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The Friendly Local Dude
I’m travelling now – I’m in a US town famous for its live music. Arrived at a hostel and went out right away. Hit up one place, it was pretty tame. Ventured into another joint, good live music, positive atmosphere. There weren’t too many ladies and everyone was basically listening to the music, so I decided to just hang back, enjoy myself and the scene. I was sitting on a stool with my back to the bar.
At a certain point a pretty touchy-feely couple came up and ordered drinks. They were right near me and blocking my view a bit, but I didn’t pay them any attention. I always get a feeling that it is improper to eye couples down, even though it is so intriguing to observe their facial expressions, etc.
Well, at a certain point the guy asked me where I was from. We got a convo going and when the girl went away, he told me that she’s an extremely annoying Tinder date and he’s trying to get rid of her. Haha.
We got to talking and he turned out to be a pretty cool cat, quite smart, worldly. He was on the fence about whether he wanted to ditch her or not, but finally pulled the trigger. He asked me if I wanted to join him in another bar he knew that’s geared more towards locals.
The Bar
I happily agreed. We took a cab there. I decided to just get a beer so that I would fit in and wouldn’t have to explain that I don’t drink. I was drinking it real slow. My buddy introduced me to some folks at the bar, many of them professional musicians. Everyone was friendly and it was generally a pleasant atmosphere. I was starting to feel a bit like a pussy because I wasn’t approaching, but this was the type of environment where shotgun approaching was a bit too much, as the bar was small.
I spotted this tall girl in a sexy dress. I saw her later talking to a bleach bombshell type and told my buddy that we’ll go talk to them. He followed my lead. I went in with a compliment opener and the girls were curious in talking to us. When the tall girl, who I will call Jess, asked how we know each other, my new friend immediately fired back with:
That got them intrigued. To myself, I was thinking, “yep, this is exactly the type of guy it would be fun to hang out and meet girls with”. He kept up the intrigue by accusing Jess, who was the leader, of racism. I was standing to the left of Jess, the blonde was across from me, and my friend was to the left. I could see the blonde girl getting bored – the convo turned a bit intellectual and was out of her league. I was thinking that she was really sexy and that I should somehow try to get with her, but we had already established the dynamic with Jess and I was next to her, so I stayed there.
We actually hadn’t introduced ourselves directly, and neither did I ask for her name, which lent the whole conversation an air of intrigue. I know what Chase writes about just getting the introduction over with to become more familiar with the person, but I think in certain situations it’s interesting to experiment with not know the name of the girl who you’re building a connection with. It creates an air of intrigue, I suppose.
The blonde bowed out a few minutes in, and my buddy then ejected, too. I continued the teasing and being mysterious with Jess, and it was working. Some of her other friends came around, and it turned out that she was their boss. She had an air of relaxed authority and IDGAF vibe.
It was fun bantering with her and her friends. Mainly, my approach was to just be unreactive and not say too much. It was the type of situation where I didn’t need to be in the limelight, maybe because of the sexual energy between Jess and me. She inched her way towards me so that I put my hand around her hip. Good kino.
A guy who was hitting on one of the subordinates came around and both he and his buddy thought that Jess and I were together. This surprised me a little bit but of course makes perfect sense. I really just stood back and let her inch her way towards me. They went to get drinks and I didn’t move, testing to see what would happen – I figured it would’ve been awkward to just hover over with all of them.
Getting Friend’s Approval
She came back with a drink for me. We then migrated to another part of the bar where she sat on my lap for a little bit. We were now bantering in a circle with Jess and Katie, her close friend and subordinate. Here I was being perhaps a little bit too quiet – I think this situation required some exciting stories and for me to be the friendly life-of-the-party guy. Jess did ask me where I was staying and also told me about her living situation with her gay roommate (which later turned out not to be the full story).
I did speak with Katie: asked her about her interests and life, etc. When Jess went to the bathroom, Katie said:
After Jess came back, I led her away from the group to the bar where we sat next to each other. She told me:
I kept telling her that I’d like to meet her gay roommate, she wasn’t really having it. At this point it was around 2 AM and I told her that we should get out of there as things here were winding down. She protested just a little bit but I kept at it over the course of 10 minutes or so, so that at a certain point she just agreed. I took her by the hand and led her out of the club. She asked me if she needed to say bye to her coworkers, I said that it wasn’t necessary.
