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Been carrying on my trend of no online and focusing on mostly day game with social circle and night game sprinkled in.
Approach
So whilst walking to the gym on a dark and rainy night I spotted a girl in front of me with a cute henna style pattern on her left ankle where her jeans was rolled up.
As I walked up next to her I looked over and said I like your henna pattern is it actual henna? She then responded with it being a tattoo and we had a back & forth about where she's from. Turns out she's 3/4 Sudanese and 1/4 belgian but looks kinda Indian aha.
As we crossed the road I noticed she paused slightly almost giving a subconscious... "alright mate.. What you going to do here?". When girls aren't interested you usually get a quick smile then walk off or slightly freaked out look if you come on too strong.
She then starts teasing me that my tracksuit looks like tights to which I say "leave the hostile energy out of this please" with a calm mischievous grin. when the sassiness continues I just say look "I noticed your huge forehead & didn't call you out on it... Play nice" again all in a playful fun way. There's a gasp in her reaction but I can tell she's feeling it. Up to that point she probably thought I was just a boring nice guy and I give her enough to show it's not the case.
I'm not taking this girl seriously and kind of liking her attitude. The chemistry is lowkey on. I just wasn't sure if it was more friendly rather then sexual but I'm enjoying it.
I go for her number and she says sure but we'll hang out as friends right? I laughed and said no I don't need any more friends.
She calls me rude and I shrug and say I'd rather be honest with my intentions, it would be more weird if I wasn't.
"Okay we start as friends then let it progress" I just roll my eyes and try and seed a day for the date when she's free. I get told to just text her as it's still raining and she has to go to the shop - so I leave her to it and go to the gym.
Follow Up
I follow up with my usual voice note on the lines of nice meeting you even if you were rude, when works for drinks?
Straight to the point - if a girl's not feeling you at this point you either get A) Ignored B) Conversation making that doesn't address the question C) An excuse she's busy
She gives me a day and I say great see you at X station at this time.
Dates
To summarise it took me 3 dates to sleep with her.
Date 1: Went to a cocktail bar 5 minutes from my house. Lots of deep diving at one point she said I feel like I am at an interview and I just shrug and say "you're".
We connect to unique things about our upbringing. Both ethnic minorities who grew up in very white middle class neighborhoods and had to balance this out with strict African households. She really opens up and seems to be surprised with how much she's sharing.
I owe this a lot to the following articles
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-art-deep-dive
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-how-be-warm-person
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Another point worth mentioning is that I'm a major regular at this cocktail bar and have really good rapport with one of the waiters. He came up gave me a big grin and laugh (another date lol) and he introduced himself to the girl and just had a good vibe. She picked up on it after and was like do you just want me to leave? I was like yeah he's a lot cooler than you aha.
She comes back to mine but I can tell she gets super uncomfortable in my room so I don't push it. Towards the end of the date she says I can kiss her if I tell her my political standings and if they're good. (What bullshit lol).
I just tell her where I stand and why. She's like cool you can kiss me. I say nahh I'd rather let the tension wait. We talk for a bit more then I see her out.
Can't be bending to such silly frames ahhaha.
Date 2 she came straight to mine for cocktails. We kiss on my bed and things get heated but nothing happens because she's on her period.
Third dateeeeeee I go to hers have drinks and it happens. No LMR whatsoever.
What's interesting about this girl is that we have cool open conversation where I shared I've been blind folded and I like it. Then the 4th time I ever see her she blind folds me and gives me head for like 10 minutes and swallows everything.
Literally taken me 5 months to get to that kind of stage with a girl before.
Game and girls are wonderful or more accurately girls are just silly and cute. I wouldn't have them any other way.
-DWW
Approach
So whilst walking to the gym on a dark and rainy night I spotted a girl in front of me with a cute henna style pattern on her left ankle where her jeans was rolled up.
As I walked up next to her I looked over and said I like your henna pattern is it actual henna? She then responded with it being a tattoo and we had a back & forth about where she's from. Turns out she's 3/4 Sudanese and 1/4 belgian but looks kinda Indian aha.
As we crossed the road I noticed she paused slightly almost giving a subconscious... "alright mate.. What you going to do here?". When girls aren't interested you usually get a quick smile then walk off or slightly freaked out look if you come on too strong.
She then starts teasing me that my tracksuit looks like tights to which I say "leave the hostile energy out of this please" with a calm mischievous grin. when the sassiness continues I just say look "I noticed your huge forehead & didn't call you out on it... Play nice" again all in a playful fun way. There's a gasp in her reaction but I can tell she's feeling it. Up to that point she probably thought I was just a boring nice guy and I give her enough to show it's not the case.
I'm not taking this girl seriously and kind of liking her attitude. The chemistry is lowkey on. I just wasn't sure if it was more friendly rather then sexual but I'm enjoying it.
I go for her number and she says sure but we'll hang out as friends right? I laughed and said no I don't need any more friends.
She calls me rude and I shrug and say I'd rather be honest with my intentions, it would be more weird if I wasn't.
"Okay we start as friends then let it progress" I just roll my eyes and try and seed a day for the date when she's free. I get told to just text her as it's still raining and she has to go to the shop - so I leave her to it and go to the gym.
Follow Up
I follow up with my usual voice note on the lines of nice meeting you even if you were rude, when works for drinks?
Straight to the point - if a girl's not feeling you at this point you either get A) Ignored B) Conversation making that doesn't address the question C) An excuse she's busy
She gives me a day and I say great see you at X station at this time.
Dates
To summarise it took me 3 dates to sleep with her.
Date 1: Went to a cocktail bar 5 minutes from my house. Lots of deep diving at one point she said I feel like I am at an interview and I just shrug and say "you're".
We connect to unique things about our upbringing. Both ethnic minorities who grew up in very white middle class neighborhoods and had to balance this out with strict African households. She really opens up and seems to be surprised with how much she's sharing.
I owe this a lot to the following articles
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-art-deep-dive
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-how-be-warm-person
The Genuine Man, Part 6: A Lover Of Women
Welcome back to the path, folks. We’re making good progress. So far in this series we’ve covered: How to become arrogant and eradicate fear The myth of the “heartless player” and the risks of arrogance How to cultivate humility, sheathe your arrogance, and develop true power How to love people...
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Another point worth mentioning is that I'm a major regular at this cocktail bar and have really good rapport with one of the waiters. He came up gave me a big grin and laugh (another date lol) and he introduced himself to the girl and just had a good vibe. She picked up on it after and was like do you just want me to leave? I was like yeah he's a lot cooler than you aha.
She comes back to mine but I can tell she gets super uncomfortable in my room so I don't push it. Towards the end of the date she says I can kiss her if I tell her my political standings and if they're good. (What bullshit lol).
I just tell her where I stand and why. She's like cool you can kiss me. I say nahh I'd rather let the tension wait. We talk for a bit more then I see her out.
Can't be bending to such silly frames ahhaha.
Date 2 she came straight to mine for cocktails. We kiss on my bed and things get heated but nothing happens because she's on her period.
Third dateeeeeee I go to hers have drinks and it happens. No LMR whatsoever.
What's interesting about this girl is that we have cool open conversation where I shared I've been blind folded and I like it. Then the 4th time I ever see her she blind folds me and gives me head for like 10 minutes and swallows everything.
Literally taken me 5 months to get to that kind of stage with a girl before.
Game and girls are wonderful or more accurately girls are just silly and cute. I wouldn't have them any other way.
-DWW
