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Just Dave here,
An interesting theme has come up time to time in Chase's blog post lately about hierarchies, and the overall goal is to avoid it. People always want to label or classify you in some kind of way. You get stuck and trapped and began feeling a different person. People in hierarchies feel as though they have the right to tell you who you are. That's stupid, you have to control your own life and destiny by:
1. Knowing what you want out of life
----Have goals and make ways of obtaining them.
----Learn and research things you want, I wanted to get better with women so I implemented what was on the blog and practiced day and night.
----Find mentors and build a team around yourself
2. Not being afraid of failure
----Don't make excuses, be driven and learn from each and every situation
----Own the mistake and move on and don't let it eat you up inside
----Learn from each and every opportunity
3. Think outside the box
----Become an innovator, build on other people's ideas but give credit where credit is do
----Some of the best ideas come from people who were slightly crazy
----Be a leader
The problem with hierarchies is they only matter to people who are in them. People get frustrated when they can't climb any higher than their status, and they become bitter and stuck. They want it to be a "us vs. them" mentality. I don't even know who "them" is, people are people. You can't control people and there's no reason for them to control you. You'll be way happier if you let that go over your head by:
1. Not making a big deal over it
----Your life was fine before without it and you don't need it now.
----Don't let people or an organization define you
2. Not forcing a fit
----Opportunity cost, is this going to impact my chances at getting girls and my other hobbies.
----Somethings just aren't meant for everything
3. Or by bringing people down
----Be secure in who you are, women find confidence very sexy and appealing. People respect the leader who makes them feel loved and understood
----Don't try and tool people, you come off looking like an asshole.
----Don't fight over things that don't matter! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Agree to disagree.
Answer:
Treat everyone like they're on your level! Don't show favoritism, people catch unto this very quick. People and adjust quickly help people out when you can, don't write people off. You don't want things to come back and haunt you. Decide for yourself who you really are, and live your life the way that you want it. I encourage people to put their all and everything that they do, the more you put in the more you get out. Don't try and label people yourself, instead let them tell you what they are. Every person is different and we all have very different ideas and opinions.
Take care,
Just Dave
An interesting theme has come up time to time in Chase's blog post lately about hierarchies, and the overall goal is to avoid it. People always want to label or classify you in some kind of way. You get stuck and trapped and began feeling a different person. People in hierarchies feel as though they have the right to tell you who you are. That's stupid, you have to control your own life and destiny by:
1. Knowing what you want out of life
----Have goals and make ways of obtaining them.
----Learn and research things you want, I wanted to get better with women so I implemented what was on the blog and practiced day and night.
----Find mentors and build a team around yourself
2. Not being afraid of failure
----Don't make excuses, be driven and learn from each and every situation
----Own the mistake and move on and don't let it eat you up inside
----Learn from each and every opportunity
3. Think outside the box
----Become an innovator, build on other people's ideas but give credit where credit is do
----Some of the best ideas come from people who were slightly crazy
----Be a leader
The problem with hierarchies is they only matter to people who are in them. People get frustrated when they can't climb any higher than their status, and they become bitter and stuck. They want it to be a "us vs. them" mentality. I don't even know who "them" is, people are people. You can't control people and there's no reason for them to control you. You'll be way happier if you let that go over your head by:
1. Not making a big deal over it
----Your life was fine before without it and you don't need it now.
----Don't let people or an organization define you
2. Not forcing a fit
----Opportunity cost, is this going to impact my chances at getting girls and my other hobbies.
----Somethings just aren't meant for everything
3. Or by bringing people down
----Be secure in who you are, women find confidence very sexy and appealing. People respect the leader who makes them feel loved and understood
----Don't try and tool people, you come off looking like an asshole.
----Don't fight over things that don't matter! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Agree to disagree.
Answer:
Treat everyone like they're on your level! Don't show favoritism, people catch unto this very quick. People and adjust quickly help people out when you can, don't write people off. You don't want things to come back and haunt you. Decide for yourself who you really are, and live your life the way that you want it. I encourage people to put their all and everything that they do, the more you put in the more you get out. Don't try and label people yourself, instead let them tell you what they are. Every person is different and we all have very different ideas and opinions.
Take care,
Just Dave