It was raining when we got out and Katie ran out to tell Jess that she forgot all her belongings. Haha.
The Car
We went to her car and she started to drive. She stopped at an empty intersection to think about where to turn and I put my hand around her shoulder, inched her closer to me, and started to make motions to kiss her, breathing heavily over her cheek, netc, etc (without actually kissing). She started to sigh heavily. We did this for a few minutes and then I told her to pull over since we were at an intersection. She started to drive and pulled into an empty parking lot. It was raining really hard, which actually worked in our favor.
As soon as she parked, I got out and got in the back seat (forgetting to push the passenger front seat all the way up). She stayed in the front and asked me what I was doing. I didn’t pay it no mind, just started to caress her and eventually, instead of just getting out, she crawled through from the drivers seat to the back and wound up on me. Unfortunately, I was so horny and my jeans were so cramped, etc that again (as has happened before), I came in my pants. I think this is not unexpected as I haven’t had sex in 2.5 months.
Of course, that made me lose the motivation. Though we kissed for another 5-10 minutes, I was not feeling it and then told her what had happened. She was fine with it. It was still raining hard and we fogged up the car, so it was perfect. We got fully naked in the backseat and just chilled, talking to each other.
We tried to get it on, but my dick wasn’t cooperating. She wanted to dance in the rain, so we put our clothes back on and Jess went out barefoot and pranced around. It was actually a really memorable moment, because she was really just expressing pure joy from prancing in the rain and jumping in puddles barefoot.
I kept persisting with trying to go to her home, but she then confided that she lived with her crazy mother. We were trying to figure out what to do when she said that she can get us into a hotel for free.
The Hotel
It took us some time to find the hotel. Jess was driving like a manic, with one finger on the bottom of the steering wheel and the other holding her phone for directions. We were driving in the right lane and I kept thinking we’re gonna hit the curb or hydroplane any minute. Well, at the worst, it would have made for a good story, I thought to myself. We got to the hotel and sorted the payment and parking situation out. It was a pretty luxurious room, perfect for us after being in the cramped car and under the rain.
As soon as she came back from the bathroom, I told her to stand. Immediately she closed her eyes. “Good girl”, I thought. I started to caress her all over while she was standing, telling her to keep her hands at her sides. I especially liked caressing her neck and grabbing It with a little force and running my fingers through long hair. She had a hard time resisting touching me back. I forbid her from doing it a couple of times, and then she said “let’s go on the bed” and I agreed.
I was pretty hard now. She took all her clothes off, I put on a condom and we fucked missionary / adapted missionary. It was quite good, and right in the beginning I almost came. But after about 10 minutes, I started to lose my erection. I’m not sure why that was happening – perhaps she wasn’t as pretty as I had initially thought (I noticed folds in her stomach when I put her legs over my shoulders while fucking her deep which I think is actually quite natural, also her titties were small). It was 5:30 AM and we were both pretty tired, so went to bed.
I woke up at 8:30 and decided to buy condoms (I only had 1 on me, for emergencies). I woke her up to initiate another round after I came back, but unfortunately I lost my erection again. If she hadn’t been sleeping, I would have told her to stand up and been forceful with her, that would have made me hard. But here, I didn’t know what do to. I couldn’t sleep (tried it for a little bit), so decided to leave.
I tried to give her money for the hotel parking when I was leaving, but she didn’t want it. All in all, she was a really fun girl, kind, confident and with a good sense of humor.
Lessons
1. Next time, when getting into the backseat, make it a game.
Now, it’s likely she will not do it, because this will come as a bit of a surprise. But, the benefit is that I wind up without the annoying constraints of pants in the backseat, and if a girl is into you, she will not resist you at least making out with her, etc.
2. Push the passenger seat all the way up after getting out.
3. I think at the very end, assplay would have made me quite horny. It helps to carry a little bit of lube (I have these portable 10 mL packets). If I had that, I could have fingered her ass, and that would probably have gotten me really horny.
4. Push pull really works. I was glad to be vague, teasing and mysterious at first and spilled the beans about myself (some, not all) only after we were already naked.
Let’s see if I get herpes in a 4-6 weeks. I did ask her about it and she said she gets tested, but she also had a bunch of acne on her face. Nothing really that looked like a clear cold sore, but sometimes they look like acne, as well.
All in all, she was a really fun girl, kind, confident laid-back and with a good sense of humor. I enjoyed my time with her.
