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Has someone told you taking your girl to a club/bar was a bad idea?
Maintaining the attraction for so long, 4 weeks plus. This is an example, it certainly was more investment. Out of a whim, because of an argument, she started because of her friend telling her "I didn't care about her" and her admitting to PSMing, her hormones are bad blah blah, etc she says "I don't care about her, how I'm seeing other girls", she doesn't know, we should be "friendly terms" and with my bad experiences going for too long as well, I decided to not go and visit her. During this argument, she started what got me repulsed was the "friendly terms" comment. Yeah sure,
"you could find another friend I'm not your friend"
These are pretty much my exact words. Oh yeah don't let the drama garbage stop here... FYI, SHE TEXTS EVERY DAY IF NOT EVERY 2 OTHER DAYS.
She later apologized after seeing that I was annoyed and she sensed I would end the relationship if she continued this garbage. I told her to come to see me during the week before I was supposed to visit her a week later, instead, I paid for a place to stay and stayed with each for 40 hours with maybe a couple breaks in between when I was out buying some things at the store.
MOOD DURING THE TEXT DRAMA
I was in the middle of a recovery period where I was just dumped by a girl, fwb/fuck buddy, who asked me to leave and shit... so I wasn't in the headspace of taking any more crap, a bit depressed. I told her, that since she started all that drama, I was not going to visit her next week. Which was a good thing I'm not going because it would have killed the relationship attraction, and as punishment for the drama. Can't reward bad behaviors like this one. Anyway, I told her if she wants to see she'll have to come I'll take care of the rest. I told her we would have our place, I'm not going to live with my friend, etc.
Days later, she gets here, I kiss her, and proceed to go to my place, she puts on her makeup oh la la, hahaha she looked pretty. I was excited to show her to my friend to make him seeth LMAO.
One thing I wouldn't recommend people doing what I did was taking her out to a bar/club, which I did LOL.... if you aren't good at night game don't do this.
Reason for me taking her out, I hesitated as well... she assumed that we were going to go out because she got dressed up. ALSO, I had a wing with me in this city, unfortunately, his night didn't go so well. I wanted to provide him with pre-selection by having my girl with me, but no way we would be able to manage because of how packed the venue was, a sea of people! I had to get the fuck out of there.
Night game can escalate the mating process, yes it's risky, where you get amogs coming in trying to chat up your girl, this place is a bit conservative and less aggressive than your typical western place, packed with people. Before you "American cowboys" start commenting about the danger of it, LOL, I'm well aware.
I saw the club/owner, I met him once during a down period, made the introduction with him, skipped the line, DHV'd, I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, and I got a lucky boost in attraction.
Sidenote:
(being possessive of your girl can be an attractive trait as long as it's not overbearing. I don't know who says "is needy blah blah, you need to be abundant".... Yeah sure be abundant give your girl to some thirsty dude...wtf. Red pill stupid logic garbage)
"I told my girl I won't be happy if you talked with other guys" seems like she took note of this and completely acknowledged it, as most of the guys in this country are like that too. Totally acceptable just don't be overbearing.
I don't like going to clubs, etc, generally but I'll take her for a bit... at first I assumed her brother was also coming but ended up not making it, my wing provided momentarily social proof, we split I went upstairs where we need to pay for entry.... after skipping the line, doesn't matter escalated point is fine....we are having fun.. we later stand somewhere, then bartender say something to my girl, " we can't stand there" i cut in immediately injected, i sized him up, which it's no problem... we walked over, find a pretty decent place to sit she standing and I'm sitting, locked in position. I saw a couple of girls slowly coming up, because of my pre-selection, more thirsty creepy dudes starts showing up trying to make eye contact with me or my girl, I ignore all of them, giving them a half-blink look like, fuck off... while my girl full attention was on me... she buys us 4 tequila shots I buy 2 gin n tonic, we drink, listen to music, we chat shit, then I get bored of the place then I go downstairs to find my friend. Talked to him for like 1 minute. I felt I could be isolated to physically escalate at the terrace. While I thought I could ramp up Kino. These 2 dumbfucks come up.
"YOOOOO HEY can I get a picture!!!" to me and then proceeded to ask my girl indirectly x2 (WTF!?) my girl just ignored him.
"you look like this (famous guy)!!!!!"
