LR Empty jazz club with art student from tinder

[Dario]

Whatsup fellas. I'll keep this one brief. My two new lays this month both came from tinder so far. This girl is black arts and design student staying in my city (New Orleans) for an arts residency. Cute with braids and a nice body. C cups and naturally trim with a nice ass. Pretty eyes but she wore some hideous glasses. She looked allot better naked with no glasses (obviously) I went for the date before I even asked for her number. She'll be referred to as S

D: Finally someone with a unique name

S: Haha but i bet everyone calls you x

D: Also Master P and Blue Agave Daddy. What should I call you?

S: Blue Agave daddy I l love it. I'm just S sometimes people call me S--y

D: I'll alternate between the two. How long are you in New Oreans?

S: Until Friday, unfortunately, I'm finishing up an arts residency.

D: Thats okay. That just means we have to meet before then so you can tell me about it

S: Yeah that would be nice wan to meet up for drinks or something Wednesday? Or if you wanna pop by my open studio tomorrow.

D: Open studio then drinks after. Shoot me a text.

So we meet up at about 10:30 at this Jazz Club/ Martini Bar that I like. There were maybe 5 patrons and a man playing piano and singing the blues in the corner. For an hour it's just basic conversation. Talking about NY and our music and movie tastes. We both have broad tastes so there was allot to talk about. All surface level stuff. So its maybe 11:30 or so and I ask her if she would mind stepping outside with me while I smoke a cigarette. She says yes.

e previous lay report for more reference. She's sitting across from me so i put my hand on the table. I give her a deep eye contact and a smoldering look. She takes my hand and starts rubbing it with her thumb.

D: Cute or sexy?

She starts laughing and saying how cute is good because its softer but sexy is also good because.... sex. I agree with her and repeat myself.

Cute or sexy?

She asks if mean her or me. I let her decide. She says I'm definitely no
We're outside and the conversation starts to get a bit political. Gentrification etc. I realize quickly that this isn't something we should be talking about because my views are much different than hers. So I decided to try the same move that I pulled on my previous tinder date. Said "cute" I laugh and thank her. She follows that by saying that I'm definitely sexy. Naturally, she asks me to judge her. I take a moment and act like I'm thinking.

D: Well you are cute. You have a bit of purity about you. But that's just a small part of you. You've got very sly almond eyes that make you quite sexy.

She laughs and said her teacher said she had a mischievous look in her eyes. I ignore her and go across the table and kiss her. She immediately gets her tongue involved. I tell her I'm paying for the bill and that she should come with me to judge some wine that I have. She agrees.


We go back to my place. I engage her in conversation but don't make any more physical advance. We're talking and drinking wine and listening to music. We're talking about it being hot and muggy out and she mentions how she doesn't like country. I take my shirt off and put on a cowboy hat. I start playing country and drinking wine in my chair. She's sitting on the bed a few inches from me. I wasn't even facing her and she just attacked me from the bed. So got on top and the rest, as they say, is history. We had sex for about 30 to 40 minutes. Talked for a while and then have sex for the second time.



As always. Feedback, questions, and comments welcome.

 

[Hue]

"Finally someone with a unique name"

Good opener! Shows interest beyond her physicality & is pretty conducive for a response.

Also Master P and Blue Agave Daddy. What should I call you?

And then you immediately throw some sexual humor with the use of "daddy" (unless there's some reference I'm missing - shout out to Master P).

Open studio then drinks after. Shoot me a text.

A bit unlike the girl to propose the date, but nice text. This is a text that leads.

Cute or sexy?

Fun, sexual, and tension building. Also neither option is necessarily negative.
I'm gonna steal this (; thanks bud.

Well you are cute. You have a bit of purity about you. But that's just a small part of you. You've got very sly almond eyes that make you quite sexy.

Then you use your own tactic very well by giving her a specific, double compliment. AND a double compliment that ends in her being sexy. This is important because the last part of the sentence is what is most remembered / directs your next interaction(s).

We're outside and the conversation starts to get a bit political. Gentrification etc. I realize quickly that this isn't something we should be talking about because my views are much different than hers.

Disagreeing on views can be done in a way that ends with the girl being hotter for you. However the girl, in my experience, needs to have an open enough mind to actually here what you have to say. If she does, then it sets you a position to at least show frame control from your nonverbals / security in the disagreement and at most become the dominant one by winning the argument. To do this you need to not care if she gets a little upset at you for a bit though (;

Judging by the vibe your writing gives me I would say you made the right move here to be congruent with your style of game. Good job at sensing a red flag / a rabbit hole and deviating course a bit

We're talking and drinking wine and listening to music. We're talking about it being hot and muggy out and she mentions how she doesn't like country. I take my shirt off and put on a cowboy hat. I start playing country and drinking wine in my chair.

Love it. You not only hold frame by amplifying the country element, you make it almost impossible for her to not to eat her words. I see your gesture as a "oh, you say you don't like country?"

I wasn't even facing her and she just attacked me from the bed. So got on top and the rest, as they say, is history. We had sex for about 30 to 40 minutes. Talked for a while and then have sex for the second time.

Looks like she does.



Solid shit bro. Mainly I give compliments to your ability to display solid frame & seemingly casual vibe when it comes to sexualizing things. It definitely didn't hurt that she was only in town temporarily. This is the best time for ONS's - there's no strings attached, and both parties have to get it while it's hot.

Keep it up!

Hue