I’m travelling now – I’m in a US town famous for its live music. Arrived at a hostel and went out right away. Hit up one place, it was pretty tame. Ventured into another joint, good live music, positive atmosphere. There weren’t too many ladies and everyone was basically listening to the music, so I decided to just hang back, enjoy myself and the scene. I was sitting on a stool with my back to the bar.
At a certain point a pretty touchy-feely couple came up and ordered drinks. They were right near me and blocking my view a bit, but I didn’t pay them any attention. I always get a feeling that it is improper to eye couples down, even though it is so intriguing to observe their facial expressions, etc.
Well, at a certain point the guy asked me where I was from. We got a convo going and when the girl went away, he told me that she’s an extremely annoying Tinder date and he’s trying to get rid of her. Haha.
We got to talking and he turned out to be a pretty cool cat, quite smart, worldly. He was on the fence about whether he wanted to ditch her or not, but finally pulled the trigger. He asked me if I wanted to join him in another bar he knew that’s geared more towards locals.
The Bar
I happily agreed. We took a cab there. I decided to just get a beer so that I would fit in and wouldn’t have to explain that I don’t drink. I was drinking it real slow. My buddy introduced me to some folks at the bar, many of them professional musicians. Everyone was friendly and it was generally a pleasant atmosphere. I was starting to feel a bit like a pussy because I wasn’t approaching, but this was the type of environment where shotgun approaching was a bit too much, as the bar was small.
I spotted this tall girl in a sexy dress. I saw her later talking to a bleach bombshell type and told my buddy that we’ll go talk to them. He followed my lead. I went in with a compliment opener and the girls were curious in talking to us. When the tall girl, who I will call Jess, asked how we know each other, my new friend immediately fired back with:
That got them intrigued. To myself, I was thinking, “yep, this is exactly the type of guy it would be fun to hang out and meet girls with”. He kept up the intrigue by accusing Jess, who was the leader, of racism. I was standing to the left of Jess, the blonde was across from me, and my friend was to the left. I could see the blonde girl getting bored – the convo turned a bit intellectual and was out of her league. I was thinking that she was really sexy and that I should somehow try to get with her, but we had already established the dynamic with Jess and I was next to her, so I stayed there.
We actually hadn’t introduced ourselves directly, and neither did I ask for her name, which lent the whole conversation an air of intrigue. I know what Chase writes about just getting the introduction over with to become more familiar with the person, but I think in certain situations it’s interesting to experiment with not know the name of the girl who you’re building a connection with. It creates an air of intrigue, I suppose.
The blonde bowed out a few minutes in, and my buddy then ejected, too. I continued the teasing and being mysterious with Jess, and it was working. Some of her other friends came around, and it turned out that she was their boss. She had an air of relaxed authority and IDGAF vibe.
It was fun bantering with her and her friends. Mainly, my approach was to just be unreactive and not say too much. It was the type of situation where I didn’t need to be in the limelight, maybe because of the sexual energy between Jess and me. She inched her way towards me so that I put my hand around her hip. Good kino.
A guy who was hitting on one of the subordinates came around and both he and his buddy thought that Jess and I were together. This surprised me a little bit but of course makes perfect sense. I really just stood back and let her inch her way towards me. They went to get drinks and I didn’t move, testing to see what would happen – I figured it would’ve been awkward to just hover over with all of them.
Getting Friend’s Approval
She came back with a drink for me. We then migrated to another part of the bar where she sat on my lap for a little bit. We were now bantering in a circle with Jess and Katie, her close friend and subordinate. Here I was being perhaps a little bit too quiet – I think this situation required some exciting stories and for me to be the friendly life-of-the-party guy. Jess did ask me where I was staying and also told me about her living situation with her gay roommate (which later turned out not to be the full story).
I did speak with Katie: asked her about her interests and life, etc. When Jess went to the bathroom, Katie said:
After Jess came back, I led her away from the group to the bar where we sat next to each other. She told me:
I kept telling her that I’d like to meet her gay roommate, she wasn’t really having it. At this point it was around 2 AM and I told her that we should get out of there as things here were winding down. She protested just a little bit but I kept at it over the course of 10 minutes or so, so that at a certain point she just agreed. I took her by the hand and led her out of the club. She asked me if she needed to say bye to her coworkers, I said that it wasn’t necessary.
