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Yo,
I've been out night gaming all week and have been getting way better at ditching any approach anxiety / making friends for the night. Got some numbers and dates set up for next week, too.
My good friend is exceptionally good looking (girls turn their heads and show IOI's out the wazoo).
Yet, he has crippling approach anxiety, and can't hang at all with my social circle game (when I'm out I almost always see people I know, mostly from greek life or my home town).
Last night and the night before I essentially forced him to approach, then approached a different pair of girls myself after he did. We both got numbers, and he himself got booty called after we left bars! Really happy for him.
What we've been doing is okay, but I'd like to explore options of tackling two girls at the same time.
Given that he's an exceptionally good looking beginner, and I'm a moderately good looking intermediate, what's a solid understanding to have in creating the connection with 2+ girls at a time?
Since he's open to being told what to do/coached (I've helped him with texting and openers, although I'm way too inexperienced to be a coach coach), what might be a good "role" for him in us wingmanning?
I've tried introducing him to pairs of chicks and his anxiety stops him from engaging in any conversation, leaving me to do all the talking and lead. That's only been 2-3 times we've even attempted, so it might just be a matter of practice. I'm more used to riding solo, so even though I have to witness the deconstruction of whatever vibe we opened with it doesn't effect me emotionally. Sometimes I consider leaving him behind and moving the girl I'm interested in. Really I just think if we did things with somewhat of a loose plan we'd be better off.
Any insight appreciated.
Hueman
I've been out night gaming all week and have been getting way better at ditching any approach anxiety / making friends for the night. Got some numbers and dates set up for next week, too.
My good friend is exceptionally good looking (girls turn their heads and show IOI's out the wazoo).
Yet, he has crippling approach anxiety, and can't hang at all with my social circle game (when I'm out I almost always see people I know, mostly from greek life or my home town).
Last night and the night before I essentially forced him to approach, then approached a different pair of girls myself after he did. We both got numbers, and he himself got booty called after we left bars! Really happy for him.
What we've been doing is okay, but I'd like to explore options of tackling two girls at the same time.
Given that he's an exceptionally good looking beginner, and I'm a moderately good looking intermediate, what's a solid understanding to have in creating the connection with 2+ girls at a time?
Since he's open to being told what to do/coached (I've helped him with texting and openers, although I'm way too inexperienced to be a coach coach), what might be a good "role" for him in us wingmanning?
I've tried introducing him to pairs of chicks and his anxiety stops him from engaging in any conversation, leaving me to do all the talking and lead. That's only been 2-3 times we've even attempted, so it might just be a matter of practice. I'm more used to riding solo, so even though I have to witness the deconstruction of whatever vibe we opened with it doesn't effect me emotionally. Sometimes I consider leaving him behind and moving the girl I'm interested in. Really I just think if we did things with somewhat of a loose plan we'd be better off.
Any insight appreciated.
Hueman
