Elliot Rodger Killing 6 People - that would've been me if not for GC

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I just started reading the latest article about Elliot Rodger and watched the video(still haven't read the article, I wanted to write this first). Everything he said is exactly how I used to feel before I found GC.

I felt the exact same way and had the same plan - kill lots of people to have justice. The only difference is that my plan included no evidence, picking completely random strangers (probably in a different city), so I would not get caught and wouldn't have stopped at 6 people. I usually think at a grand scale sooo..


The reason was that I thought and believed that the world was not fair. That those other guys, girls slept with were less than me and less attractive than me. I didn't think that those guys have better fundamentals, or better body language, or ad spend years around girls, or anything that would help them get laid.

I just thought that I was a good person and they were not, but the world was cruel and everybody purposely decided to screw with me. I thought that girls rejected me because they wanted to screw with me.




It wasn't until I found GC and read the articles on victim mentality - that I started to realize that no one actually owes me anything. No one had to like me, to talk to me, to help me, to invest in my business, to be my friend, to go out with me, to have sex with me.
They must want to do it.

And I realized that girls went out with those other guys and slept with them because they liked them more than me and wanted to sleep with them. So it became clear that it was me who was wrong and had to change, not the world.

Yeah it is really hard changing the way I look, my voice, bodylanguage, talking less, my character. It's hard approaching and getting rejected(P.S. to all new guys - you'll get way more rejections than you think) but it's not other peoples fault.

Girls are not obligated to sleep with me if they don't want to, the same way I'm not obligated to fuck a girls I don't find attractive.

it may be the hardest thing in my life but I don't have a choice if I want results.



So to all you future Elliots out there, no one owes you anything and you might have to change every single thing about yourself you if you want girls you have no other choice but to stop bitching and get to work.




And btw, Thanks Chase for kinda saving my life and those of others.

 

[Whizzy]

Glad to hear it my man

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Dude, it's great to hear that you're making progress and you managed to pull yourself off the edge! I was never homicidal or otherwise planning to harm anyone, but I too had a serious victim mentality thing going on. This site really helped me break out of it, with the last little push coming from reading Victor Pride and Danger & Play. Ironically, while my reason for getting it together was to become better with girls, it ended up helping me way more with business and life in general than it ever did with picking up girls.

Bottom line, I also want to extend a thank you to Chase!

 

[Smith]

Me too man =) Thanks to Chase and people on this board. I was kinda skeptical about pickup until I came across Chase's article on how to stop thinking about her and victim mentality, and the articles resonated with me so much that I knew this guy actually knows what he's talking about. And he's teaching skills that useful in other areas in life as well.

 

[Franco]

Ico,

It's good to hear that you've come to this realization. =)

I've had many friends ask me for advice on women, and when I tell them it's going to be a long journey, I also explain to them that things will change in this order:

• First, you must change everything you think you know and understand about women and the world we coincide with them in
• Second, we will change your fundamentals and the way you look
• Third, I will give you the tactics and techniques you will need to see success

As you probably noticed, before you can even BEGIN to have success with women, you need to understand how the world works first rather than seeing it through a dark, foggy tunnel. It's important to have the understanding because, once you have the understanding, achieving your goals becomes clear.

Keep up the hard work!

- Franco