It was raining when we got out and Katie ran out to tell Jess that she forgot all her belongings. Haha.
The Car
We went to her car and she started to drive. She stopped at an empty intersection to think about where to turn and I put my hand around her shoulder, inched her closer to me, and started to make motions to kiss her, breathing heavily over her cheek, netc, etc (without actually kissing). She started to sigh heavily. We did this for a few minutes and then I told her to pull over since we were at an intersection. She started to drive and pulled into an empty parking lot. It was raining really hard, which actually worked in our favor.
As soon as she parked, I got out and got in the back seat (forgetting to push the passenger front seat all the way up). She stayed in the front and asked me what I was doing. I didn’t pay it no mind, just started to caress her and eventually, instead of just getting out, she crawled through from the drivers seat to the back and wound up on me. Unfortunately, I was so horny and my jeans were so cramped, etc that again (as has happened before), I came in my pants. I think this is not unexpected as I haven’t had sex in 2.5 months.
Of course, that made me lose the motivation. Though we kissed for another 5-10 minutes, I was not feeling it and then told her what had happened. She was fine with it. It was still raining hard and we fogged up the car, so it was perfect. We got fully naked in the backseat and just chilled, talking to each other.
We tried to get it on, but my dick wasn’t cooperating. She wanted to dance in the rain, so we put our clothes back on and Jess went out barefoot and pranced around. It was actually a really memorable moment, because she was really just expressing pure joy from prancing in the rain and jumping in puddles barefoot.
I kept persisting with trying to go to her home, but she then confided that she lived with her crazy mother. We were trying to figure out what to do when she said that she can get us into a hotel for free.
The Hotel
It took us some time to find the hotel. Jess was driving like a manic, with one finger on the bottom of the steering wheel and the other holding her phone for directions. We were driving in the right lane and I kept thinking we’re gonna hit the curb or hydroplane any minute. Well, at the worst, it would have made for a good story, I thought to myself. We got to the hotel and sorted the payment and parking situation out. It was a pretty luxurious room, perfect for us after being in the cramped car and under the rain.
As soon as she came back from the bathroom, I told her to stand. Immediately she closed her eyes. “Good girl”, I thought. I started to caress her all over while she was standing, telling her to keep her hands at her sides. I especially liked caressing her neck and grabbing It with a little force and running my fingers through long hair. She had a hard time resisting touching me back. I forbid her from doing it a couple of times, and then she said “let’s go on the bed” and I agreed.
I was pretty hard now. She took all her clothes off, I put on a condom and we fucked missionary / adapted missionary. It was quite good, and right in the beginning I almost came. But after about 10 minutes, I started to lose my erection. I’m not sure why that was happening – perhaps she wasn’t as pretty as I had initially thought (I noticed folds in her stomach when I put her legs over my shoulders while fucking her deep which I think is actually quite natural, also her titties were small). It was 5:30 AM and we were both pretty tired, so went to bed.
I woke up at 8:30 and decided to buy condoms (I only had 1 on me, for emergencies). I woke her up to initiate another round after I came back, but unfortunately I lost my erection again. If she hadn’t been sleeping, I would have told her to stand up and been forceful with her, that would have made me hard. But here, I didn’t know what do to. I couldn’t sleep (tried it for a little bit), so decided to leave.
I tried to give her money for the hotel parking when I was leaving, but she didn’t want it. All in all, she was a really fun girl, kind, confident and with a good sense of humor.
Lessons
1. Next time, when getting into the backseat, make it a game.
Now, it’s likely she will not do it, because this will come as a bit of a surprise. But, the benefit is that I wind up without the annoying constraints of pants in the backseat, and if a girl is into you, she will not resist you at least making out with her, etc.
2. Push the passenger seat all the way up after getting out.
3. I think at the very end, assplay would have made me quite horny. It helps to carry a little bit of lube (I have these portable 10 mL packets). If I had that, I could have fingered her ass, and that would probably have gotten me really horny.
4. Push pull really works. I was glad to be vague, teasing and mysterious at first and spilled the beans about myself (some, not all) only after we were already naked.
Let’s see if I get herpes in a 4-6 weeks. I did ask her about it and she said she gets tested, but she also had a bunch of acne on her face. Nothing really that looked like a clear cold sore, but sometimes they look like acne, as well.
All in all, she was a really fun girl, kind, confident laid-back and with a good sense of humor. I enjoyed my time with her.
