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Emotional Quicksand. When she doesn't text back.

IrishConrad

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Gentleman,

I'm trying to find a quote about the effect of trying to salvage, save, and chase when things are not going well. It ties so well into not chasing, having your emotions in check, and being a strong man.

The premise of the quote is to step back...the more you fidget, squirm, and chase her the deeper you go. Take a step back...take a deep breath. Make your decisions from a place of connection with best version of yourself....not the guy that is struggling with abundance mentality.

I've noticed that to keep abundance mentality early on...one you achieve it you have to keep working, getting rejected, getting tested, to maintain that frame.

Only until I have lived in that frame long enough, do I feel confident I will be able to hold that frame regardless of my actual abundance.

If someone can remember that quicksand analogy or at least put it a little more eloquently I would greatly appreciate it!
 
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