I was out last weekend, and started conversation with a girl, who was into me and invited me to join her table. Things were going good, and initiated some touching. We then were on our way to grab some food, when she called me a "Player". This wouldn't be the first time being called a Player, and just smirked off the comment. I really didn't know to take the comment as a good thing or a bad thing, or what I did to give off a player vibe. What do you guys think about it? Good thing, bad thing? What do you do to give off this impression?
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Its a very good thing. You want to be known and viewed as a 'player', it says a lot of your vibe, fundamentals, and preselection. I don't mean be a player as in hurt and cheat on girls, but more of a ladies man who has respect but also dominance. Its important that a girl sees you this way, and its a sign to move things forward.
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Hugh,
Sometimes, when you been given the label, it can either meant good or bad, but progressively, you not "there" yet. However, Don't take the "there" yet as critic. It's something that i notice everyone goes through in his development, even normal guys who don't know dating so much.
I suggest asking different girl friends to tell them what they think about you being labelled that, in a casual way. Gauge roughly what they saying behind it.
Zac
Hugh said:
Sometimes, when you been given the label, it can either meant good or bad, but progressively, you not "there" yet. However, Don't take the "there" yet as critic. It's something that i notice everyone goes through in his development, even normal guys who don't know dating so much.
I suggest asking different girl friends to tell them what they think about you being labelled that, in a casual way. Gauge roughly what they saying behind it.
Zac