I mostly ignore them. Thanks for coming over to suck my dick and getting the frame taken from you like a fucking jackass, they looked like a bitch after I told them an annoyed and half-aggressive
"YO GIVE ME A SECOND! I'M TALKING!"
While gesturing to them. Right after, my girl started picking arguments with me
Girl: "I hate you, blah blah blah"
LOL Trying to get attention and test my frame.
"oh yeah, did I say I hate clubs?"
As you know after I bitched down his mood I went up to see if he still want a picture took a picture, my girl takes it and we leave. What a fucking retard, come interrupting my set that's locked in with the girl I bring. Oh yeah, by the way, do you really think he wanted to take a picture with me?!?! Or is it because I have one of the hottest girls in the venue wanting to come encroach on my hoe?
NEVER TRUST ANYONE INFIELD TRYING TO BE FRIENDLY AND SHIT, I noticed over time some wings could even be secretly envious of you.
After I half ignored my girl for her attitude, she's tipsy, we started leaving the club at the door... I said goodbye to the owner, he held my girl's hand for half a second too long, fucker. As we are walking back she was tipsy, wasn't walking straight, started saying random crap to each other. After we got back into the pad, undressed she went to take a shower, she: "shower together?" together? She said "yes". I take off my pants with half erection, and both of us are naked I start rubbing my cock in front of her pussy, slowly moving into her, fucked her a couple of strokes, standing then doggy style. all of a sudden started crying, how she hadn't had sex in 1 year. how she didn't know me that well. blah blah blah.... afterward she tells me to fuck with only a condom but I used the condom in the shower washing off all the lube, which didn't end up working of course, then we finally go to the bed, and start having sex for real.....
The social frame I got, the approval of the brother, huge, talking about me in a good way. She showed me to her friends, and most of them seemed to approve and some taxi driver called me "beautiful" so yeah I guess I have her locked in for a while. More adventure awaits, hope to see her soon.
Don't bring your girl to Club 101, if you are a noob. I didn't want to either. After all those times being in the club gaming I understand how it works I can do it, but I certainly don't like to. I've heard stories where a random dude came over talking to their girls and the guy punched the random in the face and a random dude suing for 50k... total garbage.
Maintaining the attraction for so long, 4 weeks plus. This is an example, it certainly was more investment. Out of a whim, because of an argument, she started because of her friend telling her "I didn't care about her" and her admitting to PSMing, her hormones are bad blah blah, etc she says "I don't care about her, how I'm seeing other girls", she doesn't know, we should be "friendly terms" and with my bad experiences going for too long as well, I decided to not go and visit her. During this argument, she started what got me repulsed was the "friendly terms" comment. Yeah sure,
"you could find another friend I'm not your friend"
These are pretty much my exact words. Oh yeah don't let the drama garbage stop here... FYI, SHE TEXTS EVERY DAY IF NOT EVERY 2 OTHER DAYS.
She later apologized after seeing that I was annoyed and she sensed I would end the relationship if she continued this garbage. I told her to come to see me during the week before I was supposed to visit her a week later, instead, I paid for a place to stay and stayed with each for 40 hours with maybe a couple breaks in between when I was out buying some things at the store.
MOOD DURING THE TEXT DRAMA
I was in the middle of a recovery period where I was just dumped by a girl, fwb/fuck buddy, who asked me to leave and shit... so I wasn't in the headspace of taking any more crap, a bit depressed. I told her, that since she started all that drama, I was not going to visit her next week. Which was a good thing I'm not going because it would have killed the relationship attraction, and as punishment for the drama. Can't reward bad behaviors like this one. Anyway, I told her if she wants to see she'll have to come I'll take care of the rest. I told her we would have our place, I'm not going to live with my friend, etc.
Days later, she gets here, I kiss her, and proceed to go to my place, she puts on her makeup oh la la, hahaha she looked pretty. I was excited to show her to my friend to make him seeth LMAO.
One thing I wouldn't recommend people doing what I did was taking her out to a bar/club, which I did LOL.... if you aren't good at night game don't do this.
Reason for me taking her out, I hesitated as well... she assumed that we were going to go out because she got dressed up. ALSO, I had a wing with me in this city, unfortunately, his night didn't go so well. I wanted to provide him with pre-selection by having my girl with me, but no way we would be able to manage because of how packed the venue was, a sea of people! I had to get the fuck out of there.
