So I'm kicking myself right now. Went on a great date last night. Bad logistics got in the way however (this will be resolved soon) The girl however was giving seriously mixed signals as to whether she wanted quick intimacy or me as a boyfriend. She was touching me, hands on my arm, wrapping hands around mine, legs touching -- all of the above. However, she was also talking to me as a boyfriend candidate. Future plans, etc.
So at one point I thought I have to go for the pull. I pushed to go to her place (it was closer). A little resistance but I persisted through it but we stopped at "let me think on it" -- the BF candidate stuff was messing with my head otherwise I would have just pushed through that.
We continued the date, went to another location, she mentioned she wanted to see me again, was having a great time all of the above.
She's heading out of town for a week, will be back Tuesday. I called her just to chat, left a voicemail tonight and haven't heard back. whatever.
I've obviously made a few mistakes, I own that, so I'm going to leave her be for a while and call her around when she gets back, no BS just "I want us to get together and meet up." I'm expecting some resistance. Any helpful advice on what to be prepared for from her in terms of resistance. I've accepted the possibility she will she she isn't interested and that fine.
Merely asking that in the result that she plays a little game or puts up resistance what to prepare for so we can go out again.
So at one point I thought I have to go for the pull. I pushed to go to her place (it was closer). A little resistance but I persisted through it but we stopped at "let me think on it" -- the BF candidate stuff was messing with my head otherwise I would have just pushed through that.
We continued the date, went to another location, she mentioned she wanted to see me again, was having a great time all of the above.
She's heading out of town for a week, will be back Tuesday. I called her just to chat, left a voicemail tonight and haven't heard back. whatever.
I've obviously made a few mistakes, I own that, so I'm going to leave her be for a while and call her around when she gets back, no BS just "I want us to get together and meet up." I'm expecting some resistance. Any helpful advice on what to be prepared for from her in terms of resistance. I've accepted the possibility she will she she isn't interested and that fine.
Merely asking that in the result that she plays a little game or puts up resistance what to prepare for so we can go out again.
