Hey guys,
I just need some advice on the best way to go about this situation.
So on the 2nd day of class, this girl follows me to my seat, sits next to me and initiates conversation shortly after. I hadn't noticed her before in class.
We had about 5 minutes of conversation before the class began, and I did a little deep diving. During class, she also initiated small talk here and there.
After class ended, I was catching up on some notes and I could tell she was purposely hanging around to talk to me. So, we have more conversation after that
and a little more deep diving. The way she was acting she seemed very interested. She told me that she was planning on dropping the class we were in for
another because of the instructor. We walked out of the class together and just in case i didn't see her again, I ask for her contact and she takes my number and told me she'll text me which she did.
By text I ask her if she was able to crash onto the other course, and she told me she'll still have to show up for both classes next week and see. Not wanting to
have a text conversation with her for too long, I said that we should get together sometime for coffee and ask for her schedule during the weekend.
She told me she was busy with stuff this weekend but she was free on Monday and definitely later on next week.
I said later on next week sounds great. She said she'll definitely let me know and said we'll see each other in class next week anyway
.
I said for sure and told her to have a good weekend.
Now I usually prefer cold approach around campus/street etc. and don't prefer to get involved with girls in class because of the fact that it might result in awkwardness during class if something goes wrong. However, she's gorgeous and I would definitely like to pursue this chance.
My question is was is too fast to ask her out in a social context like the classroom? I asked her to see each other on the weekend even though we were going to see each other in class next week anyway. Also, how should I proceed when I see her next in class? I read that in social circle situation like this, I should do a lot less deep diving and take it chill. Also, if she ends up staying in my class, should I still move fast with her if we end up on a date? like invite her home on the first date etc, like I usually do? How do I escalate with her? I feel like if something goes wrong, its going to result in awkwardness during class which I would like to avoid, especially since I'm currently in the process of recovering from porn-induced ED, so I really don't know how it's going to go.
If anyone has any insight on this situation or experiences like this please let me know thanks!
I just need some advice on the best way to go about this situation.
So on the 2nd day of class, this girl follows me to my seat, sits next to me and initiates conversation shortly after. I hadn't noticed her before in class.
We had about 5 minutes of conversation before the class began, and I did a little deep diving. During class, she also initiated small talk here and there.
After class ended, I was catching up on some notes and I could tell she was purposely hanging around to talk to me. So, we have more conversation after that
and a little more deep diving. The way she was acting she seemed very interested. She told me that she was planning on dropping the class we were in for
another because of the instructor. We walked out of the class together and just in case i didn't see her again, I ask for her contact and she takes my number and told me she'll text me which she did.
By text I ask her if she was able to crash onto the other course, and she told me she'll still have to show up for both classes next week and see. Not wanting to
have a text conversation with her for too long, I said that we should get together sometime for coffee and ask for her schedule during the weekend.
She told me she was busy with stuff this weekend but she was free on Monday and definitely later on next week.
I said later on next week sounds great. She said she'll definitely let me know and said we'll see each other in class next week anyway
.I said for sure and told her to have a good weekend.
Now I usually prefer cold approach around campus/street etc. and don't prefer to get involved with girls in class because of the fact that it might result in awkwardness during class if something goes wrong. However, she's gorgeous and I would definitely like to pursue this chance.
My question is was is too fast to ask her out in a social context like the classroom? I asked her to see each other on the weekend even though we were going to see each other in class next week anyway. Also, how should I proceed when I see her next in class? I read that in social circle situation like this, I should do a lot less deep diving and take it chill. Also, if she ends up staying in my class, should I still move fast with her if we end up on a date? like invite her home on the first date etc, like I usually do? How do I escalate with her? I feel like if something goes wrong, its going to result in awkwardness during class which I would like to avoid, especially since I'm currently in the process of recovering from porn-induced ED, so I really don't know how it's going to go.
If anyone has any insight on this situation or experiences like this please let me know thanks!
