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Chase wrote an excellent article on what to do what an ex is around, but i'm having difficulty actually practicing it. We're 4 weeks into a new uni term and she is new around here. She hooked up in first week with a guy who then dumped her a week later but now wants to be with her again. I came along last week, went over to her place on a second date, made out but didn't have sex (she says its too complicated and I made to rookie mistake of not pursuing at the time). So after three days of flaking (because i tried to get her to come to my place), she agreed to some coffee. I did some deep-diving and found out about all this stuff and how its stressing her out. Walked home with her but didn't convince her to come over to my place.
From the signs she is definitely interested in me for something else than just a friend (although she has tried to put me in that category - which I refused), but too afraid to meet me in private because of what happened last time as the other guy occupies a bigger role in her life due to already having had sex.
So, how do I make the final push and get her to my room? I'm confident I can escalate and and get intimate with her in this case, but obviously need to get her there first. Last time my pulling was purely verbally and i'm thinking that i'll need to get physical for the final push.
In short, what is the strongest possible push you can think of that would get her to agree to move from my front door to my bed?
From the signs she is definitely interested in me for something else than just a friend (although she has tried to put me in that category - which I refused), but too afraid to meet me in private because of what happened last time as the other guy occupies a bigger role in her life due to already having had sex.
So, how do I make the final push and get her to my room? I'm confident I can escalate and and get intimate with her in this case, but obviously need to get her there first. Last time my pulling was purely verbally and i'm thinking that i'll need to get physical for the final push.
In short, what is the strongest possible push you can think of that would get her to agree to move from my front door to my bed?