Night game can escalate the mating process, yes it's risky, where you get amogs coming in trying to chat up your girl, this place is a bit conservative and less aggressive than your typical western place, packed with people. Before you "American cowboys" start commenting about the danger of it, LOL, I'm well aware.
I saw the club/owner, I met him once during a down period, made the introduction with him, skipped the line, DHV'd, I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, and I got a lucky boost in attraction.
Sidenote:
(being possessive of your girl can be an attractive trait as long as it's not overbearing. I don't know who says "is needy blah blah, you need to be abundant".... Yeah sure be abundant give your girl to some thirsty dude...wtf. Red pill stupid logic garbage)
"I told my girl I won't be happy if you talked with other guys" seems like she took note of this and completely acknowledged it, as most of the guys in this country are like that too. Totally acceptable just don't be overbearing.
I don't like going to clubs, etc, generally but I'll take her for a bit... at first I assumed her brother was also coming but ended up not making it, my wing provided momentarily social proof, we split I went upstairs where we need to pay for entry.... after skipping the line, doesn't matter escalated point is fine....we are having fun.. we later stand somewhere, then bartender say something to my girl, " we can't stand there" i cut in immediately injected, i sized him up, which it's no problem... we walked over, find a pretty decent place to sit she standing and I'm sitting, locked in position. I saw a couple of girls slowly coming up, because of my pre-selection, more thirsty creepy dudes starts showing up trying to make eye contact with me or my girl, I ignore all of them, giving them a half-blink look like, fuck off... while my girl full attention was on me... she buys us 4 tequila shots I buy 2 gin n tonic, we drink, listen to music, we chat shit, then I get bored of the place then I go downstairs to find my friend. Talked to him for like 1 minute. I felt I could be isolated to physically escalate at the terrace. While I thought I could ramp up Kino. These 2 dumbfucks come up.
"YOOOOO HEY can I get a picture!!!" to me and then proceeded to ask my girl indirectly x2 (WTF!?) my girl just ignored him.
"you look like this (famous guy)!!!!!"
I mostly ignore them. Thanks for coming over to suck my dick and getting the frame taken from you like a fucking jackass, they looked like a bitch after I told them an annoyed and half-aggressive
"YO GIVE ME A SECOND! I'M TALKING!"
While gesturing to them. Right after, my girl started picking arguments with me
Girl: "I hate you, blah blah blah"
LOL Trying to get attention and test my frame.
"oh yeah, did I say I hate clubs?"
As you know after I bitched down his mood I went up to see if he still want a picture took a picture, my girl takes it and we leave. What a fucking retard, come interrupting my set that's locked in with the girl I bring. Oh yeah, by the way, do you really think he wanted to take a picture with me?!?! Or is it because I have one of the hottest girls in the venue wanting to come encroach on my hoe?
NEVER TRUST ANYONE INFIELD TRYING TO BE FRIENDLY AND SHIT, I noticed over time some wings could even be secretly envious of you.
After I half ignored my girl for her attitude, she's tipsy, we started leaving the club at the door... I said goodbye to the owner, he held my girl's hand for half a second too long, fucker. As we are walking back she was tipsy, wasn't walking straight, started saying random crap to each other. After we got back into the pad, undressed she went to take a shower, she: "shower together?" together? She said "yes". I take off my pants with half erection, and both of us are naked I start rubbing my cock in front of her pussy, slowly moving into her, fucked her a couple of strokes, standing then doggy style. all of a sudden started crying, how she hadn't had sex in 1 year. how she didn't know me that well. blah blah blah.... afterward she tells me to fuck with only a condom but I used the condom in the shower washing off all the lube, which didn't end up working of course, then we finally go to the bed, and start having sex for real.....
The social frame I got, the approval of the brother, huge, talking about me in a good way. She showed me to her friends, and most of them seemed to approve and some taxi driver called me "beautiful" so yeah I guess I have her locked in for a while. More adventure awaits, hope to see her soon.
Don't bring your girl to Club 101, if you are a noob. I didn't want to either. After all those times being in the club gaming I understand how it works I can do it, but I certainly don't like to. I've heard stories where a random dude came over talking to their girls and the guy punched the random in the face and a random dude suing for 50k... total garbage.
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