she's already quite keen as she's constantly messaging me.
So the pub crawl was good, but she ended up getting totally smashed. She did say half-way through that "Nothing implied, but you're more than welcome to sleep at mine tonight."
I read between the lines.
It wasn't long before she was all over me, but not in the way I would have liked. It seemed very intense. I was a little bit hesitant about showing public affection because her housemates and course mates were all there. Literally all her good friends and if I started getting too affectionate people start presuming we're together and I don't want a relationship right now. Hands all over my face and neck, grabbing my waist hard etc. I seemed hesitant as there were some other nice people there that I wanted to get to know and mingle with, but I felt that she was kind of holding me back. I thought about making some approaches in the club etc later on but this just wasn't possible.
Then as it went on she started getting more drunk. We then chilled in a bar before the club and we were a bit worried she was going to be too drunk to be allowed it. As we were sitting there she wanted to start kissing me. I started to feel bad that I wasn't showing as much affection and I didn't want to ruin her night and the vibe so we kissed a bit. She was quite drunk, but they weren't the sloppy kind of kisses, they were the no effort type. She really isn't that great haha
We then go into the club and by this time she is fucked. Like...royally.
She can barely stand straight and couldn't really walk. As she was trying to dance her hands were round my neck and just yanking me around, actually got quite annoying haha. She started bumping into people, almost knocking them over. After about half an hour in the club I decide that she is too drunk to stay and I tell her housemates I'm taking her home.
The walk home should have taken about 6-7 minutes, with her? 25 mins. She kept stopped, walking into the road, cried about 5 times and was telling me to go home one minute and then telling me to stay close the next. Was a fucking nightmare.
Halfway through she starts saying how I've been giving her mixed signals, I pass it off as drunk talk and avoid it. Eventually get her home. She wanted me to stay and the possibility of laying her had entered my mind, but she was just too drunk. I do re-approach the situation of the mixed signals about how I felt like she wanted a relationship and I can't do that right now. She said "We can make it work." Doubt it. I see her multiple times a week for dancing and as I'm not crazy about her.
We go up to her bed and lie there a sec. Her housemates then all come in. We go down and say hi and then say goodnight. We then get into bed together. I start to slowly escalate according to her breathing, but she was barely reacting, just too drunk. We then cuddle in bed for a bit and she says how she's so cold. After about half an hour I then go to the toilet and decide to head home.
On the way down from the toilet I knee her in the head hahaha she was sitting on the stairs in the pitch black for some strange reason. I then say I'm going home, grab my bits and head out. I bump into her friend from home outside who was meant to be sleeping on their living room floor. I explain how K is smashed and that I'm heading home (he may think I screwed her, not sure) and then wished him goodnight.
We had said a few days ago that whilst hungover from the pub crawl we would have film day today and she messaged me today asking if I'm coming over. To be honest I wasn't feeling it and will not pursue her so I flaked. I've asked if she remembers much from last night and she says that A LOT is missing. So I'm about to message her now to explain, politely, what happened, maybe giving her selective details.
I will be NEXTING this girl, whilst trying to maintain a friendly vibe in our dance classes, so I can pursue other routes.
Cheers
- JP
I know this girl from my swing dancing class. So this FR+ for this girl kind of started about two weeks ago, in between the German classmate situation, but then I went out last night for this girl's birthday. Let's call her K.
I had gone round for a movie night and ended up kissing her but it didn't lead to anything and to be honest, I don't really know how attracted I am to this girl :/ If K was going to be an easy Lay I would have taken it but if it was going to require a shit ton of effort, especially as she was giving off a girlfriend-type vibe, I wasn't going to follow through.
So K spent last night celebrating her birthday with a pub crawl, something she's had planned for months and something I said I would go to. I know she's already quite keen as she's constantly messaging me.
So the pub crawl was good, but she ended up getting totally smashed. She did say half-way through that "Nothing implied, but you're more than welcome to sleep at mine tonight."
I read between the lines.
It wasn't long before she was all over me, but not in the way I would have liked. It seemed very intense. I was a little bit hesitant about showing public affection because her housemates and course mates were all there. Literally all her good friends and if I started getting too affectionate people start presuming we're together and I don't want a relationship right now. Hands all over my face and neck, grabbing my waist hard etc. I seemed hesitant as there were some other nice people there that I wanted to get to know and mingle with, but I felt that she was kind of holding me back. I thought about making some approaches in the club etc later on but this just wasn't possible.
Then as it went on she started getting more drunk. We then chilled in a bar before the club and we were a bit worried she was going to be too drunk to be allowed it. As we were sitting there she wanted to start kissing me. I started to feel bad that I wasn't showing as much affection and I didn't want to ruin her night and the vibe so we kissed a bit. She was quite drunk, but they weren't the sloppy kind of kisses, they were the no effort type. She really isn't that great haha
We then go into the club and by this time she is fucked. Like...royally.
She can barely stand straight and couldn't really walk. As she was trying to dance her hands were round my neck and just yanking me around, actually got quite annoying haha. She started bumping into people, almost knocking them over. After about half an hour in the club I decide that she is too drunk to stay and I tell her housemates I'm taking her home.
The walk home should have taken about 6-7 minutes, with her? 25 mins. She kept stopped, walking into the road, cried about 5 times and was telling me to go home one minute and then telling me to stay close the next. Was a fucking nightmare.
Halfway through she starts saying how I've been giving her mixed signals, I pass it off as drunk talk and avoid it. Eventually get her home. She wanted me to stay and the possibility of laying her had entered my mind, but she was just too drunk. I do re-approach the situation of the mixed signals about how I felt like she wanted a relationship and I can't do that right now. She said "We can make it work." Doubt it. I see her multiple times a week for dancing and as I'm not crazy about her.
We go up to her bed and lie there a sec. Her housemates then all come in. We go down and say hi and then say goodnight. We then get into bed together. I start to slowly escalate according to her breathing, but she was barely reacting, just too drunk. We then cuddle in bed for a bit and she says how she's so cold. After about half an hour I then go to the toilet and decide to head home.
On the way down from the toilet I knee her in the head hahaha she was sitting on the stairs in the pitch black for some strange reason. I then say I'm going home, grab my bits and head out. I bump into her friend from home outside who was meant to be sleeping on their living room floor. I explain how K is smashed and that I'm heading home (he may think I screwed her, not sure) and then wished him goodnight.
We had said a few days ago that whilst hungover from the pub crawl we would have film day today and she messaged me today asking if I'm coming over. To be honest I wasn't feeling it and will not pursue her so I flaked. I've asked if she remembers much from last night and she says that A LOT is missing. So I'm about to message her now to explain, politely, what happened, maybe giving her selective details.
I will be NEXTING this girl, whilst trying to maintain a friendly vibe in our dance classes, so I can pursue other routes.
Cheers
- JP
